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Met this girl in December. Went to a coffee shop. She lost her virginity at age 28 and is now 31. Single digit partner count.
I don't remember the details from then, but she wouldn't come over. Plausible deniability was to come to Cafe Francis for another coffee. I was really high abundance at that time and she was low odds, so I basically just clued her in on my lifestyle since she was in hardcore LTR hunt mode.
***
Ten months later, I am clearing old numbers and again just threw this at the wall wondering how she would respond to this extremely low odds style. She's an extremely logical type girl with two Masters degrees and PMP who speaks her mind pretty unfiltered. So why not.
Me: Hi (her name)! I am switching phones and clearing out old numbers. Come for a walk sometime! Let's catch up.
-Francis
Her: Hey Francis, Nice to hear from you after a long time. Sure I'm up for a walk sometime at the riverside.
Me: Perfect! There is a little river behind my place (LR note: it is basically a ditch lol). A beautiful spot for a stroll
Her: Lol and I thought we finally moved away from cafe Francis
Me: Let's just drop the pretenses (her name)! You know I am an open minded individual with mutual pleasure on the mind. There is no pressure or expectation here either
However, I must be honest with you! What I desire is to listen to your musings about Shiva and such...nice conversation while I remove your clothing in private.
Her: I like the first half of ur desire but I've not seen or talked to u in several months. Undressing at this point is not something I'd be into unfortunately. I am certain you probably don't even remember what I look like. It's been like over 6 months since the only time we met
Me: So you ARE a hedonist! So focused on looks. Just kidding. The point is there is no hiding my desire but we don't have to do anything we are not both wanting to.
But I would like you to come over and give you the opportunity to get comfortable with me. Going backwards, not so much.
Her: It's not about looks really but like I said I don't sleep around. Nothing wrong with it, just not my thing. It takes me a long time to get there. If that's not for u, I would rather not waste ur time and mine
Me: Sex is always on your mind huh! I was just thinking cuddling up for an innocent chat
I definitely do tend to enjoy moving fast only if the vibe is right with the person, but it's not a requirement
Her: Haha u said removing my clothes
Me: I have a religious friend still a virgin, she just comes over cuddles naked and learned how to kiss. It's simple affection. Been over a year
Her: That's good and nice but I don't get naked with friends
Me: See that's why friendship is so limiting
Her: U have nothing to complain about
ur friends are different!
Me:For the first few months she kept lingerie on. Never a need to push her past the comfort zone
But the skin contact was nice! It is a basic human need we have for physical closeness
Her: That's good
Me: Yes see I am not at all saying you have to undress. But come over and spend time in private to get comfortable together
Her: What about u come over for coffee at cafe (her name). It's private and nice
Me: Sure, I'll come patron your cafe. What hours are you open? I could come Sunday through Tuesday this week (LR note: this was Thursday).
Me (chasing, hours later): I am already disappointed at the service!
Her: Lol I'm trying to see if that timing works haha I've a busy week ahead and many guests coming over for my bday
Me: Oh nice! We will have something to celebrate
Her: Yeah later in September. Now is just busy for me
Her (17 hours later): Sunday 4pm works for u?
Me: Yes that's great. Where's cafe (her name)
Her: (address)
Me: Sounds good!
Me (two days later): Hi (her name), I'm looking forward to coffee. See you this afternoon!
Her: Me too looking forward to a fully clothed coffee this afternoon
see u soon
***
Two hours and 15 minutes before the date, I had this exchange with someone else.
Her: That was such a good fucking yesterday. I'm so much more relaxed today.
I just wanted to tell you that I don't know what you've done to me. You woke up my sex drive with a vengeance. Maybe it's because it feels so good and I like your cock so much. Not really sure but it was dead in the water before you came along.
Her: Also I know you told me not to worry but... I just don't feel like I properly satisfied you.
Me: Hi (her name), you know what's funny is I tried to pull out before cumming and thought I was too late but I didn't cum. But I still felt like I did and was surprised
Her: Well you know what I'm like. I always have to know that I pleased my Master. Anyway I really appreciate you coming to see me. I needed to cum in the worst way that only a cock inside me can achieve. I now owe you a sexual favor. A good blowjob maybe?
Her: Btw I still want to give you a blowjob job on my porch. With the lights off I can guarantee that noone will see
Me: Sure we can do that soon. I'd like to make your fantasy come true
Her: I think about your cock often when I'm sitting on that porch. Probably a good part of the reason I get so horny. I really do like your cock an awful lot. And just so you know, I don't enjoy giving blowjobs to just any guy.
