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Hey guys, had a situation come up ~2 weeks ago, and I'm not totally sure what to think about it. I think I know where I "messed up" (if I did), but would appreciate input.
First off, for the past six months or so, I've been really experimenting with sex talk, as described in Alek Rolstad's articles. It's fucking amazing. That plus some basic escalation makes for some really sexual experiences, in total public.
A few weeks ago, I was at a concert with some of my friends. We took a train to the concert, and met up with a girl we know while we were on the train. She's a pretty "hard" girl. Short, but feisty. She has tattoos, a fucking amazing rack and ass, she spits a lot, and is pretty vulgar. If I had to, I'd probably say she's a little rougher around the edge than I like. But she is hot and has a great body, and is reasonably cool.
Now, the last time I hung out with her was with a big group, several months ago. I actually posted about that on here as well. Basically I was getting sexual with three girls, but didn't isolate the one I wanted and get contact details. This girl was the girl I should've done that with.
So, there was already some chemistry and a little tension there.
On the train, four of us dudes sat in a booth, and she sat in the booth behind us by herself. Not sure how that happened. But it was pretty fun, because I kept reaching behind and patting her head, smacking her bare legs, taking her drink and drinking it... just teasing her a lot. She was feisty about it but I could tell she didn't mind. Although she did try and take my arm and twist it up the seat as hard as she could.... it would've fucking HURT if I wasn't a lot stronger than her. I actually liked her doing that, cause it showed her she couldn't do shit to me trying her hardest, while I barely had to do anything to stop her.
So, we have a good vibe going. Then me and my friend see this cute blonde chick at the booth to the front of us. We were looking at her, and she definitely noticed. We kept staring at her periodically, talking about her as we did, so she saw us as we were talking about her. It was a little odd, but we were just goofing around. I said, "one of us is gonna have to talk to her". My friend wasn't making any moves, so I got up and talked to her.
She turned out to be 17 (damn, the bodies on these young girls). But she was going to the same concert we were. I flirted with her, and it was clearly going well. At the same time, I wasn't that interested in anything with her (still not sure how I feel about 17, although I guess it's technically legal). I offered her some of our drink, which the first girl had brought. She took a few sips.
Then we all got off, and I let the 17 year old slip away. I go back to talking to the first girl, and I could tell the vibe was slightly different. There was definitely still sexual tension. But she was angry, and not being as openly flirtatious with me. I figured she got pissed because I talked to the other girl, while I already had a good vibe going with her as well. So, I just ignored it and kept flirting.
We got to the concert, and we still had a lot of tension. But she kept drinking, and as she got more drunk, she got angrier. I've read Chase's article on how when girls get angry, they're most likely horny. I knew this, but wasn't sure what to do, since the only place anything could've happened was in a porta potty.
We met up with some other girls we knew while we were there. They're really cute, and a few of them are into me. The "hard" girl came up to us chatting, and put her finger on my lips to "rub off some glitter". It felt like she was trying to cock block me, although I was thankful for it... I'll never turn down social proof.
When we separated from the girls, she was still blatantly angry with me. She was all over my friend, right in front of me... hugging him and rubbing him. I don't mind, because my friend's a badass. I wouldn't mind if he slept with this chick. But as she would get close to him, she would look at me to make sure I was watching. I knew she was fucking with me... it irritated me a little, but I felt like I knew what she was doing, so I don't mind.
We get some water, and I joke about spilling it on her white tank-top. She gives me a sultry look. So I spill a little on there. She gives me a sexy look and a little push.
We start walking. As we're walking, I slap her ass, because she's got a great one. She makes a little scene, not quite yelling, but talking loudly about how I can't touch her ass. It was pretty funny actually, a few people who saw were cracking up. I joke with her and brush her off. Then she fucking hits me as hard as she can in the stomach. It didn't hurt that bad, but it fucking pissed me off.
I don't like a girl to slap me, or hit me, in a public place. Because if a girl does that shit to me, I want to give it to her right back. I'll let girls do a lot to me, but if they want to start hitting me, I'm going to put them in their place. But I knew the vibe of the place... I felt like hitting her or slapping her would definitely be a bad move to make... especially 'cause some people saw me slap her ass in the first place. They didn't see all the history her and I had together.
