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Recently I’ve made huge leaps and strides in my game. I realized that I was still for the most part a dumbass who just asks boring questions all the damn time.
When I started going off on tangents about fun stuff like my dog or whatever(even though it didn’t seem right to me) I had better results.
But the thing that is really gonna help are routines. Routines have shown me what I should aim for in an interaction and using Mystery Method’s model I understand how an interaction should play out.
Of course I am prepared to improvise but all these years I’ve lacked the understanding that the M3 model provides.
Beginning
I decided to get my ass to the bars, even though I’ve never liked them I needed to
The difference this time would be that I was that I memorized an entire routine stack to get me through talking to groups of people before(something I’ve avoided for 4 years).
I get into the bar for free thanks to my bouncer friend and take a look around. It’s dead at the moment but there is one 3 set that I see with marginally attractive women.
I open one of them with a direct opener
Me: Hi pause
Her: Hi!
Me: I have a rule that if I see someone attractive I have to say hello, I’m Brandon.
Her: I’m Girl A
I used some other canned material before she left with her friends, I think if I had bantered better she would have stayed but she was meh looking anyway.
The sets I want to talk about more are the other two I had.
Set #1-
I opened a set of 4 girls(first time!) and used Neil Struasses Indirect “Jealous Girlfriend” Opener
Here’s a picture of it(much easier than typing)>
http://screencast.com/t/rmphaVJ4Amkq
While doing this I tried my best to body rock and make it seem like I was on my way.
The girl I targeted was into however I made a fatal mistake in that I didn’t give her enough attention.(plus one of her friends was cuter). After the opener was done she walked away to some friends.
I should have looked at her more in the eyes instead of giving eye contact equally to all her friends.
Set #2
This was a 4 set, 3 girls and one guy. I walked up the side of the girl sitting against the bar(who’s my target) and I do the same jealous girlfriend opener as above.
Body-rocking… check… they continue to not face their bodies toward me, I face my body away as well…
In fact I thought this set was a goner but I plowed on.
I get the opener done and then I go for banter but I don’t touch her before I say…
Me: Ok, let me see you flirt
Girl: ?
Me: That was terrible, I actually turned gay for second
She seems a little confused but smiles, I then say
Me: haha you guys are chill, you’re ok with a complete stranger walking up and saying hi
It doesn't seem to be going amazing but I keep going anyway.
Then I go into my DHV/attraction routine. I really like this since it feels natural for me due to me liking NLP>>
Here it is>>> http://screencast.com/t/jGPndhcQeJiH
Now I actually changed this^^ since that is not proper NLP at all but I kept the ideal location part.
In fact the critical moment came after I asked “So what is your idea vacation spot”
My target says Thailand and we start talking about that and I make 2 critical mistakes…
1. I wasn’t locked in, she was leaning against the bar, I was in front, NOT GOOD
2. As I started talking to her about Thailand, the full moon party…. I started leaning in hardcore, it looked week.
And lo and behold her friends decide to go, she goes with them but tells me not to move. I wait for like 2 minutes and realize she ain’t coming back so I go(maybe she did come back, I’ll never know lol)
Then I find the girl I’m gonna fuck.
Set #3:
I see this cute Latina walk up to the bar and wait to order a drink. I saddle up next to her. She’s having trouble getting the bartenders attention. I know the guy and I see a great opportunity for pre-selection.
I call the guy over and get him to take her order(if I see him tonight I’m gonna tip him like I should of yesterday).
I introduce myself and I think I tell her she’s cute or whatever, I have my hands on her already and I think I use a banter line(I forget lol)
The bartender brings over 2 cherry bombs, she takes one and pours into the other<<< well okay
It’s fuzzy now but I think I do the NLP DHV technique, I then qualify afterwards by asking if she’s adventuress/spontaneous.
After she qualifies herself, I tell her she’s interesting and that I want to know more about her. Her head is getting closer to mind and we kiss.
I immediately tease saying “we’re just friends, stop”
After this she tells me that when she finishes her drink, she’s heading to the dance floor. Not good.
I hate the dancefloor, not my thing so I quickly calculated I had 3 options.
1. Go against and risk fighting her<< bad
2. Get lead by her to the dancefloor<< worse
3. Lead her to the dancefloor for like 5 then get the fuck out of there<< Great
I choose #3- we go, dance al ittle, I bite her neck/turn her on then pull her out of there and we head to the pizza parlor and sit in a booth together.
She puts her legs over mine and we talk some more.
I begin thinking about the “secret self” routine of Neil Strauss I memorized to start building a connection but I say fuck it and we talk about travelling and how awesome it is.
Naturally we start kissing again, I tease and then she says” So can we go fuck in the bathroom”<<< Mkay
I don’t lead her to the bathroom in the parlor(too risky) or the bar we were in(fuck no) and head to my place.
WE bang, once again condoms make me go soft(trying to fix this) and I raw dog before I blow my load all over her face.
Twas a fun night and more happened afterwards, I was walking her to the rat when we ran into her alcoholic friend being cared for by random strangers because he smashed his head on the pavement…
But this is a whole other story…
Anyway: What I learned…
1. Routines are kickass, I’m gonna use them until I graduate and by then I should be able to come up with my own kickass stuff from my personality.
