FR Rough back into the night

[Kratos]

Recently I got hired to a new job, it's remote and I work 8-4pm. I live in Mexico. My life the past month has been nothing but boring office work, and my momentum fell of a cliff. This weekend I decided to try out an idea; get a room in the party area and try my hand in night game on the weekends.

I "grew up" in seduction as a night gamer but have been focusing more on day game these days. That being said, I'm not new to night game. I just prefer day game because I drank my liver to death in my early 20s lol (I'm 28). Anyways, there's some context. Now, Let's get into my first deliberate night game outing in a few years.

PRE GAME:

I decided to pre game at a wine bar I enjoy and am comfortable in. This is because as the time to actually follow through came, I was tired and really didn't want to go out. I needed a foot in the door and I usually go here anyways to relax, so I figured my state would change by the time I was a little wine drunk and in a social environment. Also, I had just got back from a beach date that was really boring so my mood was even more shit.

Nothing happened here, I almost approved a tranny but figured out it was indeed a dude and not a chick. (Tip: sometimes they start sitting like dudes with their legs spread and slouching. Almost like forgetting to act feminine. It can be tricky to figure out sometimes. A rule I have work a friend is the feeling of being confused is the red flag in itself. Usually pretty reliable.).

STREET GAME AND BAR

After this, I checked into my room in the party area. It is literally across the street from all of the clubs and bars. Perfect location. My actually apartment is pretty far from anything and I've had issues bringing girls back in the past. Being able to just walk outside and see hundreds of women dressed like they're ready to take some dick is motivating and exciting.

I walked up and down the street, looking for a street approach. Most women were with groups of dudes and girls, so I didn't really go for anything. I've approached groups and duos of females on the street before but not groups mixed with dudes. Don't wanna deal with territorial bs.

I made my way to the first bar. Small venue, mostly dudes. I ordered wine because I was already drinking wine and don't want to mix wine with beer. Here, there is a potential social frame issue? Mexicans always drink beer on the weekends. This isn't racist, it's literally a part of their culture. So I got some interesting/funny looks. Could generation some weak intrigue form the women, or make them feel alienated from me social frame wise. I'll have to experiment with this. There was two girls at a table I should have approached. I noticed them while I was walking through the venue, but thought they might be with dudes. I also didn't really have a smooth way of opening. I should have pinged her while walking past to test for any compliance/interest. I forgot what Alek calls this, but it's basically a way of approaching without damaging your social frame.

ROOFTOP CLUB

I left there and went on my way to this rooftop, higher end club. While I was ordering my drink, there was a group of three next to me. One girl was trying to get my attention, dancing near me and flipping her hair. Black dress, long straight black hair, petite body, c cup tits prob and a nice handful of ass. After a minute I tapped her on the arm and asked her where she's from.

Her:"I'm from here"
Me:"Oh okay, like here I'm (city), or just Mexico?"
Her"Mexico. And you"
Me:"where do you think? Try to guess"
Her: "I don't know, USA"
Me: "yeah, but people usually tell me something different"
Her: "oh really"

The convo ended after that. It was very brief. She went back to her friends. I didn't do any other approaches while there. It was just getting busy at midnight, and I was tired. Some young dude spilled my wine glass and profoundly apologized, I said no worries bro it happens it's just wine. Homie didn't even by me a new drink. Kids these days LOL.

If I stayed, I could have reengaged that girl or opened some other chicks. It was the beginning of the night after all. I was just so tired and not used to night game, and low momentum.

I can tell my day game strategies and approaches are bleeding into my night game, and not mixing well. It'll probably take some time to adjust. Just the way things are sometimes.

I'm going out again tonight, I'll try some new venues and maybe head back to that rooftop club at the end of the night.

So there's my shitty night out. I hope someone can extract something useful from my decisions last night.

 

[average_daygamer]

This is a very relatable field report. And well done for gaming in Mexico, I would be far too afraid of approaching the wrong girl and getting shot in the head.

The useful part I did extract was a dose of reality of relatable reality instead of all of these lay reports.

I am also struggling with the concept of mixing daytime style approaches at night.

The girls are too interested in the promise of alcohol, bright lights and broken dreams. They dream of a suave and handsome guy approaching them inside the venue, not outside, on the street, like some weird creep who is not allowed inside.

So when trying to go up to them on the street, there is a very low success rate.

And it does not bring you in proximity of the girls like the club does, you can appear to make less effort in the club due to the proximity already being close.

In street night game, you have to deliberately make a beeline to approach the girl(s) and they are usually in big groups which are hard to stop.