Because I feel that I still need to learn seduction to a high degree and because I also feel not to pass the commitment point (Read this https://www.girlschase.com/content/commitment-points-why-you-must-avoid) I still flirt, meet and (sometimes) seduce women while in a relationship.
The girl I am currently dating is fully aware of this and I made that clear very early on (third week). We've been dating for 10 months now and as long as I respect the following rules:
*Not having risky sex (without prevention).
*Not falling for anyone.
She is completely okay with this.
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So she knows that I from time to time share bed with other women and doesn't care (she seem to get more aroused and attracted to me). But how do I manage to pull this off with the other girls in a way that don't conflict with my integrity?
*Do you tell all the other girls that you are taken but seduce them anyway? (I believe auto-rejection can set in?).
Or
*Do you "behave" in pre-selected ways and don't mention anything? (After all, it's just a date or a casual meeting. They will feel that you aren't bf-material so why bother saying anything about relationship status?)
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With my girlfriend, I usually don't tell her details about other women (usually just say that I hung out with x or y and nothing else and she never asks for details anyway).
Next month, I will meet a past lover in her town for a couple of days (4 hours from my city), I told my girlfriend I will visit her and that I also would try to do some work over there. The girl I am visiting seems not to see me as bf-material and doesn't know the details of my dating life. This will only be a little vacation with lots of sex, and maybe some work and so on.
But sometimes I feel the need to be totally open about everything. It just feels a little wrong not to tell all the details, but do I need to say all the details?
This way of dating is quite new for me.
Some perspectives will be highly appreciated.
The girl I am currently dating is fully aware of this and I made that clear very early on (third week). We've been dating for 10 months now and as long as I respect the following rules:
*Not having risky sex (without prevention).
*Not falling for anyone.
She is completely okay with this.
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So she knows that I from time to time share bed with other women and doesn't care (she seem to get more aroused and attracted to me). But how do I manage to pull this off with the other girls in a way that don't conflict with my integrity?
*Do you tell all the other girls that you are taken but seduce them anyway? (I believe auto-rejection can set in?).
Or
*Do you "behave" in pre-selected ways and don't mention anything? (After all, it's just a date or a casual meeting. They will feel that you aren't bf-material so why bother saying anything about relationship status?)
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With my girlfriend, I usually don't tell her details about other women (usually just say that I hung out with x or y and nothing else and she never asks for details anyway).
Next month, I will meet a past lover in her town for a couple of days (4 hours from my city), I told my girlfriend I will visit her and that I also would try to do some work over there. The girl I am visiting seems not to see me as bf-material and doesn't know the details of my dating life. This will only be a little vacation with lots of sex, and maybe some work and so on.
But sometimes I feel the need to be totally open about everything. It just feels a little wrong not to tell all the details, but do I need to say all the details?
This way of dating is quite new for me.
Some perspectives will be highly appreciated.
