LMR is a bitch
NB: I got questions at the end which I really need answered. If anybody can help out, that would be super.
I texted Sarah (5 in the bucket list. Second one I almost laid out of it (behind roxanne)) yesterday and after a bit of message exchanging, we agree to meet up today after writing exam. I suggest that we meet at my place and after some hesitation, she agrees.
Easy lay right? Well let's find out:
Today, after writing my exam, I wait for her to finish hers. But she's taking some time so I roam around a bit. Then I find a friend of mine (she's smoking hot) and I chill with her. After about 20 minutes Sarah shows up and sees me with my friend.
I escort Sarah back to my place which is ten minutes away. On the way I keep thinking of ways to apply my GC knowledge. But in the moment, all I could think about was touch (I touched her shoulder once and couldn't think of anything else to do) and chase framing (she convinces me that this school isn't all bad and I tell her that she's just trying to keep me here so she can talk to me more. She then accepts the frame). Most of the date is spent joking around and me deep diving her career goals a bit.
We get to my crib and we talk a bit before I suggest a movie. After some discussion, of course I go for Angry birds because I'm random.
I learnt not to wait until the end of the movie to make a move.
I ask her if I greeted her with a hug when we met. She says no and I try to kis her on the lips. She isn't moving or reciprocating at all. So I stop and we continue the movie. I have no idea what to do next, but I notice that her skirt is short. So I decide to just try my luck.
I caress her legs while edging towards her pussy and going under her skirt. Eventually my hand reaches her pussy and strokes it gently. She isn't reacting.
I take out my hand and we watch the movie more for like 45 seconds, and then I move in for another kiss. She moves her head away and I kiss her neck instead. She says that we shouldnt be doing this. I then tell (mumble) her that we don't have to do anything that makes her uncomfortable. And then we watch the movie again.
After 30 minutes into the movie I put the laptop on her one side and I'm on the other so I can put her legs on my laps and caress them up to her ass. Then I manhandle her a bit and she's lying down on the bed and we're making out passionately. But eventually the passion ends after we make out too long cause I had no idea what to do afterwards.
But you know what they say: When in doubt, whip it out. So I took out the D and I directed her hands to stroke it. She did. It was better than I thought it'd be.
LMR
She starts saying she has to go. I ignore it. Then I'm about to go down on her as an excuse to take off her pants. She then says she's on her period. I tell her that oral sex is off the table then. But that its ok, we can put a towel under. And then she whispers "No, no, no, no, no" silently. I then say that it's ok, we can fuck. To which she just blatantly started freaking out and I knew I said the trigger word for LMR to screw me over. I knew I had to stop at this point, but I was still unsure as to whether this was LMR or Stop territory. So I try taking her coat off. And wouldn't you know, it came off like a slipper. We continue kissing and dick stroking.
I keep trying to take off her pants but her reflexes are just insane. Eventually she takes her phone and does something while we're making out. Then "suddenly" the phone rings and she's talking with her friend, saying she's "sorry" she forgot and that she's on her way.
Shit.
She says she has to go and I tell her that she can leave in a minute. And that I can finish in 30 seconds. She was literally about to let me do that, but she looked disappointed. So I stop and say "but if you gotta go, then I guess you gotta go". Then we make-out hard, I end it and then dress up.
We leave the apartment. But just so she doesn't frame me as the guy who pussied out, I pick her up, wall-slam her and we make out harder. Then I walked her to school as I had stuff to do there as well.
This all happened early in the afternoon. A few hours ago at sundown, I send her a message saying that I enjoyed spending time with her and she replied:
Really?
Questions:
1. Did I sexually assualt this girl? Cause I think she autorejected me for unknown reasons
2. Do I need to signal sexual intent strongly in order for new girls to take me seriously as a lover
3. Is there anything I could have done to make things go smoother?
Lessons:
1. Always ask a girl if she's busy AFTER the date in order to get a sense of the time limit.
2. I need to work on my sexual tension skills.
3. I need to deep dive more.
4. Probably could have tried going down on her faster.
NB: I got questions at the end which I really need answered. If anybody can help out, that would be super.
