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Have just got in home from a 4 night festival, I'm tired, had to pull off the freeway for a few hours sleep, my whole body hurts, my cock reeks of pussy (but it's not all good news, my inner game is not quite there yet although my process is smashing it), my mascara and eyeliner are a bit smudged but hanging in there, lipstick no longer discernable, voice is hoarse, and feel a cold coming on, but it's been a sick arse time, feeling like a champion 
Background
Skip ahead to the LR if the background doesn't interest. So I got to this party at 5am on Friday morning (did a little dinner party game beforehand that didn't go anywhere, had car packed to leave for the festival by Friday 2am)... my vibe/state built up over several days, I remember feeling some AA before it got light (lots of silly and cute girls in outlandish costumes going hard hard hard to get the week's energy out), made some friends etc but it was all pretty platonic, from the dawn onwards things got better and I did quite a few approaches on the dance floor and in market area but I remember feeling tired, and that my conversation was a bit boring and that I was still in my head a bit.
Went to sleep until the afternoon, got up and started killing it, I probably did at least 100 approaches each on Saturday and the Sunday, following my normal rave process of a tailored compliment and an introduction by name, but with plenty of variation, some of the approaches were just simple eye fucks followed by hugs and kisses and lots of non verbal... I was wearing a tailored suit in an aqua colour with huge flares... the pants were a bit tight as I hadn't worn them in 10yrs or so, I had to do them up around my stomach a bit and felt majorly self conscious, but with the jacket it was all good, for a sexual touch I was wearing no shirt underneath, just a neck chain... chucked on some purple nail polish (fingers and toes... hardcore outdoor doofers tend to go barefoot although it's not mandatory)... and a little wax in my hair... immediately started to collect eye fucks and compliments, went back to the car to get a beer (though I do not really drink I can have one occasionally) and caught sight of myself in the car window, realized with my haircut and the suit I looked exactly like Daniel Craig as James Bond... this was some awesome shit, I was pretty happy, didn't feel self conscious anymore.
Collected an eye fuck from a cute arse little young chick by the side of the main stage, she was looking a little tired so I suggested we go for a coffee and she was down, grabbed a little compliance by having her fish the money out of my suit pocket and order for us etc, but I could feel it going a little stale while we waited for the coffee, she started talking to some other people, I did get things back in control, but may have failed an unintentional shit test (cos of her misunderstanding something) and also she was freezing, so I decided against my plan of walking her to a hammock area and sitting on one and starting to escalate there, so I just walked her back to the main stage and treated it as a friendly interaction. I was kinda kicking myself afterwards but at least my process for moving girls is/was coming along in leaps and bounds.
My state was definitely improving, later on I changed back to casual and kept approaching, bumped into AMOG buddy and another friend who is even worse (kept grabbing my nipples and shit), AMOG buddy was doing this butthurt act cos I hadn't contacted him, I explained I have been moving house and that I've been hanging out with uni buddies a fair bit (I'd like to have been more dominant and not responded to his frame), eventually laughed it off and told him to give it a rest, anyway AMOG buddy's girlfriend is a sweet compliant half-Thai Australian woman with whom I get on well (she was getting about in some sick arse body paint instead of a shirt, she was sexy as) and I opened up to her a bit more... they also had another woman with them who is French and with whom I have a complicated background, I wasn't attracted initially until I picked them up from Burlesque class once and realized she's hot as fuck, got blown out by her later on but today she was adding touch and saying stuff like it's really great to be hanging out with me again, I was suspicious that she expected me to fall at her feet at the slightest attention, so I just glanced at her and responded "yeah you too" in a bored tone.
So I ditched those guys eventually and got some good main-stage action in, like as one example I went to say hi to a couple I know and introduced myself to some of their friends who were hot, so I was just getting a little physical, some cheek kisses and lingering eye contact and "getting to know you" grinds where I basically stand beside them and pull their hip in to mine for a bit while the music is going hard and see what their rhythm is like... when I noticed that there was another friend of theirs who was looking a bit left out, so I immediately did a proper approach by name and handshake and her body language said "take me now" (this scenario was to repeat itself later and is basically the power of preselection in action) so I immediately started sexually dancing with her, the other hot woman who I'd been with previously looks over and says "well, heeelllooooo!" so I gave her a wink and then moved my girl about 3 metres, things then went great, so I suggested we go for a walk to get a drink... but she declined saying she did not want to lose her friends (she had been glancing over at them a bit anxiously after I moved her, I hate when they do this), this was understandable but I moved on.
