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After school, I drove to the Subway that was walking distance from my school. Next to my parking space there was 2 black girls sitting on the bump, both I’ve never met before. Both go to my school.
One of them as I was walking in locked eyes with me and awkwardly tried to dap me up even tho I dont know her lol. I just did the handshake half heartedly because I didnt know what to do and walked into Subway. As soon as the door was closing I heard her yell “you’re fine as hell!”.
Unfortunately, wasn’t socially warmed up. I just ignored it as a default reaction. She likely thought I just didnt hear.
I finished my order and was about to dine-in, but I looked outside and saw the girls still next to my parking space, so I decided to eat in my car because one of them might start a conversation.
As I was walking out, the girl who dapped me up was nowhere to be found. Only the girl she was with was sitting on the porch smoking a vape. This was when I realized I work at the same place as this girl.
I walked past her to my car and started eating. She started a conversation. I approached the whole thing playfully while eating my food.
(Convo was maybe 5-7mins, this is a summary)
Her: Hey, can you drive me to the school?
Me: The hell? Haha
Her: Its right thereee
Me: Buy an uber lol. Or gimme something in return
Her: You want money?
Me: Yeah, $10 for a drive
Her: I’ll give you $10 to drive me home
Me: Nah. For a ride home it’ll have to be $20 and a kiss.
Her: (Smiling) a kiss? a kiss should at least lower it to $10
Me: Nah, that’s the rules.
Her: Hmm. a kiss. Wow I sound like a stripper
Me: (shrugs shoulders)
Her:A kiss where? Your lips?
Me: (Shakes head)
Her: Cheek?
Me: No
Her: Where else is there??
Me: Theres a 3rd place…
Her: Below?
Me: Mhmm
Her: Wowww telling me to kiss your dick for a ride is craaazy
Me: I help you u help me
Her: (still slight smiling) You must think I’m a hoe to give me a deal like that
Me: Aye this is business
Her: Your mom must have not raised you right
Me: She raised me on how to make deals
Her: Wow. How old are you?
Me: 17
Her: Oh
Me: (points at her expectantly)
Her: I’m 18
Me: Hmm. So you should know how the world works. You need to give to get
Her: But kissing your dick is crazy. I’ve messed with guys way older than u and none of them said i should kiss their dick.
Me: See that’s it. Most guys aren’t direct like me.
Her: Yeah but at least try and finesse me or something like I aint no hoe
Me: You’re the first of many to ever turn down my deal
Her: I guess I’m just different. I’m not a hoe
Me: I aint say all that
Her: Would you fuck with me?
Me: What do u mean?
Her: You know what I mean
Me: You can take that two ways. (Fuck with platonically and sexually)
Her: Ok so would you fuck me?
Me: I dont even know you yet, how would I know
Her: (Pause, look away)
Her: & ur saying I should kiss your dick
Me: I’m a business man
Her: Dont we work together? We’re supposed to be crewmates
Me: True. Ill give u a crew discount. No more money just the kiss
Her: Woww ur crazy
(at this point i was finishing my food, and I have a chance to see her again so I wanted to end the convo first)
Her: (still talking & pushing the convo)
Me: I got to get going. See u around (NAME)
*I got her name in this convo
Her: Yeah see you Kaiderman!!
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That was my first time really sexualizing a convo. Most sexualization I did in the past was 100% implicit. I also made sure to keep super strong eye contact while saying those things which likely helped.
Looking back, I should have set some secret society frames and could have done more with the conversation in general. I’m just learning how to flirt for now.
For a beginner like me I still think I got good reference points on how to sexualize from this. I’m going to use that kiss line more from now on.
Any notes / Feedback is highly appreciated!
One of them as I was walking in locked eyes with me and awkwardly tried to dap me up even tho I dont know her lol. I just did the handshake half heartedly because I didnt know what to do and walked into Subway. As soon as the door was closing I heard her yell “you’re fine as hell!”.
Unfortunately, wasn’t socially warmed up. I just ignored it as a default reaction. She likely thought I just didnt hear.
I finished my order and was about to dine-in, but I looked outside and saw the girls still next to my parking space, so I decided to eat in my car because one of them might start a conversation.
As I was walking out, the girl who dapped me up was nowhere to be found. Only the girl she was with was sitting on the porch smoking a vape. This was when I realized I work at the same place as this girl.
I walked past her to my car and started eating. She started a conversation. I approached the whole thing playfully while eating my food.
(Convo was maybe 5-7mins, this is a summary)
Her: Hey, can you drive me to the school?
Me: The hell? Haha
Her: Its right thereee
Me: Buy an uber lol. Or gimme something in return
Her: You want money?
Me: Yeah, $10 for a drive
Her: I’ll give you $10 to drive me home
Me: Nah. For a ride home it’ll have to be $20 and a kiss.
Her: (Smiling) a kiss? a kiss should at least lower it to $10
Me: Nah, that’s the rules.
Her: Hmm. a kiss. Wow I sound like a stripper
Me: (shrugs shoulders)
Her:A kiss where? Your lips?
Me: (Shakes head)
Her: Cheek?
Me: No
Her: Where else is there??
Me: Theres a 3rd place…
Her: Below?
Me: Mhmm
Her: Wowww telling me to kiss your dick for a ride is craaazy
Me: I help you u help me
Her: (still slight smiling) You must think I’m a hoe to give me a deal like that
Me: Aye this is business
Her: Your mom must have not raised you right
Me: She raised me on how to make deals
Her: Wow. How old are you?
Me: 17
Her: Oh
Me: (points at her expectantly)
Her: I’m 18
Me: Hmm. So you should know how the world works. You need to give to get
Her: But kissing your dick is crazy. I’ve messed with guys way older than u and none of them said i should kiss their dick.
Me: See that’s it. Most guys aren’t direct like me.
Her: Yeah but at least try and finesse me or something like I aint no hoe
Me: You’re the first of many to ever turn down my deal
Her: I guess I’m just different. I’m not a hoe
Me: I aint say all that
Her: Would you fuck with me?
Me: What do u mean?
Her: You know what I mean
Me: You can take that two ways. (Fuck with platonically and sexually)
Her: Ok so would you fuck me?
Me: I dont even know you yet, how would I know
Her: (Pause, look away)
Her: & ur saying I should kiss your dick
Me: I’m a business man
Her: Dont we work together? We’re supposed to be crewmates
Me: True. Ill give u a crew discount. No more money just the kiss
Her: Woww ur crazy
(at this point i was finishing my food, and I have a chance to see her again so I wanted to end the convo first)
Her: (still talking & pushing the convo)
Me: I got to get going. See u around (NAME)
*I got her name in this convo
Her: Yeah see you Kaiderman!!
———————————-
That was my first time really sexualizing a convo. Most sexualization I did in the past was 100% implicit. I also made sure to keep super strong eye contact while saying those things which likely helped.
Looking back, I should have set some secret society frames and could have done more with the conversation in general. I’m just learning how to flirt for now.
For a beginner like me I still think I got good reference points on how to sexualize from this. I’m going to use that kiss line more from now on.
Any notes / Feedback is highly appreciated!
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