2. DON’T FOOKIN LEAN IN
3. Keep on going
When I started going off on tangents about fun stuff like my dog or whatever(even though it didn’t seem right to me) I had better results.
But the thing that is really gonna help are routines. Routines have shown me what I should aim for in an interaction and using Mystery Method’s model I understand how an interaction should play out.
Of course I am prepared to improvise but all these years I’ve lacked the understanding that the M3 model provides.
Beginning
I decided to get my ass to the bars, even though I’ve never liked them I needed to
The difference this time would be that I was that I memorized an entire routine stack to get me through talking to groups of people before(something I’ve avoided for 4 years).
I get into the bar for free thanks to my bouncer friend and take a look around. It’s dead at the moment but there is one 3 set that I see with marginally attractive women.
I open one of them with a direct opener
Me: Hi pause
Her: Hi!
Me: I have a rule that if I see someone attractive I have to say hello, I’m Brandon.
Her: I’m Girl A
I used some other canned material before she left with her friends, I think if I had bantered better she would have stayed but she was meh looking anyway.
The sets I want to talk about more are the other two I had.
Set #1-
I opened a set of 4 girls(first time!) and used Neil Struasses Indirect “Jealous Girlfriend” Opener
Here’s a picture of it(much easier than typing)>
http://screencast.com/t/rmphaVJ4Amkq
While doing this I tried my best to body rock and make it seem like I was on my way.
The girl I targeted was into however I made a fatal mistake in that I didn’t give her enough attention.(plus one of her friends was cuter). After the opener was done she walked away to some friends.
I should have looked at her more in the eyes instead of giving eye contact equally to all her friends.
Set #2
This was a 4 set, 3 girls and one guy. I walked up the side of the girl sitting against the bar(who’s my target) and I do the same jealous girlfriend opener as above.
Body-rocking… check… they continue to not face their bodies toward me, I face my body away as well…
In fact I thought this set was a goner but I plowed on.
I get the opener done and then I go for banter but I don’t touch her before I say…
Me: Ok, let me see you flirt
Girl: ?
Me: That was terrible, I actually turned gay for second
She seems a little confused but smiles, I then say
Me: haha you guys are chill, you’re ok with a complete stranger walking up and saying hi
It doesn't seem to be going amazing but I keep going anyway.
Then I go into my DHV/attraction routine. I really like this since it feels natural for me due to me liking NLP>>
Here it is>>> http://screencast.com/t/jGPndhcQeJiH
Now I actually changed this^^ since that is not proper NLP at all but I kept the ideal location part.
In fact the critical moment came after I asked “So what is your idea vacation spot”
My target says Thailand and we start talking about that and I make 2 critical mistakes…
1. I wasn’t locked in, she was leaning against the bar, I was in front, NOT GOOD
2. As I started talking to her about Thailand, the full moon party…. I started leaning in hardcore, it looked week.
And lo and behold her friends decide to go, she goes with them but tells me not to move. I wait for like 2 minutes and realize she ain’t coming back so I go(maybe she did come back, I’ll never know lol)
Then I find the girl I’m gonna fuck.
Set #3:
I see this cute Latina walk up to the bar and wait to order a drink. I saddle up next to her. She’s having trouble getting the bartenders attention. I know the guy and I see a great opportunity for pre-selection.
I call the guy over and get him to take her order(if I see him tonight I’m gonna tip him like I should of yesterday).
I introduce myself and I think I tell her she’s cute or whatever, I have my hands on her already and I think I use a banter line(I forget lol)
The bartender brings over 2 cherry bombs, she takes one and pours into the other<<< well okay
It’s fuzzy now but I think I do the NLP DHV technique, I then qualify afterwards by asking if she’s adventuress/spontaneous.
After she qualifies herself, I tell her she’s interesting and that I want to know more about her. Her head is getting closer to mind and we kiss.
I immediately tease saying “we’re just friends, stop”
After this she tells me that when she finishes her drink, she’s heading to the dance floor. Not good.
I hate the dancefloor, not my thing so I quickly calculated I had 3 options.
1. Go against and risk fighting her<< bad
2. Get lead by her to the dancefloor<< worse
3. Lead her to the dancefloor for like 5 then get the fuck out of there<< Great
I choose #3- we go, dance al ittle, I bite her neck/turn her on then pull her out of there and we head to the pizza parlor and sit in a booth together.
She puts her legs over mine and we talk some more.
I begin thinking about the “secret self” routine of Neil Strauss I memorized to start building a connection but I say fuck it and we talk about travelling and how awesome it is.
Naturally we start kissing again, I tease and then she says” So can we go fuck in the bathroom”<<< Mkay
I don’t lead her to the bathroom in the parlor(too risky) or the bar we were in(fuck no) and head to my place.
WE bang, once again condoms make me go soft(trying to fix this) and I raw dog before I blow my load all over her face.
Twas a fun night and more happened afterwards, I was walking her to the rat when we ran into her alcoholic friend being cared for by random strangers because he smashed his head on the pavement…
But this is a whole other story…
Anyway: What I learned…
1. Routines are kickass, I’m gonna use them until I graduate and by then I should be able to come up with my own kickass stuff from my personality.
2. DON’T FOOKIN LEAN IN
3. Keep on going
