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ssup brothers, l had hoped this would be a LR but it wasnt meant to be. This was to me a very unusual interaction but one am hoping will be a stepping stone in understanding and bettering my game. I really hope some of you can chip and advice.
Background
Last week l head to the library, going to do some research for class. As am sitting here, l can see there are a lot of girls who l could approach but am feeling like a pussy coz of the library rules and administration rules. Then as am busy typing out my shit, l see a pair of cute legs appear in my periphery, and l do the slow turn to see this cute little minx looking at me and smiling. She says hi, and just so happens to know me. I can't remember her for the life of me, coz l approach like 5 girls everyday. but she tells me we happen to have a mutual friend. So l immediately take the opportunity to start getting to know more about her. I go through her phone as we talk and this girl is more open minded than most and she opens up quickly. Let me describe her character more as l think its more important to the story than her looks. This girl is bubbly, like giggle like a 4 year old, pout like a six year old and shrugging her shoulders like a 8 year old who's being selfish kind of bubbly. She tends to use a childish tone often but is intimidatingly intelligent. Shes also a very open minded kind of chick. So l grab her number after her playing coy for a while and we organize a meet up for the next week.
later on, the mutual friend gets in contact with me and tells me she had been told all about our interaction and about me sharing the Nancy Friday book and what not. But nothing negative and this girl boosts my CV abit with her friend coz she knows what am about.
Now we had arranged to meet up on Wednesday. it rolls up and when l contact her she tells me we meet up at 4, no problem. 4 comes up. Nothing. 5, 6 and still nothing. at this time am distracting myself and actually land up a chick way cuter than the flake but who is in a rlshp that she is currently taking seriously, too bad, but am keeping the number.
So l get a message from the mutual friend saying the flake had told her to tell me she would be late and that her phone is off. i don't sweat it. That evening, get loads of apologies and she says she'll make it up to me this friday. and l had a date this friday with another cuter chick who unfortunately is a bit young and l have a feeling will take to long to get things rolling so l decide to let flakey have another chance, l have a good feeling about this one.
Friday
Friday rolls up and this girl texts me asking whether we could meet up earlier than the scheduled 2 o'clock and l say yea my class ends at 12. But l ditch that class for my best friend who happens to be a girl who knows all about the PUA stuff am into. Flakey comes to where me and my b.f are and tells me shes avoiding her friends who are telling her they should go raving but shes not feeling it. So we all head towards the stage as flakey opens up more. My bf likes her. and signals that am getting some.
Me and her head to my place, and the vehicle takes an unexpected turn and she starts freaking out. like a 6 year old. l thought its just her being silly but lord it was annoying. Get to my place and all hell breaks loose.
Am not allowed to get sexual with her. she watches my porn and we talk about fetishes and this girl is dirty and am liking it. I thought it was LMR but this was the a whole new ball game. Its not even fucking friendzone. its difficult to explain, but it was annoying as hell. Now l try to get more comfort and delve into her past and this girl has seen some shit.
Quick overview
This girl's family used to be rich. Like seriously rich, that is in terms of Africa. used to have long ass vacations in resorts and all that. Then her dad was caught embezzling funds a few years back and shit hit the fun. They went from being rich as hell to barely surviving. Cash became a problem where previously it had been a non entity. Even as she had come to my place she had had no money for heading back. I didn't even know it was that bad. But the funny thing is, the rich lifestyle that she had been raised in was still stuck in her head.
I give her my version of childhood, being the complete opposite, born and raised in 2 of the worst slums in Africa as my family started getting up slowly up the ladder. This is a story not even my B.F knows that well. but l open up in order to show that l know where they are and l understand. But the funny thing is, this girl actually looks down on me. Not intentionaly like showing it to my face, but imagine meeting a queen. she would say a lot of mean things but she doesn't realize just how seriously offensive it is.
Anyway, we have lunch, watch porn, talk about sex adventures, talk about fetishes, dance and grind, she removes her pants but then puts them back them on, removes her bra but seriously doesn't want me anywhere close. This goes on till she tells me that l should look at her twerking and not get turned on so that l can advice her what she's doing wrong. Thats when it hits me that this is going no where and l immediately turn off, take up my phone and surfs girlschase to see Anatman being ridden in a basement XD
Conclusion
didn't get laid, not really worried about that. it happens to the best of us. But after all this when l tell this girl that am not really looking for new friends, she asks me why l can't treat her the same way l treat my best friend. She is actually dissapointed that l don't want her as a friend. i don't know, this was just weird.
Take aways
This girl would have been a fun lay. But it just didn't work out or feel right.
Examples of what she said when we were opening up to each other:
"I don't know how to talk to poor people."
After seeing my apartment, which am actually quite proud of though it doesn't have a bed just my huge mattress which is on the floor that girls love having on the floor she says :"wow, you have really started low, but don't worry, you be rich one day"
After seeing my clothes folded " are these all your clothes? where are the rest? gosh!"
talking about an ex of hers who used to live in an area next to the slums l was born in but wasn't that bad : "after dating that guy l decided that am never dating lower than that guy"
All this coming from a girl who after being sent some cash from her dad she had to call to ask where he had gotten enough money to send her. Sigh.
for those of you who know about the cube routine, let me tell you her answers so that you can get a better understanding of her thinking.
THe cube: about six feet tall, which would have been healthy, if she hadn't added that she's hidding inside it and peeking out of it
THe Stallion : huge charming and stubborn, all good, only that she's on top of the horse and it for carrying her away
THe storm : its a tornado that will wipe everything away.