Etc, etc... On the Sunday I went to see AMOG buddy's campsite and had AMOG buddy's girlfriend put my mascara and eyeliner on... we went down to the Sunday stage after that, with me joking around that I was gonna test out the lady killing power of the eyeliner, and I tell you, this shit works, all of the peacocking I did had a brilliant effect and just made my job so much easier. As an example AMOG buddy decided to move us all to the back part of the stage because he thought it was too tired, so we thread our way through in single file with AMOG buddy, French chick, AMOG buddy #2, AMOG buddy's buddy and myself and AMOG buddy's girlfriend behind me, she was watching in kinda amazement as I stopped here and there to grab grinds off random girls who loved the eyeliner, eventually I lost them completely because of my slow progress due to the eyeliner, hahaha.
Slept from about 4am to 9am the Sunday night/Monday morning, the eyeliner survived the night pretty well and this time I went for a green suit, similar shit to before, got down to the stage about 9.30am or 10ish having given myself a thorough wash and re-applied my cologne and so forth, was feeling pretty chirpy. There were not huge numbers of people there so I basically introduced myself to everyone in the front part of the stage and got out some sick arse dance moves, I was in fine state. One guy who I've made friends with gave me a terrific compliment along the lines "I always see you and you are always smiling, your vibe is totally infectious and I feel it and everyone feels it, you really help to lift my mood and it's so important", I was pretty bowled over and told him so. Anyway so this is where we come to the LR.
The meeting
So this woman whom I'll call Abby was in a group of 3 and they'd pretty much seen my antics and I would've collected a little preselection as a result, when one of them (who was hot... late 20s was wearing a floppy hat and sunglasses and looking pretty feminine) comes over to me and starts getting physical, feeling me up and then asking me if I have any ecstasy... it was pretty well done, no doubt any guy who actually had some ecstasy would melt, but I called her out on it...
The 3rd girl in this group was Abby and she seemed a little aloof at first, hiding behind her sunglasses and not making eye contact or responding to my eye fucks, I tried some gentle touch and it wasn't all that promising, I went to introduce myself by name and I think she turned away at the critical moment, or possibly I said my name and got a bored look and turning away, I cannot remember... but after a while I just thought fuck it, and grabbed her hand and started to dance with her and she woke up a bit then. So pulled her in for a grind and I was applying my process which is a kind of non verbal push/pull, I'll dance with her for a bit with strong eye contact and sexual moves and then back off a bit and see what happens, wash, rinse, repeat... pretty soon she was hot for it and started escalating on me, kissing me with tongue (I pulled away and she soon went for it again more determinedly, we bumped teeth that time haha).
There wasn't much conversation, at one point she told me she was pretty fucked up so I gathered in the intervening half hour to an hour they'd scored some ecstasy and taken it, for those who don't know, the rush kicks in after about 20 minutes to half an hour and lasts a similar amount of time or a bit longer, in that time you're quite disoriented and I think this was her situation, you tend to grab onto friends as an anchor and be fairly compliant to their suggestions, as you feel quite dazed, and this was consistent with her behaviour. She was still responding fine and everything, and grinding on me and escalating, so I didn't take it she was too fucked up to hit on of course. At one stage I was massaging her back and neck (this is something I am good at) and she was saying how awesome it felt, I responded by mentioning how muscular she is, her whole body was hard as fuck although not in a gym-toned, defined way... she then explained that she is/was a swimmer and this was perfectly consistent. She was tallish, almost my height, and extremely solidly built, I did not detect any fat on her however. I really dug this chick. I started making love to her ear and other such moves, as well as tongue kissing her for longer periods (this was still on the dance floor and hence in full view of everyone, but she seemed totally down as she was initiating it, so I didn't think there was too much risk involved in doing this).
The pull mk.1
Then I went for the pull and suggested we go sit down for a bit (I was just gonna escalate by the side of the dance floor and see what happened), made it most of the way to the edge of the stage pushing her along in front of me, but we first encountered her friends who asked where we were going... I told little chick "we're just gonna go sit down for a sec" and this was okay with her, so we continued, but I think Abby got cold feet and found a distraction which turned out to be a hoop... I waited a bit and then tried to steer her along again and got resistance so I decided instead of rewarding the resistance I'd just leave her alone for a bit, which turned out to be about 1.5hrs as I went and got changed, had something to eat, did some other approaching and dancing and so on... then, wash rinse repeat...
