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I just wanted to share my experience of finding myself in a bad situation with a girl and how, if you find yourself in a similar situation, you can avoid becoming bitter and have some great fun with it instead.
It's 7pm, I am late for my dance squads training session, and my partner has just text me to say she cannot make it this week. We were due to be running the routine for the final time before competition that week and I absolutely needed a partner. Somewhere in the dusty recesses of my mind I recall a friend telling me that they knew a girl who lives in my apartment building who has a background in dance. So I get her number, call her up, and ask if she wants to learn a new routine with me this week. She agrees and I offer her a lift to the venue as she has no transport and the buses don't run there.
Now this is all great for me except, rather annoyingly, she turns out to be quite good and gets offered a spot on the squad for the rest of the year (although not partnered with me as my regular partner returned later that week).
Here is the kicker though; it's a worlds bid squad, a very rare thing, so she is never likely to risk throwing that away for a roll in the hay with me.
And that's the story of how I got myself stuck giving a girl I am not sleeping with, nor am ever likely to, multiple lifts each week.
Hell of an annoying situation right? Or so I would have thought before reading the material on this site!
Now though, I am having some of the most fun with a girl it is possible to have with your clothes on! We are both fit young things so there is an obvious underlying sexual attraction but playing on this, building it up, ramping up the sexual tension to the point where it's about to explode, where you can see every muscle in her face contorting in a futile attempt to hide her biological urges, then casually defusing it, well, it's just fun! I have used the deep dive on very personal topics and I know more about her than probably even her closest friends do, I have covered each of these topics with her in depth so she knows exactly how I like to treat women and that I am definitely not boyfriend material.
And do you know what? I am glad we are not likely to sleep together. I know if I push for it there is a chance that we could sleep together. But I also know there is a very real chance it could blow up in my face and make things very difficult for us both. Thing is though, because I know that this is not leading somewhere, there is no big event horizon looming where I must kiss her, invite her home, or escalate sexually with her, it just means the pressure is off. Somehow this suave 'Bond like' character comes out of me when I am just in the moment and not thinking about what is to come. Heck I have said stuff like "you know, if you haven't got anything better to do we might as-well just go back to my place and fuck" and it worked, she loved it, because I really didn't give a shit, that devil may care attitude shone through and it didn't matter that I just said something completely base and reprehensible because it was smooth, outcome independent and she was obviously feeling it too.
So I am happy leaving it just the way it is. With the pressure off and a beautiful dancer girl to just have fun with and mind fuck with anticipation, sexual tension and practice giving her stronger emotions with just my words than most guys can with their dicks, well, lets just say my game has come on leaps and bounds since meeting her. And we haven't even kissed.
So there you have it, what would previously have had me yelling out "Why am I stuck giving this hot girl lifts while she is likely off fucking other guys?" I am now able to say that this is a good situation for me, I have learned so much.
Anyway, I just wanted to say thanks for the material here (you can see by the amount of article links how ingrained this stuff is in my interactions now), and turning my life around, and I wanted to hopefully give something back to the community here. I know the more experienced guys won't need this and would most likely just cut her off but, guys, if you are like me and find yourself in a situation where you are spending time with a girl you cannot fuck, use this time well! Practice everything I have linked in the articles above, try new things out, the pressure is off, take your game to the next level and then go use it on girls who you CAN fuck without risking crazy consequences.
It's fun!
Cheers
-Doctor
It's 7pm, I am late for my dance squads training session, and my partner has just text me to say she cannot make it this week. We were due to be running the routine for the final time before competition that week and I absolutely needed a partner. Somewhere in the dusty recesses of my mind I recall a friend telling me that they knew a girl who lives in my apartment building who has a background in dance. So I get her number, call her up, and ask if she wants to learn a new routine with me this week. She agrees and I offer her a lift to the venue as she has no transport and the buses don't run there.
Now this is all great for me except, rather annoyingly, she turns out to be quite good and gets offered a spot on the squad for the rest of the year (although not partnered with me as my regular partner returned later that week).
Here is the kicker though; it's a worlds bid squad, a very rare thing, so she is never likely to risk throwing that away for a roll in the hay with me.
And that's the story of how I got myself stuck giving a girl I am not sleeping with, nor am ever likely to, multiple lifts each week.
Hell of an annoying situation right? Or so I would have thought before reading the material on this site!
Now though, I am having some of the most fun with a girl it is possible to have with your clothes on! We are both fit young things so there is an obvious underlying sexual attraction but playing on this, building it up, ramping up the sexual tension to the point where it's about to explode, where you can see every muscle in her face contorting in a futile attempt to hide her biological urges, then casually defusing it, well, it's just fun! I have used the deep dive on very personal topics and I know more about her than probably even her closest friends do, I have covered each of these topics with her in depth so she knows exactly how I like to treat women and that I am definitely not boyfriend material.
And do you know what? I am glad we are not likely to sleep together. I know if I push for it there is a chance that we could sleep together. But I also know there is a very real chance it could blow up in my face and make things very difficult for us both. Thing is though, because I know that this is not leading somewhere, there is no big event horizon looming where I must kiss her, invite her home, or escalate sexually with her, it just means the pressure is off. Somehow this suave 'Bond like' character comes out of me when I am just in the moment and not thinking about what is to come. Heck I have said stuff like "you know, if you haven't got anything better to do we might as-well just go back to my place and fuck" and it worked, she loved it, because I really didn't give a shit, that devil may care attitude shone through and it didn't matter that I just said something completely base and reprehensible because it was smooth, outcome independent and she was obviously feeling it too.
So I am happy leaving it just the way it is. With the pressure off and a beautiful dancer girl to just have fun with and mind fuck with anticipation, sexual tension and practice giving her stronger emotions with just my words than most guys can with their dicks, well, lets just say my game has come on leaps and bounds since meeting her. And we haven't even kissed.
So there you have it, what would previously have had me yelling out "Why am I stuck giving this hot girl lifts while she is likely off fucking other guys?" I am now able to say that this is a good situation for me, I have learned so much.
Anyway, I just wanted to say thanks for the material here (you can see by the amount of article links how ingrained this stuff is in my interactions now), and turning my life around, and I wanted to hopefully give something back to the community here. I know the more experienced guys won't need this and would most likely just cut her off but, guys, if you are like me and find yourself in a situation where you are spending time with a girl you cannot fuck, use this time well! Practice everything I have linked in the articles above, try new things out, the pressure is off, take your game to the next level and then go use it on girls who you CAN fuck without risking crazy consequences.
It's fun!
Cheers
-Doctor
