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Separating Friendship and Competition. Social Grace blur is just Social Grace

trashKENNUT

Cro-Magnon Man
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Hi Guys,

I see this in all walks of life. One example would be Soccer players comment on their buddies if they beat their friends on the national team. They comment good things about the other person.

To the guy who have lost the game and lack understanding, He thinks that "oh... Zac is just being pretentious. He's trying to be nice to everyone". The truth is, he tells good things about you. But the problem is you think that i am ought to get you, or undermind you by playing mind games.

First things first, maybe Zac is playing mind games, but you wouldn't know. But you do need to know something. You need to know yourself. People can say whatever things. They doing for social grace because it puts them in a good light, it means they are perceived as "high quality". Whatever it is, you need to know your objective. Because if you think people are playing "mind games", it is really nothing but truth here and truth there, just opinions.

Everything is "truth". Now where do we go is for the result.

Zac
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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