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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hey guys
I've noticed that when socialising, my marks for school go down since I end up spending most of my time trying to analyse people's reactions and what I'm gonna do next time. Yet when I focus on my work I end up becoming a recluse in my home as I'm so involved in my work. Does anybody have any tips on how to mack on girls even though my schedule is tight.

NB: I'm shooting for the honours class. If I'm gonna go then I might as well go all out hey ;)

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Lucky

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Okay so try and dedicate days to just studying and others to Pick up example Weekend: pick up and Week days: Study and have a few breaks and get social with friends and family maybe try a routine like that
 

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In a similar situation myself. At my high school, we had a saying: "Good grades, fun social life, or enough sleep - you can only pick two."

Francesco wrote an article that involves prioritizing what's most important to you. Usually, you can balance it. But if it comes down to a point where you have to choose one or the other, it's good to know what matters to you most because that's what you'll end up choosing.
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Lucky (; said:
Okay so try and dedicate days to just studying and others to Pick up example Weekend: pick up and Week days: Study and have a few breaks and get social with friends and family maybe try a routine like that

That's great advice. I actually focused all of my energy into studying first though and even though it set back my social skills a bit since I missed out on a lot of things, I managed to get myself relaxed knowing that I got my shit together. Now living my life with this rule you just gave me is gonna make everything more relaxed and easier to sort out.

Inbocca said:
In a similar situation myself. At my high school, we had a saying: "Good grades, fun social life, or enough sleep - you can only pick two."

Francesco wrote an article that involves prioritizing what's most important to you. Usually, you can balance it. But if it comes down to a point where you have to choose one or the other, it's good to know what matters to you most because that's what you'll end up choosing.

I agree 100%. Priorities seem to be the glue that holds the sanity of an ambitious man. It helps to work down the list of important thing to do by starting with what's most important. I accomplished that by studying first and it makes it a whole lot easier to socialise. I agree with lucky's rule as a lifestyle but when it comes down to choosing between what's important, prioritising can really ease my conscience and make deciding easier

Thanks guys. You've both been lots of help.
 
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