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Yes boys.
I'm in Thailand at the moment. I almost didn't think it was worth writing this up because its so easy here, but I thought I would do it anyway because it would help -
A) me identify patterns.
B) help others by showing how easy this stuff can be if you just approach and stumble upon the right opportunity.
So yesterday I trained in the morning and then I popped into the mall to grab some lunch. On my way in I saw a hot girl who kinda gave off a British vibe with her dress sense and I wanted to approach her. I lost her in the crowd but thought if i see her again I'm definitely approaching. I came down on the escalator and saw her on the opposite escalator and she was full on staring at me. I thought fck this I've gotta go approach now. So I quickly switched to her escalator and she was hanging around at the bottom. When I got down there I noticed she was a tiny bit taller than me, usually this puts me off, I have a weird thing about girls taller than me. But I was reading something by @topcat recently where he talked about it and said you just need to make them feel like a girl. And I thought fck it I can do that. So went up, ran my usual direct line, she loved it. She went to an international school so spoke perfect English. Gave me some weird line about not sleeping with tourists but said lets hang out this week. I number closed and got out.
Second approach I saw a hot girl in like professional work clothes on the escalator. My mind started creating reasons to not approach. Then I thought nah fck that she is hot and I need to start pushing myself to approach WOMEN even if they appear high status. So stopped her, turns out she was on her lunch break. We chatted a bit, exchanged insta (she doesn't have whatsapp wtf?) and we've been messaging since. Turns out shes like a bit of a amateur insta model kinda thing. I guess they all are these days.
Anyway third approach, girl walks past me and I think she looks hot. I swing my head around and see she's got all these cool tattoos, I thought fck this I'm going in. Delivered my usual approach. Turns out she is only here for ONE NIGHT before flying back tomorrow. I float the idea of drinks tonight and she is down. Grab the number and get out of there.
Then I go and meet @Atlas IV at another mall where we chat about game and open a few girls. He has some success number closing a hot girl. I just keep opening married women lol.
Then I get back to my apartment to get ready for evening training. I'm texting girl number 3 to set up the drinks that evening. Because of the language barrier I'm kinda confused about how solid the agreement is that we are meeting, but I tell her where I'm going to be and I head down there. I figure if she doesn't turn up I can just run some solo game.
Anyway, I end up meeting her outside her hotel. Honestly she is hotter than I remember from the date - she is in a dress and heels (love that shit) and just looks fcking hot. She wants to go to some exclusive rooftop bar. That's fine with me , I like those places AND i'm keen to suss out whether its good to meet women. We head over there. English isn't her first language but its going fine because turns out she has had 2 x european boyfriends before who spoke to her in English only. So convo is flowing fine.
We have a drink and then go we go bounce to some other club she wants to pop into it. Its a bit shit in there, kinda loud, we're just standing around really and the music is making the language barrier a bit more difficult. But gives me good opportunity for kino etc. When we leave there I just full on start holding her hand, at which point I think OK we're good to go here.
Then she asks if I smoke weed. I don't lol, but I used to when I was a lot younger. So I'm like fck it lets go smoke some. We go into this cannabis shop and get a spliff. Boys I had like 5 tokes and it hit me lol. At this point any game I had disappeared and I just had to try and rely on instincts.
One strange recollection is that this girl could TALK ... a lot. For someone who's first language wasn't English she did not shut the fck up. At one point I swear she was talking, UNINTERUPTED for like 10 mins. A full on 10 minute monologue. And I was stoned and literally didn't even know what the topic was. I just thought I'll see how long she carries on speaking, just to amuse myself.
So anyway after this spliff she asks me something like "so how far is your hotel" and I said something like "why, you wanna come back?" and she said no my hotel is closer. And then she said "you wanna have a drink at my hotel?" and I'm thinking wtf this is too easy man.
Turns out she is staying at a fckin unreal hotel, and has an amazing room. We grab some drinks from the shop and head up to her room. Up there we sit on the sofa, and I'm kind of thinking how do I just transition this to sex asap. But then I just thought ... this is fckin happening, no need to overthink it, just chill. And so it did lol. Eventually she said something like "you wanna turn the TV on?" ... well guess what, you've gotta sit on the bed to watch the TV. We had good sex, 3 times. She was submissive, small, fckin LOUD ... at one point I was like "wtf is this noise actually for real? feels a bit dramatic lol".
Only sour note for me is that I decided to stay at the hotel cus it was like 2am and this point and I couldn't be bothered with a taxi. I just COULD NOT SLEEP even for like 5 mins. I think the weed / the situation (being in a random hotel in Thailand) was making me paranoid so I couldn't switch off. So anyway at like 06.30 I fcked her again and then got up and said I'm gunna let you sleep and bounce.
So yeh same day lay from cold approach in the day. Big challenge for me now is to start putting in these performances back in the UK.
