Sexual Anxiety,

[trashKENNUT]

I was reading a few messages in my hotmail about sexual anxiety.

Wanted to note, that most guys do have sexual anxiety, even moderate experience guys. I mean especially when you touch a women the first time, then from friendly hug, touching of the arms, the hands, and then under arm, her lower back, her shoulders with your palm just resting above her breast (she might pull you there sometimes) all the way to her thighs, legs and you know where i am going.

I think the best thing to do is let this go, and learn by experience. Really, I don't think it's possible to read the stuff here or any other dating sites and actually be comfortable and suddenly turn Superman tomorrow. You will probably hate the first few rounds of things, perhaps even more than that.

I guess it's a gradual learning experience that everybody has to participate.

Zac

 

[NarrowJ]

Zac,

I know I've certainly experienced this, and you are correct- it just diminishes with experience.

However, something new and exciting will still trigger this anxiety and nervousness in me. A while back I slept with a Hispanic girl for the first time, and it was like all those jittery feelings came back in the moments leading up to sex, exactly like I used to feel when I was less experienced.

NJ

 

[trashKENNUT]

NJ,

There's something about new girls that even i too get that anxiety too and nervousness. It never goes away totally. Maybe getting laid 3000 times like those guys, Rolling Stones Mick Jagger, might do the trick.

Haha

Zac