I'm pissed at this point, and sick of her shit. I don't care if she's horny or not, that's unacceptable to me, and I can't fuck her there anyways. So I completely pull back emotionally from her, leave, and although she was around where I was the rest of the night, I didn't talk to her or pay any attention to her. For the record, she wasn't exactly trying to get my attention. But when I talked to my friend who was by her, she made a little sassy remark (but not aggressive like before). And then when I was looking around I saw her, we made eye contact, and I kinda felt a vibe like she regretted how she had acted earlier.
But, I left to hang out with some other girls I knew there, and didn't see her the rest of the night.
This is such a weird situation to me... it's not something I've really dealt with before. I like getting girls aggressive like this. I was once sex talking to a girl at a bar, and she got really heated up. At one point she slaps me jokingly. I tell her it was weak as shit. She slaps me again, harder. I look her in the eyes and tell her not to slap me again. Later we're talking up against a wall, and I say something to her. She slaps me again. So I slapped her across her face. Not nearly as hard as I could, but hard enough that it was a real slap, not just a joke. She was shocked I had the balls to hit her, and she instantly turned into a kitty, and never slapped me again. Honestly, it was crazy what happened... it was almost the same as the vibe I get with a girl after I've had sex with her. Just very submissive and feminine.
Now, to some extent, I don't want all these aggressive girls around me. But I've realized it's just a type of girl. With a lot of girls, I do sex talk and they're really feminine and flirtatious... I already have the lead. But some girls want to challenge my lead. I like this, because I know I will always win against a girl. I like showing them that there are some guys left that still have balls, and won't let a girl do whatever she wants to them just because she's a girl.
I guess the biggest question I have, is what's the limit? In my eyes, after things get to a certain point, I want to convert that aggression into sexual energy. I don't want things to get to the point of where she's hitting me, or if they do, I want to be alone with her so I can fuck her brains out right then.
This shit is really primal. Really interested to hear your guys' thoughts.
First off, for the past six months or so, I've been really experimenting with sex talk, as described in Alek Rolstad's articles. It's fucking amazing. That plus some basic escalation makes for some really sexual experiences, in total public.
A few weeks ago, I was at a concert with some of my friends. We took a train to the concert, and met up with a girl we know while we were on the train. She's a pretty "hard" girl. Short, but feisty. She has tattoos, a fucking amazing rack and ass, she spits a lot, and is pretty vulgar. If I had to, I'd probably say she's a little rougher around the edge than I like. But she is hot and has a great body, and is reasonably cool.
Now, the last time I hung out with her was with a big group, several months ago. I actually posted about that on here as well. Basically I was getting sexual with three girls, but didn't isolate the one I wanted and get contact details. This girl was the girl I should've done that with.
So, there was already some chemistry and a little tension there.
On the train, four of us dudes sat in a booth, and she sat in the booth behind us by herself. Not sure how that happened. But it was pretty fun, because I kept reaching behind and patting her head, smacking her bare legs, taking her drink and drinking it... just teasing her a lot. She was feisty about it but I could tell she didn't mind. Although she did try and take my arm and twist it up the seat as hard as she could.... it would've fucking HURT if I wasn't a lot stronger than her. I actually liked her doing that, cause it showed her she couldn't do shit to me trying her hardest, while I barely had to do anything to stop her.
So, we have a good vibe going. Then me and my friend see this cute blonde chick at the booth to the front of us. We were looking at her, and she definitely noticed. We kept staring at her periodically, talking about her as we did, so she saw us as we were talking about her. It was a little odd, but we were just goofing around. I said, "one of us is gonna have to talk to her". My friend wasn't making any moves, so I got up and talked to her.
She turned out to be 17 (damn, the bodies on these young girls). But she was going to the same concert we were. I flirted with her, and it was clearly going well. At the same time, I wasn't that interested in anything with her (still not sure how I feel about 17, although I guess it's technically legal). I offered her some of our drink, which the first girl had brought. She took a few sips.
