Setting up dates from nightlife social circle

[Damien]

I'm wondering how to efficiently set up dates in a social circle environment that is nightlife focused. I meet people in a student club and after a formal part we always go to a bar where there are also other people and in general there's a lot of mingling. It's not so easy to pull on those evenings cuz most people have to catch the last train home, we never go really hardcore with the drinking and it's quite hard to be discrete there. But it's a weekly event with plenty of girls that I like so I'm trying to figure out the best strategy.

I like dates that include drinking, like cocktails for example, but it doesn't seem so congruent to propose a cocktail date, when you're already in a bar. Works occasionally, but the girl needs to like you a lot.

What's your strategy for this? I know Chase stated in one article that daygame is a lot easier for getting dates than nightgame, but if anyone found a semi-reliable way it'd be great to get some insights.

 

[Fuck This]

Basically use the group laid back vibe to engage women in the group on a more friendly level. Create rapport and comfort. Make arrangement to do a one on one date that addresses a mutual connection. IE : you both like Rock Climbing, wine tasting, Cooking, bike riding, etc. You should always make it clear you are going to do something back at your place to cement that inevitable conclusion.

Set up the date so she meets you at your place, and you go back to your place after the date if your activity is over. Do the Seppuku Date 2 escalation fixing dinner at your place.

Now needless to say, since this is social circle, you are going to be seeing these women again. So don't burn any bridges but emphasize that you are a guy who values his freedom as well as sharing good times with beautiful women. Not a player Hit it and Quit it kinda guy but not second date exclusive. it is up to you to define that relationship after you have bedded her.