Me: Well you can do it today if you're around. I could come by in an hour or so. We can do the porch fantasy another night soon
Her: I am around actually. And I would love to give you a blowjob
Me: Great, I'll give you a heads up in a bit
Her: Ok sounds good. Talk to you in a bit
And if you don't mind, I want to take my time and give you a really good one
Me: 10mins!
Her: Ok I'm ready
Me: K hop in
Her: Omw
(Intermission)
Her: It's hard to talk with a cock in my mouth so I'll tell you what I like about it. It's just the right size and has a nice shape and he's always clean. I like the way he grows in my mouth and it's a real turn on when he throbs for me. Then I know I'm doing a good job. I don't know what else to say except I really like your cock a lot.
I also really like that you came by to see me today. I really do enjoy giving you blowjobs. It just gets me off to give you sexual pleasure and make my Master happy.
***
(Back to LR)
Arrived and she wouldn't sit on the same couch as me. Talked about her work and mine. Got into relationship talk fast. She had some guy see her for a month, meet her friends, then had bad sex and he ghosted.
She got up to make tea and twisted her knee every so slightly, so I used it as an excuse to rub it and admitted it was an excuse. She was receptive.
She talked about how she doesn't have sexual needs without love and I said she must have quite a sex toy collection. I think I nicked this from Alek. I asked if she touches herself and she was open about it. She said she's very vanilla and it is even her favorite ice cream flavor. She watches basic porn with stories, including guy on girl massage porn.
She kept talking about not wanting sex, referencing being hurt by the recent ghosting, so I said we don't have to and I don't need anything from her. I asked how she touches herself and it was just the clit. I said I like going as deep inside as I can.
I kissed her and fractionated out a few times back to having her show me some Indian music.
Eventually I said let's go to her room and she said ok but she's not taking off her pants.
She took off her pants. We made out and I gave her a good deep fingering.
Then we went to her backyard fire pit and talked a while about her other relationship history. She asked me to stay to order food but I legit had to do laundry or will not have underwear this week.
Kissed her goodbye and we started making out heavy back in the kitchen. I pulled the blind down and said I'd bend her over the counter. She said she didn't want to have sex but would go down on me, so she got on her knees. I pulled out a condom and put it on. I said I think you want it. She said next time. I said I'll come back and give her a birthday present. She got up and I pulled her pants down. She was worried it was in view of the front window so I said let's go to the bedroom. She walked in and I said you can stop me any time, then bent her over the bed. Then turned her around and pushed her on it.
In honor of the sex talking like a teenager, here's a piece of @Teevster history.
I don't remember the details from then, but she wouldn't come over. Plausible deniability was to come to Cafe Francis for another coffee. I was really high abundance at that time and she was low odds, so I basically just clued her in on my lifestyle since she was in hardcore LTR hunt mode.
***
Ten months later, I am clearing old numbers and again just threw this at the wall wondering how she would respond to this extremely low odds style. She's an extremely logical type girl with two Masters degrees and PMP who speaks her mind pretty unfiltered. So why not.
Me: Hi (her name)! I am switching phones and clearing out old numbers. Come for a walk sometime! Let's catch up.
-Francis
Her: Hey Francis, Nice to hear from you after a long time. Sure I'm up for a walk sometime at the riverside.
Me: Perfect! There is a little river behind my place (LR note: it is basically a ditch lol). A beautiful spot for a stroll
Her: Lol and I thought we finally moved away from cafe Francis
Me: Let's just drop the pretenses (her name)! You know I am an open minded individual with mutual pleasure on the mind. There is no pressure or expectation here either
However, I must be honest with you! What I desire is to listen to your musings about Shiva and such...nice conversation while I remove your clothing in private.
Her: I like the first half of ur desire but I've not seen or talked to u in several months. Undressing at this point is not something I'd be into unfortunately. I am certain you probably don't even remember what I look like. It's been like over 6 months since the only time we met
Me: So you ARE a hedonist! So focused on looks. Just kidding. The point is there is no hiding my desire but we don't have to do anything we are not both wanting to.
But I would like you to come over and give you the opportunity to get comfortable with me. Going backwards, not so much.
Her: It's not about looks really but like I said I don't sleep around. Nothing wrong with it, just not my thing. It takes me a long time to get there. If that's not for u, I would rather not waste ur time and mine

