she sounds like a cool chick!
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Freaking awesome radeng! I got to remember to move fast, i took a girl home on the first date before, escalated, but couldnt get past her LMR. Next day she regretted everything "I dont sleep with a guy I dont know" we were drunk that night, but ever since then I have a little voice tell me just go for the make out on the first date lol
I think I got to push it as far it goes, move fast. Fuck that inner voice haha thoughts?
I think I got to push it as far it goes, move fast. Fuck that inner voice haha thoughts?
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That is a cool story Radeng. Impressive actually. Sounds like you showed her good fun. Loved how you dragged everyone into your ball game, leading to you two meeting. Made me think that a fun, sociable person may randomly create approach opportunities.
I will also risk a guess here, that you being a bit goofy was very refreshing for her. Knowing scientists well, I think being boring is the norm and she probably has to deal everyday with males who are overly serious / nice guys / smart but socially retarded and so on.
Question: When you told her to meet your dog, did you wait for confirmation or just led her to your place? Because I didn't see any resistance in the text, did you face any resistance, even token, at all?
As someone else pointed out she does sound like a cool girl, are you gonna try and get her back to your place for more? If yes let us know how it played out.
I will also risk a guess here, that you being a bit goofy was very refreshing for her. Knowing scientists well, I think being boring is the norm and she probably has to deal everyday with males who are overly serious / nice guys / smart but socially retarded and so on.
Question: When you told her to meet your dog, did you wait for confirmation or just led her to your place? Because I didn't see any resistance in the text, did you face any resistance, even token, at all?
As someone else pointed out she does sound like a cool girl, are you gonna try and get her back to your place for more? If yes let us know how it played out.
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Good man. Your upper body fundamentals probably helped seal the deal too. I have found that too much honesty about PUA lifestyle can lead to buyer's remorse, but if not then it's great since she will not have expectations. How did she know you're out practicing PU all the time though? Anyway, about your decision to go to another bar being a good one, that happened to me this year. In this sexy little wine bar that was recommended to me earlier that night by a dude in the youth hostel she really opened up and started sharing about parents, former bf and his lack of dominance, school etc. So naturally this really helped later. Such a nice feeling when your investment in her starts to pay off in her comfort level.
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She's hot on the chase right now, just try not to play around TOO much with her feelings. Here's a few tips to make sure you stay hot/mysterious without hurting her
- don't start conversations or keep up conversations that don't lead to you hanging out with her (this sets bad precedent for texting in general, but she gets off on talking to you, so don't dangle her around with that either)
- let her set the jealousy-frames and answer questions indirectly (good job on not revealing your dating life. Also, I loved the "date with my dog" response; I only tell girls I'm in a very open FWB-relationship with about other girls in my life - I would actually compete with one of my college FWBs - we'd see who could get laid more. It was really fun)
- see her once a week and never on weekends
- rail her pussy into the netherworlds
As for the initial lay, good shit! So was it just intuition that you could pull after the first beer? If you felt it, should have gone for it, even if it felt off. It only felt off because closing that early from a date is new. You really should be speeding up your dates, even at the cost of losing her. You're good enough now that you can start experimenting with super fast pulls. I think going to the second bar was actually kind of risky, because it sounds like she starting testing you harder (flirting = testing; for a long time, I got off on the playfighting-dynamic of intense flirting, but it's really risky; you fail one test and you're done). Honestly, I'm not sure if the second date warmed her up enough so that back home she lead YOU to the bedroom and put up no resistance. Given her signs of interest and her lack of dick for 1 1/2 years, I think you had it won the moment you opened her.
Really good stuff, just pointing out a few ways to speed it up.
- Anatty
- don't start conversations or keep up conversations that don't lead to you hanging out with her (this sets bad precedent for texting in general, but she gets off on talking to you, so don't dangle her around with that either)
- let her set the jealousy-frames and answer questions indirectly (good job on not revealing your dating life. Also, I loved the "date with my dog" response; I only tell girls I'm in a very open FWB-relationship with about other girls in my life - I would actually compete with one of my college FWBs - we'd see who could get laid more. It was really fun)
- see her once a week and never on weekends
- rail her pussy into the netherworlds
As for the initial lay, good shit! So was it just intuition that you could pull after the first beer? If you felt it, should have gone for it, even if it felt off. It only felt off because closing that early from a date is new. You really should be speeding up your dates, even at the cost of losing her. You're good enough now that you can start experimenting with super fast pulls. I think going to the second bar was actually kind of risky, because it sounds like she starting testing you harder (flirting = testing; for a long time, I got off on the playfighting-dynamic of intense flirting, but it's really risky; you fail one test and you're done). Honestly, I'm not sure if the second date warmed her up enough so that back home she lead YOU to the bedroom and put up no resistance. Given her signs of interest and her lack of dick for 1 1/2 years, I think you had it won the moment you opened her.
Really good stuff, just pointing out a few ways to speed it up.
- Anatty
Anatman said:
Anatman, I don't understand the part of "I only tell girls I'm in a very open FWB-relationship with about other girls in my life"... is that missing a number in there in between about and other?
Is this your response after sex if they ask you if you're seeing other women or do you also say this before sex during a date if they ask you?
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This is so fucking good Radeng, don't know how i missed reading this one when you first wrote it.
I was gonna say that "man that says something about your abundance, when you could bang a girl like this that well and then not see her again" but then you did say you upgraded her to a fwb so I kinda had to eat my words haha.
cheers,
rage
I was gonna say that "man that says something about your abundance, when you could bang a girl like this that well and then not see her again" but then you did say you upgraded her to a fwb so I kinda had to eat my words haha.
cheers,
rage