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Salamence's Newbie Assignment. V.2

Salamence

Space Monkey
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Hey guys i will be starting the newbie assignment once again.
I stopped during the first attempt.
A little about me before i start this journal.
I was a morbidly obese person who eat his ass off all day and stayed at home all day.
I would eat my troubles away, and hoping one day that i can get the things i want. (One of my goals is to get with girls)
I first decided to lose weight, thanks to the members on this site on weight loss and workouts.
I lost over 100 pounds.
Even after i lost the weight i never approached women and i gained a few pounds back.
I felt my old self slowly crawling back but i'm not going down that road again.
So that's why i'm here writing up this journal :)
Hopefully this expierence can get my life going the way i want it to go.
And hopefully this newbie assignment can help out any other members get going aswell.
 

Doctor

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Salamence said:
I lost over 100 pounds.

That's amazing! Well done! I bet that took some dedication!

Anyway just wanted to add a message of support, good luck with the assignment, we are all rooting for you!

-Doctor
 

Salamence

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Day 1. Observation.
I'm suppose to find 4 different places where i can meet women.
1. Shopping Mall near my house. (lots of diverse women)
2. My school Campus
3. Another shopping mall (luckily i live near more than one shopping mall :D)
4. The classroom.
5. Online (I'm going to put more effort into the top 4 because it is more in person.)
I will be going out to my nearby shopping malls this weekend and try out the Posture assignment.
 

Salamence

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Doctor said:
Salamence said:
I lost over 100 pounds.

That's amazing! Well done! I bet that took some dedication!

Anyway just wanted to add a message of support, good luck with the assignment, we are all rooting for you!

-Doctor

Thanks Doctor! Yeah it took a bit of dedication haha

Thanks for support man. Hopefully your adventure with women is going well for you man.

-Salamence
 

PrettyDecent

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Dude, this is fucking awesome. Keep it up, Salamence.

~Nick
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Salamence

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Update on the Posture assignment.

I'll be honest I lagged on it tonight. I went to one of my local malls but I didn't enter i just left because i got scared.
I'm not used to going out (literally a caveman) even going out of my house and stepping into my car was an accomplishment to me.
Tomorrow I am going to give it another try.
 

Salamence

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Day 2 Posture Assignment.

Update. Since i lagged it on the day i was suppose to go, i decided to go yesterday.
This is posture assignment.
I am suppose to pay attention other people's posture and see what kind of impression I get from them.
Then I fix my posture (shoulders back, chest out, and head parallel to the ground) and see how people react differently to my new posture.

As I walked from the parking lot to the mall. I noticed some dude about my age with his shoulders rolled forward and hands in his pockets.
The impressions I got was that he was not very comfortable in his own skin. It made him look nervous.
And ironically that is how I walked aswell. It made me take note that my posture was probably giving out that same impression.
As i made my way into the mall i noticed a cute girl wearing really small shorts and white tanktop.
She was on her phone and looked like she was in a hurry because she was walking pretty quickly.
As i walked around there was some people who were walking fast and some that were walking slow.
The impression I got was that the people walking fast looked less relaxed than the people who were walking slow.
The impression i got from the people walking slow, seemed like they were more relaxed and just enjoying their time in the mall.
I also noticed that I walk really quickly. I did not really pay attention to my walk speed before. I was indeed nervous because I am not used to going out. (I'm literally a caveman and stay at home all day but that will change haha)
I also noticed that I look around alot, and make sharp quick movements as if i am being hunted down. My mom pointed that out to me one day. She told me i looked scared and uneased.
I was defeinitely anxious but i still kept walking through the mall.

I fixed my posture (shoulders out, chest out, and head parallel to the floor.)
I felt a difference when i walked with better posture.
I felt more powerful and confident and felt more open unlike my usual posture.
When people was walking towards me I still got a bit nervous, and when they were coming my way i tried not to move but sometimes they didn't eithier so i kinda had to move to one side.
I slightly bumped into someone aswell haha
I still had the habit of walking fast and looking around and making really sharp quick movements but I am going to work on that.

I made my way to an H&M brainstorming on what clothes I can wear. I'm going to read Chase's article on fashion.
Check it out if you haven't. It is an awesome article on clothes.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/fashi ... ng-amazing
As i browsed around the clothes I noticed there was a full body mirror. I did not realize how shitty I looked haha
I had a baggy t-shirt which made me look flabby and non muscular.
Dirty bulky shoes that seemed to big for me.
Also my jeans were sagging haha
I realized the importance of fundamentals! haha
I haven't shave either and since i'm tan it made me look dark and dirty.
My hair was all messy.
I looked like a semi modernized caveman haha
I made my way out the store and there was a person i noticed that stood out from the crowd.
He was well dressed, nice haircut, shaven, walked slow, and his posture was solid.
It once again reminded me the importance of fundamental and how clothes, haircut, and posture can make you look more sharper and give off a sexier vibe to women.

There was also girl i spotted when i entered the guess store.
I thinked she worked there.
She was wearing a very tight black jeans with heels and a blue shirt on. She had a very sexy walk swayed her hips really well. The impression i got was that she was confident in her own skin.

That was my day 2 assignment. I learned a few things when doing this assignment.
First was that I got out the house haha because I don't really do that.
I learned that the importance of fundamentals.
Clothes, slow movements, posture does make a difference.
 
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