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My goal on 02/01/2020 was to simply approach a lot; to assess sets during the interaction, not before so as not to discourage myself; and to talk to more strangers, socialize more, to keep my state going
I started the night around 11:00pm.
The first set I approached with “yo, your dress is pretty cool.” She said thanks but seemed a little timid so I didn’t say any more. This girl I really wasn’t all that into
I talked to some guys, joked around, basic bro socializing stuff.
A few minutes later and I opened a two set with a simple “hey, how are you guys going?” I joked about their flashing camera blinding me. The seemed not interested though and I wasn’t too motivated to push forward so I left
More time goes by and I open another two set with “yo I really like your hairstyle. it’s pretty cool.” I then asked basic materiel like what brought them out. But I sensed they were not interested as well, and once again I was not too motivated to push onward, so I left
Chilling around some more, I wasn’t able to find another set I wanted approach, so getting anxious (given it was around 12:30am) I decided to leave to another club
I got to the line of the other club at 1:00am (I had to drive, park and walk there). This in hindsight was a bad idea. I should have stayed at the first club to not waste time. Anyway, in line some guys gave me trouble almost starting a fight with me over a misunderstanding. This is the second time this has happened, though the first time it was because I had taken the girl from him, this time it was a group of guys vs just me so I was a little out gunned; I kept my cool and everything calmed down; but the experience definitely riled me up. It’s a good point to keep your cool when dealing with hot heads. I’m curious what you all have experienced.
Inside the club there weren’t a lot of sets I wasn’t willing to approach due to most of them being in set with guys. Finally, at the top of the club, I saw an Asian girl dancing with her friends. I hesitated too much (something I really need to stop doing) but finally mustered the energy to say “hey, what’s up.” But she just kept dancing around. I knew I should have reopened since it was such a weak approach, but I felt like an idiot, so went downstairs to see if there were other sets available. Seeing nothing good, I left back to club one.
Back inside club one, I saw a girl dancing with a guy but could kinda tell she wasn’t really into it. Once she separated from him I hopped in with “I like your dance moves. How’s your night going?” She answered “good” and there was a lot of receptivity on her face. We began to dance and joke around. I asked basic questions such as “what brings you out?” and “what’s your name?” then after 10 minutes her friends shoved her arm between us, told her some stuff, then she said “I have to go I’m so sorry.” And they left. That was it. I should have gotten her number I know but I really wasn’t all that into her. Still, getting the number would have been the right thing to do. Damn
The club was now 30 minutes to closing. I was not seeing any more available sets that I cared about. I joked around with some guys, danced around a little bit, then called it a night.
Looking back I should not have left the club, I should have been more persistent with those earlier approaches, and I should have settled with the number close. There were also two or three sets I didn’t approach at all, so those were mistakes as well.
This whole past month (January) has been rough, due to laziness, not going out enough, bad date, bad pull, and a virgin being a pain in the ass; a total turn around from the previous six months. This month (February) i have no choice but to sarge more. I’m really not experienced enough to take it easy. I think I’m experiencing some degree of low (or lower) momentum for the first time.
I started the night around 11:00pm.
The first set I approached with “yo, your dress is pretty cool.” She said thanks but seemed a little timid so I didn’t say any more. This girl I really wasn’t all that into
I talked to some guys, joked around, basic bro socializing stuff.
A few minutes later and I opened a two set with a simple “hey, how are you guys going?” I joked about their flashing camera blinding me. The seemed not interested though and I wasn’t too motivated to push forward so I left
More time goes by and I open another two set with “yo I really like your hairstyle. it’s pretty cool.” I then asked basic materiel like what brought them out. But I sensed they were not interested as well, and once again I was not too motivated to push onward, so I left
Chilling around some more, I wasn’t able to find another set I wanted approach, so getting anxious (given it was around 12:30am) I decided to leave to another club
I got to the line of the other club at 1:00am (I had to drive, park and walk there). This in hindsight was a bad idea. I should have stayed at the first club to not waste time. Anyway, in line some guys gave me trouble almost starting a fight with me over a misunderstanding. This is the second time this has happened, though the first time it was because I had taken the girl from him, this time it was a group of guys vs just me so I was a little out gunned; I kept my cool and everything calmed down; but the experience definitely riled me up. It’s a good point to keep your cool when dealing with hot heads. I’m curious what you all have experienced.
Inside the club there weren’t a lot of sets I wasn’t willing to approach due to most of them being in set with guys. Finally, at the top of the club, I saw an Asian girl dancing with her friends. I hesitated too much (something I really need to stop doing) but finally mustered the energy to say “hey, what’s up.” But she just kept dancing around. I knew I should have reopened since it was such a weak approach, but I felt like an idiot, so went downstairs to see if there were other sets available. Seeing nothing good, I left back to club one.
Back inside club one, I saw a girl dancing with a guy but could kinda tell she wasn’t really into it. Once she separated from him I hopped in with “I like your dance moves. How’s your night going?” She answered “good” and there was a lot of receptivity on her face. We began to dance and joke around. I asked basic questions such as “what brings you out?” and “what’s your name?” then after 10 minutes her friends shoved her arm between us, told her some stuff, then she said “I have to go I’m so sorry.” And they left. That was it. I should have gotten her number I know but I really wasn’t all that into her. Still, getting the number would have been the right thing to do. Damn
The club was now 30 minutes to closing. I was not seeing any more available sets that I cared about. I joked around with some guys, danced around a little bit, then called it a night.
Looking back I should not have left the club, I should have been more persistent with those earlier approaches, and I should have settled with the number close. There were also two or three sets I didn’t approach at all, so those were mistakes as well.
This whole past month (January) has been rough, due to laziness, not going out enough, bad date, bad pull, and a virgin being a pain in the ass; a total turn around from the previous six months. This month (February) i have no choice but to sarge more. I’m really not experienced enough to take it easy. I think I’m experiencing some degree of low (or lower) momentum for the first time.
