Seduction in a foreign country?

[PinotNoir]

I'll be going to Japan this year for a week, and I don't know the language at all. I would also like to have some good nights and mornings.... if you know what I mean

But, how can I seduce a girl without knowing the language at all? I think Chase has an article on this, but I forgot what it was called.

Do you guys have any tips?

I'm also worried about major cockblocks or girls with boyfriends or any other misunderstandings, and I'm worried about navigating around town, especially within a bar/club.

Do you even suggest bars/clubs? Is it possible to do day game without knowing much of the language?

At least I'll have time to learn some phrases/words, but there's no way deep-diving will happen. It will be more like, "Hi, you're beautiful. Want to date?" And, then I'd just expect to say that to 50 girls with 50 rejections, which doesn't sound like a fun vacation to me.

Of course, being with women is not the main goal. I am going there because I want to travel there, and I view making love to some local women as a bonus. If I do decide to pursue some women, I just want to know the best ways to do it to up my chances.

Thanks

 

[Marty]

Pinot Noir:

I've never actually done this, but I have been to Japan a few times, and here's how I'd approach the problem.

Go to one of the many major business districts in Tokyo. A lot of young Japanese women work as secretaries in foreign firms (the glass ceiling in Japan is reinforced, bombproof glass) and speak a variety of English. Everyone commutes by train within the metro area, so figure out their path from the office to the station in the evening rush... it's easy, all you have to do is look for the massive stream of humanity. The sheer number of people in urban Japan is beyond comprehension.

Your opener is straightforward: "Do you speak English?" If no, screen out and move on to the next. If yes, go direct. With the population density over there you should easily be able to screen 3-4 girls per minute at peak hours.

Yokohama is a great option as it's about the most international, foreign-influenced place in Japan—it was the port through which Cdre Matthew Perry, from the good ole US of A, entered Japan in 1853 to force it open for trade—and it's within the Tokyo metropolitan area, only about a couple hours from Narita. I'd guess you'd find a greater proportion of English speakers there than most other cities in Japan. You may even be able to lay an expat babe It's full of tourists, too, who let's face it have nothing much to do (and not much to lose either).

Note one oddity which is that the age of majority in Japan is 20... higher than almost anywhere I know. I have no idea how that affects intimate relations, but I'd use caution. As normal in any unfamiliar locale, it's advisable to be aware of the local regulations and act conservatively where in doubt.

Personally I don't even dig East Asian babes, but de gustibus non est disputandum—my brother's married to one.

Hope you have a wonderful time... it's a beautiful country and very fascinating.

-Marty

 

[PinotNoir]

Thanks man. That really is straightforward and simple. "Do you speak English?" Most people tell me that a lot of people speak English too (at least in major cities, just not rural areas).

I just wonder how my approach will "translate" to a foreign girl. I guess it's 50%. Either she'll find me creepy as a strange foreigner or she'll find me irresistible as exotic. And if it's exotic, then is my value too high? We'll see.....

I already have so much planned out with friends, so I imagine that I may not even have time to approach women. But, most of it is scheduled before dinner. After dinner or late at night before bed, I can walk the streets and meet some locals It'll be a fun adventure no matter what happens.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Dude I'm searching for Chases article on nonverbal's from a while back that talked and gave examples on how to find and lead women that don't speak your language. It was a really good picture of how to pull off such a feat but I can't find it.

I'm sure you've read this one, as it's pretty helpful.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-foreign-girls

I did a little bit when I went to Dominican Republic but most of the women there that didn't speak English were prostitutes so I mostly tried my luck with social circle.

Hope to see some F/LR's from your trip Pinot.

-Rob