I texted Sarah (5 in the bucket list. Second one I almost laid out of it (behind roxanne)) yesterday and after a bit of message exchanging, we agree to meet up today after writing exam. I suggest that we meet at my place and after some hesitation, she agrees.
Easy lay right? Well let's find out:
Today, after writing my exam, I wait for her to finish hers. But she's taking some time so I roam around a bit. Then I find a friend of mine (she's smoking hot) and I chill with her. After about 20 minutes Sarah shows up and sees me with my friend.
I escort Sarah back to my place which is ten minutes away. On the way I keep thinking of ways to apply my GC knowledge. But in the moment, all I could think about was touch (I touched her shoulder once and couldn't think of anything else to do) and chase framing (she convinces me that this school isn't all bad and I tell her that she's just trying to keep me here so she can talk to me more. She then accepts the frame). Most of the date is spent joking around and me deep diving her career goals a bit.
We get to my crib and we talk a bit before I suggest a movie. After some discussion, of course I go for Angry birds because I'm random.
I learnt not to wait until the end of the movie to make a move.
I ask her if I greeted her with a hug when we met. She says no and I try to kis her on the lips. She isn't moving or reciprocating at all. So I stop and we continue the movie. I have no idea what to do next, but I notice that her skirt is short. So I decide to just try my luck.
I caress her legs while edging towards her pussy and going under her skirt. Eventually my hand reaches her pussy and strokes it gently. She isn't reacting.
I take out my hand and we watch the movie more for like 45 seconds, and then I move in for another kiss. She moves her head away and I kiss her neck instead. She says that we shouldnt be doing this. I then tell (mumble) her that we don't have to do anything that makes her uncomfortable. And then we watch the movie again.
After 30 minutes into the movie I put the laptop on her one side and I'm on the other so I can put her legs on my laps and caress them up to her ass. Then I manhandle her a bit and she's lying down on the bed and we're making out passionately. But eventually the passion ends after we make out too long cause I had no idea what to do afterwards.
But you know what they say: When in doubt, whip it out. So I took out the D and I directed her hands to stroke it. She did. It was better than I thought it'd be.
LMR
She starts saying she has to go. I ignore it. Then I'm about to go down on her as an excuse to take off her pants. She then says she's on her period. I tell her that oral sex is off the table then. But that its ok, we can put a towel under. And then she whispers "No, no, no, no, no" silently. I then say that it's ok, we can fuck. To which she just blatantly started freaking out and I knew I said the trigger word for LMR to screw me over. I knew I had to stop at this point, but I was still unsure as to whether this was LMR or Stop territory. So I try taking her coat off. And wouldn't you know, it came off like a slipper. We continue kissing and dick stroking.
I keep trying to take off her pants but her reflexes are just insane. Eventually she takes her phone and does something while we're making out. Then "suddenly" the phone rings and she's talking with her friend, saying she's "sorry" she forgot and that she's on her way.
Shit.
She says she has to go and I tell her that she can leave in a minute. And that I can finish in 30 seconds. She was literally about to let me do that, but she looked disappointed. So I stop and say "but if you gotta go, then I guess you gotta go". Then we make-out hard, I end it and then dress up.
We leave the apartment. But just so she doesn't frame me as the guy who pussied out, I pick her up, wall-slam her and we make out harder. Then I walked her to school as I had stuff to do there as well.
This all happened early in the afternoon. A few hours ago at sundown, I send her a message saying that I enjoyed spending time with her and she replied:
Really?
Questions:
1. Did I sexually assualt this girl? Cause I think she autorejected me for unknown reasons
2. Do I need to signal sexual intent strongly in order for new girls to take me seriously as a lover
3. Is there anything I could have done to make things go smoother?
Lessons:
1. Always ask a girl if she's busy AFTER the date in order to get a sense of the time limit.
2. I need to work on my sexual tension skills.
3. I need to deep dive more.
4. Probably could have tried going down on her faster.
