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So this story begins in Halloween, so about 1 and a half months earlier and only concluded yesterday. The girl of the story is 25, hot enough and I'll call her Anna. Typical for my writing, this story is a bit all over the place because I am trying to assemble thoughts in a chronological order.
I went to a social-work circle house party which of course was very lame. But, I saw a hot girl there that I'd met very briefly at work and I had reasons to believe that she was at least slightly interested. So when I saw her at the kitchen I opened her and started bantering. She tried to make fun of me for my costume but I owned that shit and then she asked me if I am single.
Then I just used conversation baits to get her going and she kept talking and talking (and qualifying herself). She also tried to make me compliment her to which I gave very diplomatic answers. I could have handled better the part when she talked about sex and relationships, I made it too logical instead of playful. I also accidentally led her to say that she is looking for a relationship which I am not.
I created a good bubble, we talked standing for about an hour in the middle of the room with everyone staring at us and we had no idea what was going on around. It was very interesting for me to watch her body language as she would constantly move around for example face away from me, then giving me full body attention, then looking at me with arms crossed and so on and I was just standing there immobile like ice.
The problem was that I was stressed and nervous which doesn't happen usually (or to that extent) and that was fucking with my decision making. I couldn't decide if I should try to pull her there or take her out later. Deciding that she would decline, being in front of everyone who knows us, I just grabbed her number and arranged a date. Thinking about it I am pretty sure she was horny (she was definetely excited) and just for the reference I should have tried then and there with some bullshit excuse for food or whatever.
Then I text her the morning of the date to confirm, and she gave me the "I sorry am so tired I just want to sleep" excuse without offering another day. I decided to next her, thinking that I missed an escalation window that night and she went cold otherwise I can't believe that she wasn't interested in the first place.
Then after 3 weeks or so I stumbled upon her at work and she stopped to talk to me, engaging me fully and then asked to go with her for a coffee at the work cafe ( I couldn't because I was busy) After that I decided that the possibility is still there and if I can try again without chasing, to do so.
The opportunity presented itself 2 days ago, when I was at a work Christmas party so I knew a lot of people there and I also was quite self conscious. But after I was warmed up it didn't matter anymore.
I enter the venue, spot some friends, started socializing, then Anna positions herself in my proximity for no apparent reason so I open her, we start chatting and she is giving very obvious signals so much so that my retarted "friends" start doing inappropriate gestures behind her back.
She was saying things like "What are you going to do later in the night? Pick a girl and have sex with her? " to which I responded looking around the venue as if I was trying to find a target and she found it hilarious.
Basically I had the feeling that we both knew we are having sex at some point. Then some social rearrangements happened in the group, she leaves, with buying temperature high but it was still very early so I didn't push for anything. I then lost her for a good 2-3 hours while she was talking with some other people but I ignored her and tried to chat up many girls with her seeing me.
In the meantime I also opened a couple of girls which seemed very receptive and a dude opened me which means that I had social momentum going. At the dancefloor I danced a bit with Anna and she playfully lifted my shirt a bit and I told her that she can't undress me here and she laughed and told me not yet.
Anyway, I then started dancing with a drunk girl ( let's call her Liza) that I knew which she's fun to hang around but not necessarily sexy. I mean if she offered it to me I'd fuck her, but since she is a colleague I wouldn't hit on her. We then talked for quite some time, I flirted a bit being on autopilot and she was standing very close to me and talking inches from my face. She also mentioned leaving several times but she still hang around, which as I type I realize what it meant.
Then the drama started. One of Liza's girlfriends (drunk as well) came up to me aggressively and started asking me if I like Liza or not. I ignored her for the most part but then to get rid of her I just said not as you mean, and then she grabbed Liza and they went to sit. Instead of ignoring them I succumbed to nice guy behavior and went to see what happened, then the friend tried to get into a big argument with me but I got bored, then I patched things up with them and met another of their friends, but still to this moment I am not sure what happened there.
Then as I was leaving them and was going down some stairs, I made eye contact with Anna, she shouted something at me and pretending that I couldn't hear her I turned back and went to her, which would have been much better to call her to me but at the moment I was already feeling pretty beta after this argument. So I go to her and turns out she had been watching me the whole night because the conversation went like this:
Then some random playful shit like that, and we were coming very very close progressively, when I asked her the next question our faces were inches apart and this in front of many colleagues.
