Dear all,
I didn't intend to write this until I read one of Chase's latest posts. According to this, kissing a woman might lead you away from having sex with her in a second date. Bellow I will briefly describe a specific situation. I would like to know your views about it.
Last Saturday I went out with male friends. As I enter the lounge bar and before I even order my drink at the bar, I start talking to beautiful woman next to me. To make the long story short: she showed clear interest; I arranged a meeting with her for the very next day; We exchanged numbers. On Sunday I called and we met for a drink at 9 pm. I kissed her within 40 minutes and she received my move very warmly (she even touched me during the kiss on my face..sort of passionate-romantic style). It was Sunday, and on Monday I had to wake up early. I didn't intend to take her home, so I ended the interaction 2 hours later.
On Wednesday I call her. She didn't reply.
On Thursday I send her a simple message: "How are you, T?"
Her: "Hey, I am fine, just really really busy..."
Me: "Good. If you can make it, let's meet during the weekend."
Her: "I don't think I will have time, sorry..."
Me: "No problem. Did you enjoy our last meeting?"
Her: "Yes, it was nice. I will let you know, if I have time to meet"
After that I did nothing more and I decided to make myself a scarce resource to her.
Do you think this is a lost case? Was it that lethal not to proceed with her on the first date? Can it be reversed? Could she genuinely be busy?
P.S. She came dressed very casually. Nothing like her feminine outfit when I first met her. I didn't get for one moment the impression that she wanted something more and I even consider her really self-disciplined based on things she said: having a lot of deadlines etc.
I didn't intend to write this until I read one of Chase's latest posts. According to this, kissing a woman might lead you away from having sex with her in a second date. Bellow I will briefly describe a specific situation. I would like to know your views about it.
Last Saturday I went out with male friends. As I enter the lounge bar and before I even order my drink at the bar, I start talking to beautiful woman next to me. To make the long story short: she showed clear interest; I arranged a meeting with her for the very next day; We exchanged numbers. On Sunday I called and we met for a drink at 9 pm. I kissed her within 40 minutes and she received my move very warmly (she even touched me during the kiss on my face..sort of passionate-romantic style). It was Sunday, and on Monday I had to wake up early. I didn't intend to take her home, so I ended the interaction 2 hours later.
On Wednesday I call her. She didn't reply.
On Thursday I send her a simple message: "How are you, T?"
Her: "Hey, I am fine, just really really busy..."
Me: "Good. If you can make it, let's meet during the weekend."
Her: "I don't think I will have time, sorry..."
Me: "No problem. Did you enjoy our last meeting?"
Her: "Yes, it was nice. I will let you know, if I have time to meet"
After that I did nothing more and I decided to make myself a scarce resource to her.
Do you think this is a lost case? Was it that lethal not to proceed with her on the first date? Can it be reversed? Could she genuinely be busy?
P.S. She came dressed very casually. Nothing like her feminine outfit when I first met her. I didn't get for one moment the impression that she wanted something more and I even consider her really self-disciplined based on things she said: having a lot of deadlines etc.