School questions

[CarterCarver]

Hello everyboddyy,
I'm a sophomore in highschool and I just had some questions on how to transpose a lot of this information for my specific environment.
1) It is almost always impossible to lead by the small of a girl's back, because they always have backpacks on. Is there any other leading areas? I've tried putting my arm around their shoulder and it's worked a fair amount, but for the most part girls only like their boyfriends doing that.

2) I have to see most of the girls I talk to 5 days a week. Would it be better to arrange a date earlier in the week (Mon, Tues) or later. If it's earlier I'm worried that if I don't constantly escalate day-by-day she'll lose interest by the date which will only be on the weekend, because I'm only free then.

3) Would it be better to flirt with eye contact and stuff whenn we're not allowed to talk, or just completely ignore the girl until after class?

Thanks, any opinions or suggestions would be great.

 

[Franco]

Hey TnA,

I'll try to help a bit here:

1) It is almost always impossible to lead by the small of a girl's back, because they always have backpacks on. Is there any other leading areas? I've tried putting my arm around their shoulder and it's worked a fair amount, but for the most part girls only like their boyfriends doing that.

I find it odd that many girls would be wearing backpacks these days... most of them have a purse-like bag they carry on their side and carry their books in their hands.

Anyway, if a girl does have a backpack for whatever reason, you can put your hand on her elbow or on her lower side (hip) to lead her along. Anything above that comes across as friendly/awkward and anything below that might be too sexual.

2) I have to see most of the girls I talk to 5 days a week. Would it be better to arrange a date earlier in the week (Mon, Tues) or later. If it's earlier I'm worried that if I don't constantly escalate day-by-day she'll lose interest by the date which will only be on the weekend, because I'm only free then.

Once you set up the date, you don't have to do anything else at all. If she approaches you to say something during the week, then be warm and reciprocate, but don't go out of your way to talk to her. Treat her as if you never even asked her out for a date.

3) Would it be better to flirt with eye contact and stuff whenn we're not allowed to talk, or just completely ignore the girl until after class?

I wouldn't really bother flirting while in class, but if you happen to accidentally make eye contact with her, then give her a sexy smirk and turn back to your work.

- Franco

 

[CarterCarver]

Thank you guys for your advice.

Franco- I'll try the elbow and hip thing, it sounds promising.

Casanova- Your method sounds good and I'll try it. Are there any suggestions you'd have for a girl I'm already acquainted with?

Thanks,
TnA