To this I got an instant boner, I got even closer and was trying to communicate the things that I would do to her with my eyes.
Then she comes, we start going out of the venue, I tried to be discreet to protect her reputation so I kept some distance, which resulted to her being opened by a friend of hers by the bar, so I just kept going and decided to wait outside for her.
As soon as I exit, the cute assistant who is organizing these events at work (also drunk) opens me and introduces me to one of the senior bosses while at the same time flirting with me!. It wasn't as bad as it sounds because the senior boss was drunk, with a dress and high heels and covered in glitter so I bantered with her a bit as well it was very fun. Then I was talking face to face with the cute assistant who was trying to make me guess her descent while giving me a bit lustful eyes (if I know how to distinguish them being the newbie that I am).
While this was happening Anna came out, and while I was talking with these 2 girls she was talking with a fat guy who obviously liked her and tried to make her stay. Anyway, I look at her with a let's go look and then she says that we should stay some more and dance, and the cute assistant pushes me inside saying the same thing.
Now it may be stupid of me but I didn't want to destroy my frame and I honestly didn't feel like dancing anymore so I held Anna back and tried to change her mind.
I went home, went to sleep because I was tired as hell, and 2 hours later she texted me but I only saw it when I woke up.
Anna: "It's quite late and you are probably sleeping right now, but I just finished and going home, I am a disaster
"
I don't know what went wrong with Anna when we exited the venue, basically I think she got cold feet because of the many people around that knew us but there was nothing I could have done to prevent this.
Come next day, I replied to her text and told her to come ver soon. She told me that she had plans for early in the night but she could come by later, I wanted to go out as well so I just told her to text me when she is done and if I am back home then we can meet.
I went out to see some friends and we went to a venue with some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen clustered together so we had a good time. We leave around 3am and just before I arrive home I get a text from her "Where are u" and after a couple logistics messages I tell her to come over. Essentially the timing was quite perfect, truth is I was tired and wanted to sleep but didn't want to miss this opportunity.
So she comes over, I briefly show her around exchange some pleasantries about our day then I suddenly pick her up and carry her to my bedroom to which she doesn't respond very well and she asks to use the bathroom. When she comes back I didn't want to waste any more time, I started kissing her neck and then we just attacked each other probably due to the anticipation built up.
I lead her to the bedroom, order her to stand still and I take off her multiple tops while kissing her all over, then I push her on the bed and started kissing my way down, she is already breathing heavily and moaning.
I had just read Chase's article on how to give good oral sex and I wanted to put it into practice but when I removed her panties I was thrown off a bit. She wasn't shaved, she had something like a trimmed decorative mini bush which was covering her pussy and there was nothing for me to lick. It was a bit of a turnoff for me but I fingered her a bit and she was eagerly removing my clothes and pulling my dick towards her.
As observed by other people, if I hadn't gone for a condom she would never ask for one, seems that girls (even smart ones) don't care about STDs in the heat of the moment. I had a few handy so I threw one on but I had trouble getting it in, I couldn't see and she wasn't very very wet and also she was tight so throughout the night the task of insertion became hers.
Then I tried the adapted missionary position which I think is brilliant even for a newbie, she was moaning loudly even after a few strokes. Truth is I wasn't enjoying it very much but at the same time I didn't last very long maybe 4-5 minutes. The problem is that my physical endurance is shit. Even though I workout regularly after these 4 minutes I was out of breath and my arms were in pain.
That became a problem for the 2nd round because I couldn't take it and we had to switch positions often because some didn't work at all I don't know why. We found a good one when she was on top and riding me hard and I was pulling her downwards by her hips and this was quite good she was almost screaming. Then I couldn't cum and I also wasn't fully rock hard, she asked if we could stop which was a good idea.
We then chilled for a few minutes, the first thing she asked me was if I do this with girls that I don't know often. Then I asked her when she decided to sleep with me and she said "only yesterday" which I believe to be a lie.
I tried to be very cool to not become relationship-y, we talked some more then she didn't want to stay over, so she dressed up and left. All in all it was good but not amazing, and a bit awkward as she pointed it out. If I can keep her as a FB to practice regular sex I will go for it!