Me: Sex is always on your mind huh! I was just thinking cuddling up for an innocent chat
I definitely do tend to enjoy moving fast only if the vibe is right with the person, but it's not a requirement
Her: Haha u said removing my clothes

Me: I have a religious friend still a virgin, she just comes over cuddles naked and learned how to kiss. It's simple affection. Been over a year
Her: That's good and nice but I don't get naked with friends

Me: See that's why friendship is so limiting
Her: U have nothing to complain about

Me:For the first few months she kept lingerie on. Never a need to push her past the comfort zone
But the skin contact was nice! It is a basic human need we have for physical closeness
Her: That's good

Me: Yes see I am not at all saying you have to undress. But come over and spend time in private to get comfortable together
Her: What about u come over for coffee at cafe (her name). It's private and nice
Me: Sure, I'll come patron your cafe. What hours are you open? I could come Sunday through Tuesday this week (LR note: this was Thursday).
Me (chasing, hours later): I am already disappointed at the service!
Her: Lol I'm trying to see if that timing works haha I've a busy week ahead and many guests coming over for my bday
Me: Oh nice! We will have something to celebrate
Her: Yeah later in September. Now is just busy for me
Her (17 hours later): Sunday 4pm works for u?
Me: Yes that's great. Where's cafe (her name)
Her: (address)
Me: Sounds good!
Me (two days later): Hi (her name), I'm looking forward to coffee. See you this afternoon!
Her: Me too looking forward to a fully clothed coffee this afternoon

***
Two hours and 15 minutes before the date, I had this exchange with someone else.
Her: That was such a good fucking yesterday. I'm so much more relaxed today.
I just wanted to tell you that I don't know what you've done to me. You woke up my sex drive with a vengeance. Maybe it's because it feels so good and I like your cock so much. Not really sure but it was dead in the water before you came along.
Her: Also I know you told me not to worry but... I just don't feel like I properly satisfied you.
Me: Hi (her name), you know what's funny is I tried to pull out before cumming and thought I was too late but I didn't cum. But I still felt like I did and was surprised
Her: Well you know what I'm like. I always have to know that I pleased my Master. Anyway I really appreciate you coming to see me. I needed to cum in the worst way that only a cock inside me can achieve. I now owe you a sexual favor. A good blowjob maybe?
Her: Btw I still want to give you a blowjob job on my porch. With the lights off I can guarantee that noone will see
Me: Sure we can do that soon. I'd like to make your fantasy come true
Her: I think about your cock often when I'm sitting on that porch. Probably a good part of the reason I get so horny. I really do like your cock an awful lot. And just so you know, I don't enjoy giving blowjobs to just any guy.
Me: Well you can do it today if you're around. I could come by in an hour or so. We can do the porch fantasy another night soon
Her: I am around actually. And I would love to give you a blowjob
Me: Great, I'll give you a heads up in a bit
Her: Ok sounds good. Talk to you in a bit
And if you don't mind, I want to take my time and give you a really good one
Me: 10mins!
Her: Ok I'm ready
Me: K hop in
Her: Omw
(Intermission)
Her: It's hard to talk with a cock in my mouth so I'll tell you what I like about it. It's just the right size and has a nice shape and he's always clean. I like the way he grows in my mouth and it's a real turn on when he throbs for me. Then I know I'm doing a good job. I don't know what else to say except I really like your cock a lot.
I also really like that you came by to see me today. I really do enjoy giving you blowjobs. It just gets me off to give you sexual pleasure and make my Master happy.
***
(Back to LR)
Arrived and she wouldn't sit on the same couch as me. Talked about her work and mine. Got into relationship talk fast. She had some guy see her for a month, meet her friends, then had bad sex and he ghosted.
She got up to make tea and twisted her knee every so slightly, so I used it as an excuse to rub it and admitted it was an excuse. She was receptive.
She talked about how she doesn't have sexual needs without love and I said she must have quite a sex toy collection. I think I nicked this from Alek. I asked if she touches herself and she was open about it. She said she's very vanilla and it is even her favorite ice cream flavor. She watches basic porn with stories, including guy on girl massage porn.
She kept talking about not wanting sex, referencing being hurt by the recent ghosting, so I said we don't have to and I don't need anything from her. I asked how she touches herself and it was just the clit. I said I like going as deep inside as I can.
I kissed her and fractionated out a few times back to having her show me some Indian music.
Eventually I said let's go to her room and she said ok but she's not taking off her pants.
She took off her pants. We made out and I gave her a good deep fingering.
Then we went to her backyard fire pit and talked a while about her other relationship history. She asked me to stay to order food but I legit had to do laundry or will not have underwear this week.
Kissed her goodbye and we started making out heavy back in the kitchen. I pulled the blind down and said I'd bend her over the counter. She said she didn't want to have sex but would go down on me, so she got on her knees. I pulled out a condom and put it on. I said I think you want it. She said next time. I said I'll come back and give her a birthday present. She got up and I pulled her pants down. She was worried it was in view of the front window so I said let's go to the bedroom. She walked in and I said you can stop me any time, then bent her over the bed. Then turned her around and pushed her on it.
In honor of the sex talking like a teenager, here's a piece of @Teevster history.