Saying Hi, plus question about becoming a public PUA

[Opinion_Master]

Hello

just saying hi, I use to be on RSD forms as XXXdragonslayer69420 but they got shut down

I have been in the PUA community for around 7 years with a few LTRs in between. I had a interview with RSD Todd and I go out consistently (goal is 10 approaches a day for last 4 months)

just wanted to say hi. I listened to all the Girls chase podcasts recently and I like the vibe. I live in LA (Hollywood) with some other PUAs. HMU if your in the area or planning a trip.

Recently I have been working on social circle game, club promoter game (I promote on the weekends) and filming my infields (these are the things that most excite me about game recently)

I am very bad at social circle but i'm getting better. I have a natural inclination to not do social circle (east coast vibes)

my question to experienced guys is this: how and when should you go public with your skills? I am collecting a decent amount of infields videos but they just sit on my computer. Its a pretty big quandary for me. Should I put my name out there? it seems like the next logical step for this as a hobby. It feels like its the next thing to do but there is no going back. I keep thinking "if I was actually working in the field (aka making money with this as a job) it would legitimize me putting out my infields out. I love the process and I love going out and getting better- and making these videos has really sparked my love of the art again but i'm stuck wondering where I should go next. Tom Torrero has a podcast about this topic (I think its his first one) but I still need more info.

any way thanks for your time!

 

[sumwunimetonce]

Why the F would you want to put this stuff on the internet ????

it seems like the next logical step for this as a hobby.

It's a hobby ... in reality it's more than that, you looking for your mate, fulfilling your most important of primal urges, it's important to take it seriously.

BUT the way WE perceive the pick up community and the way other do is very very different.

What we (certainly I) see is men who for whatever reason struggle to find their mate, some are young, some happen to have some unfortunate genetics, others were probably ugly ducklings / late bloomers who are just not attracting the right calibre of women.

What many women and certainly many journalists in the MSM see (since they never really bother to look and find out who and why does this) are a group of losers and social deviants learning tricks to get women into bed and this concept really scares them, I think women think that this stuff may mean one day they wake up next to a 5"1 social retard with scabies who tricked them into sex.

I just read this article today and it made me really sad

https://medium.com/@KristenVanNest/i-sp ... 9824b89730

Having met some super sweet 30 year old virgin who found this community and is now happily married reading this kind of article makes me see journalist only see the bad points of this community and never make an effort to understand the men involved and their motivations.

Once this stuff is out there it may come with some negative consequences and cannot really be undone.

One things thats obviously is that you certainly do not need to post videos to get good with women, 99.99% do not do this.

I would ask what your motivations are for putting it out there, if its only for learning then why cant you post them privately ?

If its for some other reason aside from a very conscious career choice (validation for example) I would question why you feel this way.