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Goatboy,
I don't know whether there's an official Girls Chase "position" on this, but I do it a lot of the time in the street: pre-open by checking out her body very blatantly, but this is of course for her benefit not mine, because at the same time I'm checking in my peripherals to see if she looks at me. When she does, I meet her eye, and if I she gives me a "look", I take it as an approach invitation and open immediately.
Generally speaking it is better not to look her in the eye before you get her looking at you: this can also be achieved by looking up and to the side "into the blue" while waiting for her to look, or by speaking (without looking) to a girl you've already checked out (e.g. at the grocery shelf) to get her to turn and look at you. But having her see that you appreciate her figure is quite a nice method too, in my view.
One note: I've found you do need to open immediately once you've both made eye-contact. If you wait around you risk getting thrown under the bus. Today at lunchtime I caught the eye of a businesswoman dining alone, through the window of a casual restaurant, from the street. She looked at me several times. I knew I should have gone in and opened her right away, but while a food-hall or a coffee-shop is okay, I figured a restaurant is really pushing it. So I waited for her to come out, then opened. Predictably, I was thrown under the bus
-Marty
I don't know whether there's an official Girls Chase "position" on this, but I do it a lot of the time in the street: pre-open by checking out her body very blatantly, but this is of course for her benefit not mine, because at the same time I'm checking in my peripherals to see if she looks at me. When she does, I meet her eye, and if I she gives me a "look", I take it as an approach invitation and open immediately.
Generally speaking it is better not to look her in the eye before you get her looking at you: this can also be achieved by looking up and to the side "into the blue" while waiting for her to look, or by speaking (without looking) to a girl you've already checked out (e.g. at the grocery shelf) to get her to turn and look at you. But having her see that you appreciate her figure is quite a nice method too, in my view.
One note: I've found you do need to open immediately once you've both made eye-contact. If you wait around you risk getting thrown under the bus. Today at lunchtime I caught the eye of a businesswoman dining alone, through the window of a casual restaurant, from the street. She looked at me several times. I knew I should have gone in and opened her right away, but while a food-hall or a coffee-shop is okay, I figured a restaurant is really pushing it. So I waited for her to come out, then opened. Predictably, I was thrown under the bus
-Marty
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This is fun when you are a dominate guy.
You can look her up and down, keeping silence and then pregnant pausing with eye contact. If you do it correctly she will feel like she needs to be on good behavior, her hands will go together in front of her or behind as if she's being a good little girl, and she might look down and away (submission) and lift off her heels a bit.
It's a powerful screen if you're a powerful dude.
You can look her up and down, keeping silence and then pregnant pausing with eye contact. If you do it correctly she will feel like she needs to be on good behavior, her hands will go together in front of her or behind as if she's being a good little girl, and she might look down and away (submission) and lift off her heels a bit.
It's a powerful screen if you're a powerful dude.
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Okay, I've been playing around with this a bit.
I don't like it in head-on approach. By the time you're done, she's looking at you like "Are you quite finished?" and then rolls her eyes or looks away, and you've lost the opportunity. For head-on, I prefer the "into-the-blue" method I described above.
But if you're approaching from behind, it's perfect. Generally I don't like chasing after a girl and catching up from behind... you're too liable to startle her if you open too early, and if you draw parallel and hang around too long, the moment is gone and it can feel weird... timing is tricky.
I've been experimenting with this, though, and it falls naturally into place. You know the situation when there's a girl in front with perfect legs or ass? So just as you draw level, you start looking at her ankles, then move up (really obviously) to the calves, knees, thighs, hips, waist, breasts... you get the idea. Once you raise your eyes as far as her face, she's looking at you curiously; you merely smile and say hi.
Tried it twice today and got a smile, "hello" and encouraging eye contact. The first was married (spotted her ring on my "way up"!), the second I somehow missed the moment because I wasn't expecting it to work. Next step is for me to open right after doing this. I like it
I don't like it in head-on approach. By the time you're done, she's looking at you like "Are you quite finished?" and then rolls her eyes or looks away, and you've lost the opportunity. For head-on, I prefer the "into-the-blue" method I described above.
But if you're approaching from behind, it's perfect. Generally I don't like chasing after a girl and catching up from behind... you're too liable to startle her if you open too early, and if you draw parallel and hang around too long, the moment is gone and it can feel weird... timing is tricky.
I've been experimenting with this, though, and it falls naturally into place. You know the situation when there's a girl in front with perfect legs or ass? So just as you draw level, you start looking at her ankles, then move up (really obviously) to the calves, knees, thighs, hips, waist, breasts... you get the idea. Once you raise your eyes as far as her face, she's looking at you curiously; you merely smile and say hi.
Tried it twice today and got a smile, "hello" and encouraging eye contact. The first was married (spotted her ring on my "way up"!), the second I somehow missed the moment because I wasn't expecting it to work. Next step is for me to open right after doing this. I like it