Background
Last week l head to the library, going to do some research for class. As am sitting here, l can see there are a lot of girls who l could approach but am feeling like a pussy coz of the library rules and administration rules. Then as am busy typing out my shit, l see a pair of cute legs appear in my periphery, and l do the slow turn to see this cute little minx looking at me and smiling. She says hi, and just so happens to know me. I can't remember her for the life of me, coz l approach like 5 girls everyday. but she tells me we happen to have a mutual friend. So l immediately take the opportunity to start getting to know more about her. I go through her phone as we talk and this girl is more open minded than most and she opens up quickly. Let me describe her character more as l think its more important to the story than her looks. This girl is bubbly, like giggle like a 4 year old, pout like a six year old and shrugging her shoulders like a 8 year old who's being selfish kind of bubbly. She tends to use a childish tone often but is intimidatingly intelligent. Shes also a very open minded kind of chick. So l grab her number after her playing coy for a while and we organize a meet up for the next week.
later on, the mutual friend gets in contact with me and tells me she had been told all about our interaction and about me sharing the Nancy Friday book and what not. But nothing negative and this girl boosts my CV abit with her friend coz she knows what am about.
Now we had arranged to meet up on Wednesday. it rolls up and when l contact her she tells me we meet up at 4, no problem. 4 comes up. Nothing. 5, 6 and still nothing. at this time am distracting myself and actually land up a chick way cuter than the flake but who is in a rlshp that she is currently taking seriously, too bad, but am keeping the number.
So l get a message from the mutual friend saying the flake had told her to tell me she would be late and that her phone is off. i don't sweat it. That evening, get loads of apologies and she says she'll make it up to me this friday. and l had a date this friday with another cuter chick who unfortunately is a bit young and l have a feeling will take to long to get things rolling so l decide to let flakey have another chance, l have a good feeling about this one.
Friday
Friday rolls up and this girl texts me asking whether we could meet up earlier than the scheduled 2 o'clock and l say yea my class ends at 12. But l ditch that class for my best friend who happens to be a girl who knows all about the PUA stuff am into. Flakey comes to where me and my b.f are and tells me shes avoiding her friends who are telling her they should go raving but shes not feeling it. So we all head towards the stage as flakey opens up more. My bf likes her. and signals that am getting some.
Me and her head to my place, and the vehicle takes an unexpected turn and she starts freaking out. like a 6 year old. l thought its just her being silly but lord it was annoying. Get to my place and all hell breaks loose.
Am not allowed to get sexual with her. she watches my porn and we talk about fetishes and this girl is dirty and am liking it. I thought it was LMR but this was the a whole new ball game. Its not even fucking friendzone. its difficult to explain, but it was annoying as hell. Now l try to get more comfort and delve into her past and this girl has seen some shit.
Quick overview
This girl's family used to be rich. Like seriously rich, that is in terms of Africa. used to have long ass vacations in resorts and all that. Then her dad was caught embezzling funds a few years back and shit hit the fun. They went from being rich as hell to barely surviving. Cash became a problem where previously it had been a non entity. Even as she had come to my place she had had no money for heading back. I didn't even know it was that bad. But the funny thing is, the rich lifestyle that she had been raised in was still stuck in her head.
I give her my version of childhood, being the complete opposite, born and raised in 2 of the worst slums in Africa as my family started getting up slowly up the ladder. This is a story not even my B.F knows that well. but l open up in order to show that l know where they are and l understand. But the funny thing is, this girl actually looks down on me. Not intentionaly like showing it to my face, but imagine meeting a queen. she would say a lot of mean things but she doesn't realize just how seriously offensive it is.
Anyway, we have lunch, watch porn, talk about sex adventures, talk about fetishes, dance and grind, she removes her pants but then puts them back them on, removes her bra but seriously doesn't want me anywhere close. This goes on till she tells me that l should look at her twerking and not get turned on so that l can advice her what she's doing wrong. Thats when it hits me that this is going no where and l immediately turn off, take up my phone and surfs girlschase to see Anatman being ridden in a basement XD
Conclusion
didn't get laid, not really worried about that. it happens to the best of us. But after all this when l tell this girl that am not really looking for new friends, she asks me why l can't treat her the same way l treat my best friend. She is actually dissapointed that l don't want her as a friend. i don't know, this was just weird.
Take aways
This girl would have been a fun lay. But it just didn't work out or feel right.
Examples of what she said when we were opening up to each other:
"I don't know how to talk to poor people."
After seeing my apartment, which am actually quite proud of though it doesn't have a bed just my huge mattress which is on the floor that girls love having on the floor she says :"wow, you have really started low, but don't worry, you be rich one day"
After seeing my clothes folded " are these all your clothes? where are the rest? gosh!"
talking about an ex of hers who used to live in an area next to the slums l was born in but wasn't that bad : "after dating that guy l decided that am never dating lower than that guy"
All this coming from a girl who after being sent some cash from her dad she had to call to ask where he had gotten enough money to send her. Sigh.
for those of you who know about the cube routine, let me tell you her answers so that you can get a better understanding of her thinking.
THe cube: about six feet tall, which would have been healthy, if she hadn't added that she's hidding inside it and peeking out of it
THe Stallion : huge charming and stubborn, all good, only that she's on top of the horse and it for carrying her away
THe storm : its a tornado that will wipe everything away.