Thanks for reading!!
I went to a social-work circle house party which of course was very lame. But, I saw a hot girl there that I'd met very briefly at work and I had reasons to believe that she was at least slightly interested. So when I saw her at the kitchen I opened her and started bantering. She tried to make fun of me for my costume but I owned that shit and then she asked me if I am single.
Then I just used conversation baits to get her going and she kept talking and talking (and qualifying herself). She also tried to make me compliment her to which I gave very diplomatic answers. I could have handled better the part when she talked about sex and relationships, I made it too logical instead of playful. I also accidentally led her to say that she is looking for a relationship which I am not.
I created a good bubble, we talked standing for about an hour in the middle of the room with everyone staring at us and we had no idea what was going on around. It was very interesting for me to watch her body language as she would constantly move around for example face away from me, then giving me full body attention, then looking at me with arms crossed and so on and I was just standing there immobile like ice.
The problem was that I was stressed and nervous which doesn't happen usually (or to that extent) and that was fucking with my decision making. I couldn't decide if I should try to pull her there or take her out later. Deciding that she would decline, being in front of everyone who knows us, I just grabbed her number and arranged a date. Thinking about it I am pretty sure she was horny (she was definetely excited) and just for the reference I should have tried then and there with some bullshit excuse for food or whatever.
Then I text her the morning of the date to confirm, and she gave me the "I sorry am so tired I just want to sleep" excuse without offering another day. I decided to next her, thinking that I missed an escalation window that night and she went cold otherwise I can't believe that she wasn't interested in the first place.
Then after 3 weeks or so I stumbled upon her at work and she stopped to talk to me, engaging me fully and then asked to go with her for a coffee at the work cafe ( I couldn't because I was busy) After that I decided that the possibility is still there and if I can try again without chasing, to do so.
The opportunity presented itself 2 days ago, when I was at a work Christmas party so I knew a lot of people there and I also was quite self conscious. But after I was warmed up it didn't matter anymore.
I enter the venue, spot some friends, started socializing, then Anna positions herself in my proximity for no apparent reason so I open her, we start chatting and she is giving very obvious signals so much so that my retarted "friends" start doing inappropriate gestures behind her back.
She was saying things like "What are you going to do later in the night? Pick a girl and have sex with her? " to which I responded looking around the venue as if I was trying to find a target and she found it hilarious.
Basically I had the feeling that we both knew we are having sex at some point. Then some social rearrangements happened in the group, she leaves, with buying temperature high but it was still very early so I didn't push for anything. I then lost her for a good 2-3 hours while she was talking with some other people but I ignored her and tried to chat up many girls with her seeing me.
In the meantime I also opened a couple of girls which seemed very receptive and a dude opened me which means that I had social momentum going. At the dancefloor I danced a bit with Anna and she playfully lifted my shirt a bit and I told her that she can't undress me here and she laughed and told me not yet.
Anyway, I then started dancing with a drunk girl ( let's call her Liza) that I knew which she's fun to hang around but not necessarily sexy. I mean if she offered it to me I'd fuck her, but since she is a colleague I wouldn't hit on her. We then talked for quite some time, I flirted a bit being on autopilot and she was standing very close to me and talking inches from my face. She also mentioned leaving several times but she still hang around, which as I type I realize what it meant.
Then the drama started. One of Liza's girlfriends (drunk as well) came up to me aggressively and started asking me if I like Liza or not. I ignored her for the most part but then to get rid of her I just said not as you mean, and then she grabbed Liza and they went to sit. Instead of ignoring them I succumbed to nice guy behavior and went to see what happened, then the friend tried to get into a big argument with me but I got bored, then I patched things up with them and met another of their friends, but still to this moment I am not sure what happened there.
Then as I was leaving them and was going down some stairs, I made eye contact with Anna, she shouted something at me and pretending that I couldn't hear her I turned back and went to her, which would have been much better to call her to me but at the moment I was already feeling pretty beta after this argument. So I go to her and turns out she had been watching me the whole night because the conversation went like this:
Then some random playful shit like that, and we were coming very very close progressively, when I asked her the next question our faces were inches apart and this in front of many colleagues.