Then we all got off, and I let the 17 year old slip away. I go back to talking to the first girl, and I could tell the vibe was slightly different. There was definitely still sexual tension. But she was angry, and not being as openly flirtatious with me. I figured she got pissed because I talked to the other girl, while I already had a good vibe going with her as well. So, I just ignored it and kept flirting.
We got to the concert, and we still had a lot of tension. But she kept drinking, and as she got more drunk, she got angrier. I've read Chase's article on how when girls get angry, they're most likely horny. I knew this, but wasn't sure what to do, since the only place anything could've happened was in a porta potty.
We met up with some other girls we knew while we were there. They're really cute, and a few of them are into me. The "hard" girl came up to us chatting, and put her finger on my lips to "rub off some glitter". It felt like she was trying to cock block me, although I was thankful for it... I'll never turn down social proof.
When we separated from the girls, she was still blatantly angry with me. She was all over my friend, right in front of me... hugging him and rubbing him. I don't mind, because my friend's a badass. I wouldn't mind if he slept with this chick. But as she would get close to him, she would look at me to make sure I was watching. I knew she was fucking with me... it irritated me a little, but I felt like I knew what she was doing, so I don't mind.
We get some water, and I joke about spilling it on her white tank-top. She gives me a sultry look. So I spill a little on there. She gives me a sexy look and a little push.
We start walking. As we're walking, I slap her ass, because she's got a great one. She makes a little scene, not quite yelling, but talking loudly about how I can't touch her ass. It was pretty funny actually, a few people who saw were cracking up. I joke with her and brush her off. Then she fucking hits me as hard as she can in the stomach. It didn't hurt that bad, but it fucking pissed me off.
I don't like a girl to slap me, or hit me, in a public place. Because if a girl does that shit to me, I want to give it to her right back. I'll let girls do a lot to me, but if they want to start hitting me, I'm going to put them in their place. But I knew the vibe of the place... I felt like hitting her or slapping her would definitely be a bad move to make... especially 'cause some people saw me slap her ass in the first place. They didn't see all the history her and I had together.
I'm pissed at this point, and sick of her shit. I don't care if she's horny or not, that's unacceptable to me, and I can't fuck her there anyways. So I completely pull back emotionally from her, leave, and although she was around where I was the rest of the night, I didn't talk to her or pay any attention to her. For the record, she wasn't exactly trying to get my attention. But when I talked to my friend who was by her, she made a little sassy remark (but not aggressive like before). And then when I was looking around I saw her, we made eye contact, and I kinda felt a vibe like she regretted how she had acted earlier.
But, I left to hang out with some other girls I knew there, and didn't see her the rest of the night.
This is such a weird situation to me... it's not something I've really dealt with before. I like getting girls aggressive like this. I was once sex talking to a girl at a bar, and she got really heated up. At one point she slaps me jokingly. I tell her it was weak as shit. She slaps me again, harder. I look her in the eyes and tell her not to slap me again. Later we're talking up against a wall, and I say something to her. She slaps me again. So I slapped her across her face. Not nearly as hard as I could, but hard enough that it was a real slap, not just a joke. She was shocked I had the balls to hit her, and she instantly turned into a kitty, and never slapped me again. Honestly, it was crazy what happened... it was almost the same as the vibe I get with a girl after I've had sex with her. Just very submissive and feminine.
Now, to some extent, I don't want all these aggressive girls around me. But I've realized it's just a type of girl. With a lot of girls, I do sex talk and they're really feminine and flirtatious... I already have the lead. But some girls want to challenge my lead. I like this, because I know I will always win against a girl. I like showing them that there are some guys left that still have balls, and won't let a girl do whatever she wants to them just because she's a girl.
I guess the biggest question I have, is what's the limit? In my eyes, after things get to a certain point, I want to convert that aggression into sexual energy. I don't want things to get to the point of where she's hitting me, or if they do, I want to be alone with her so I can fuck her brains out right then.
This shit is really primal. Really interested to hear your guys' thoughts.