I'm in Thailand at the moment. I almost didn't think it was worth writing this up because its so easy here, but I thought I would do it anyway because it would help -
A) me identify patterns.
B) help others by showing how easy this stuff can be if you just approach and stumble upon the right opportunity.
So yesterday I trained in the morning and then I popped into the mall to grab some lunch. On my way in I saw a hot girl who kinda gave off a British vibe with her dress sense and I wanted to approach her. I lost her in the crowd but thought if i see her again I'm definitely approaching. I came down on the escalator and saw her on the opposite escalator and she was full on staring at me. I thought fck this I've gotta go approach now. So I quickly switched to her escalator and she was hanging around at the bottom. When I got down there I noticed she was a tiny bit taller than me, usually this puts me off, I have a weird thing about girls taller than me. But I was reading something by @topcat recently where he talked about it and said you just need to make them feel like a girl. And I thought fck it I can do that. So went up, ran my usual direct line, she loved it. She went to an international school so spoke perfect English. Gave me some weird line about not sleeping with tourists but said lets hang out this week. I number closed and got out.
Second approach I saw a hot girl in like professional work clothes on the escalator. My mind started creating reasons to not approach. Then I thought nah fck that she is hot and I need to start pushing myself to approach WOMEN even if they appear high status. So stopped her, turns out she was on her lunch break. We chatted a bit, exchanged insta (she doesn't have whatsapp wtf?) and we've been messaging since. Turns out shes like a bit of a amateur insta model kinda thing. I guess they all are these days.
Anyway third approach, girl walks past me and I think she looks hot. I swing my head around and see she's got all these cool tattoos, I thought fck this I'm going in. Delivered my usual approach. Turns out she is only here for ONE NIGHT before flying back tomorrow. I float the idea of drinks tonight and she is down. Grab the number and get out of there.
Then I go and meet @Atlas IV at another mall where we chat about game and open a few girls. He has some success number closing a hot girl. I just keep opening married women lol.
Then I get back to my apartment to get ready for evening training. I'm texting girl number 3 to set up the drinks that evening. Because of the language barrier I'm kinda confused about how solid the agreement is that we are meeting, but I tell her where I'm going to be and I head down there. I figure if she doesn't turn up I can just run some solo game.
Anyway, I end up meeting her outside her hotel. Honestly she is hotter than I remember from the date - she is in a dress and heels (love that shit) and just looks fcking hot. She wants to go to some exclusive rooftop bar. That's fine with me , I like those places AND i'm keen to suss out whether its good to meet women. We head over there. English isn't her first language but its going fine because turns out she has had 2 x european boyfriends before who spoke to her in English only. So convo is flowing fine.
We have a drink and then go we go bounce to some other club she wants to pop into it. Its a bit shit in there, kinda loud, we're just standing around really and the music is making the language barrier a bit more difficult. But gives me good opportunity for kino etc. When we leave there I just full on start holding her hand, at which point I think OK we're good to go here.
Then she asks if I smoke weed. I don't lol, but I used to when I was a lot younger. So I'm like fck it lets go smoke some. We go into this cannabis shop and get a spliff. Boys I had like 5 tokes and it hit me lol. At this point any game I had disappeared and I just had to try and rely on instincts.
One strange recollection is that this girl could TALK ... a lot. For someone who's first language wasn't English she did not shut the fck up. At one point I swear she was talking, UNINTERUPTED for like 10 mins. A full on 10 minute monologue. And I was stoned and literally didn't even know what the topic was. I just thought I'll see how long she carries on speaking, just to amuse myself.
So anyway after this spliff she asks me something like "so how far is your hotel" and I said something like "why, you wanna come back?" and she said no my hotel is closer. And then she said "you wanna have a drink at my hotel?" and I'm thinking wtf this is too easy man.
Turns out she is staying at a fckin unreal hotel, and has an amazing room. We grab some drinks from the shop and head up to her room. Up there we sit on the sofa, and I'm kind of thinking how do I just transition this to sex asap. But then I just thought ... this is fckin happening, no need to overthink it, just chill. And so it did lol. Eventually she said something like "you wanna turn the TV on?" ... well guess what, you've gotta sit on the bed to watch the TV. We had good sex, 3 times. She was submissive, small, fckin LOUD ... at one point I was like "wtf is this noise actually for real? feels a bit dramatic lol".
Only sour note for me is that I decided to stay at the hotel cus it was like 2am and this point and I couldn't be bothered with a taxi. I just COULD NOT SLEEP even for like 5 mins. I think the weed / the situation (being in a random hotel in Thailand) was making me paranoid so I couldn't switch off. So anyway at like 06.30 I fcked her again and then got up and said I'm gunna let you sleep and bounce.
So yeh same day lay from cold approach in the day. Big challenge for me now is to start putting in these performances back in the UK.