To this I got an instant boner, I got even closer and was trying to communicate the things that I would do to her with my eyes.
Then she comes, we start going out of the venue, I tried to be discreet to protect her reputation so I kept some distance, which resulted to her being opened by a friend of hers by the bar, so I just kept going and decided to wait outside for her.
As soon as I exit, the cute assistant who is organizing these events at work (also drunk) opens me and introduces me to one of the senior bosses while at the same time flirting with me!. It wasn't as bad as it sounds because the senior boss was drunk, with a dress and high heels and covered in glitter so I bantered with her a bit as well it was very fun. Then I was talking face to face with the cute assistant who was trying to make me guess her descent while giving me a bit lustful eyes (if I know how to distinguish them being the newbie that I am).
While this was happening Anna came out, and while I was talking with these 2 girls she was talking with a fat guy who obviously liked her and tried to make her stay. Anyway, I look at her with a let's go look and then she says that we should stay some more and dance, and the cute assistant pushes me inside saying the same thing.
Now it may be stupid of me but I didn't want to destroy my frame and I honestly didn't feel like dancing anymore so I held Anna back and tried to change her mind.
I went home, went to sleep because I was tired as hell, and 2 hours later she texted me but I only saw it when I woke up.
Anna: "It's quite late and you are probably sleeping right now, but I just finished and going home, I am a disaster
"I don't know what went wrong with Anna when we exited the venue, basically I think she got cold feet because of the many people around that knew us but there was nothing I could have done to prevent this.
Come next day, I replied to her text and told her to come ver soon. She told me that she had plans for early in the night but she could come by later, I wanted to go out as well so I just told her to text me when she is done and if I am back home then we can meet.
I went out to see some friends and we went to a venue with some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen clustered together so we had a good time. We leave around 3am and just before I arrive home I get a text from her "Where are u" and after a couple logistics messages I tell her to come over. Essentially the timing was quite perfect, truth is I was tired and wanted to sleep but didn't want to miss this opportunity.
So she comes over, I briefly show her around exchange some pleasantries about our day then I suddenly pick her up and carry her to my bedroom to which she doesn't respond very well and she asks to use the bathroom. When she comes back I didn't want to waste any more time, I started kissing her neck and then we just attacked each other probably due to the anticipation built up.
I lead her to the bedroom, order her to stand still and I take off her multiple tops while kissing her all over, then I push her on the bed and started kissing my way down, she is already breathing heavily and moaning.
I had just read Chase's article on how to give good oral sex and I wanted to put it into practice but when I removed her panties I was thrown off a bit. She wasn't shaved, she had something like a trimmed decorative mini bush which was covering her pussy and there was nothing for me to lick. It was a bit of a turnoff for me but I fingered her a bit and she was eagerly removing my clothes and pulling my dick towards her.
As observed by other people, if I hadn't gone for a condom she would never ask for one, seems that girls (even smart ones) don't care about STDs in the heat of the moment. I had a few handy so I threw one on but I had trouble getting it in, I couldn't see and she wasn't very very wet and also she was tight so throughout the night the task of insertion became hers.
Then I tried the adapted missionary position which I think is brilliant even for a newbie, she was moaning loudly even after a few strokes. Truth is I wasn't enjoying it very much but at the same time I didn't last very long maybe 4-5 minutes. The problem is that my physical endurance is shit. Even though I workout regularly after these 4 minutes I was out of breath and my arms were in pain.
That became a problem for the 2nd round because I couldn't take it and we had to switch positions often because some didn't work at all I don't know why. We found a good one when she was on top and riding me hard and I was pulling her downwards by her hips and this was quite good she was almost screaming. Then I couldn't cum and I also wasn't fully rock hard, she asked if we could stop which was a good idea.
We then chilled for a few minutes, the first thing she asked me was if I do this with girls that I don't know often. Then I asked her when she decided to sleep with me and she said "only yesterday" which I believe to be a lie.
I tried to be very cool to not become relationship-y, we talked some more then she didn't want to stay over, so she dressed up and left. All in all it was good but not amazing, and a bit awkward as she pointed it out. If I can keep her as a FB to practice regular sex I will go for it!
Thanks for reading!!