The pull mk.2
Saw her again towards the front of the stage, and got back into the dancing together and making-out pattern... this time when I suggested we go for a walk to get a coconut she was down. Fuck yeah. Told her friends we were doing that and then I led her into the market by the hand while making light conversation (pull talk)... she took a beer as a traveller and we bought the coconut (encountered my cousin on the way there who is also a PUA in training, after we greeted each other I gave an imperceptible shake of the head and he got it and fucked off).
I then sat her down on a log in market area and went for a hardcore makeout, tried for the pussy nogo, tried for the tits nogo, went back to drinking the beer and cocount while she struck up a conversation with another couple sitting on the same log... I maintained a fairly bored vibe although I introduced myself and followed the conversation to some extent... she mentioned some plants on her balcony so I took the opportunity to check her logistics, she lives in an inner city apartment near me. Eventually they left (bless them) and so I told her to help me finish the coconut and we'll keep going... she then said "let's just walk around a bit" ... I took this as an escalation window, translation "take me back to your campsite and fuck me", so I said "let's go" and grabbed her hand and we went. I of course steered her towards the exit from the market. When we were nearly there she said something like "so we'll head back to where we were before?" and I replied "yeah I just have to change my pants first, these are a bit tight and I want to put on something more casual"... righto she said, and came back to the campsite without any dramas, chucked her in my tent (which is actually a beach shelter so one side opens completely and you can just sit in it comfortably, immediately started to escalate... she knew the score all along of course.
The lay, if I can call it that
So the makeout went great initially, went for the pussy straightaway, got her tights and top off to discover she was wearing a bikini underneath (I still have the tights actually), like I said she's pretty solid, but fat girls don't wear bikinis, she had a great body, big tits, big arse, and I dug her... she also had a completely waxed pussy and I later discovered it tasted fucking great, slightly fermented due to festival, just like my previous gf when she got off the plane from Japan... very tasty. Anyway her vibe was totally languid, she played with my cock a bit and I had her suck on my nipple but basically she was just lying there enjoying her drug-fucked state, going for deep tongue kisses and sucking up the attention as I explored her body... I got decently hard but lost it when I put the condom on (despite the fact I'd already ripped the packet open and got it out while she wasn't looking), I still entered her but it popped out when I tried any humping, oh well wash rinse repeat... still enjoying the makeout a lot, but it got a ltitle frustrating when I didn't get hard again... by this stage she would have realized there was a problem but took it in great humour, she was incredibly patient and didn't complain except to ask what I'd taken, I just laughed and said I didn't want to think about that right now (I hadn't taken anything but I wanted her to think my soft cock was due to drugs)...
So I gave it up and decided to eat her, figuring I'd just show her a good time and not worry too much about the lay, I committed to the clit and ate her for a good long time with a finger inside her doing "come here", but didn't get a lot of feedback, I think she enjoyed it as she at various times arched her back and started grinding on me somewhat, but I wasn't able to get her to come so eventually gave up and went to fingering her clit instead... ended up humping her for some time with my soft cock against her pussy and amazingly I got hard again (I was thinking about tying her up and giving her the orgasm torture), she had told me she was on the pill so I just went in raw but of course, immediately popped out and got fucked over again... damn so frustrating... we kept this up for a while with some deep tongue kisses and she was still very patient and happy of the attention but eventually she said in a fairly languid way "let's get dressed, this is gonna take ages" and we made out for another 10min or so (I was laughing and saying "you don't really wanna go, do you?" and eventually headed back, I also said something like "I still had a sweet makeout with you" (this was the only direct reference I ever made to not having been hard, as I think it's important not to fall apart no matter how stressed you feel) and later on I said "lets just exchange numbers and see what happens later on" which we did. So I'll text her shortly.
The after
So I led her back to the stage but she didn't follow me all the way to the centre of the crowd so I just left her to it, later on I checked on her "hey darling how are you feeling now?" (meaning how is the ecstasy going) and grabbed another grind which was fun, I decided to cut things short though and not be needy so I said "I have to do a quick mission so I'll check on you later" and kissed her and left, anyway I had no real need of her after that because the Monday vibe was fucking sensational, there's something that happens when a lot of people get fucked up together and then come down and nurse their drug hangovers and lack of sleep and then just power on through, nobody gives a fuck anymore... totally open body language everywhere, friendly but tired smiles, eye fucks everywhere, no actual need of introducing yourself by name (usually) as everyone's just chilled with your presence, it doesn't fucking matter who you are... so I did a shit ton more approaches of course, although you couldn't really call it approaching in such an environment, I think "being" would be a better description... eye fucked and danced with lots of hot women... (no idea how I'd been going to dance parties for 20 years without doing this, especially on the last day, I guess it's just about confidence?)... and a lot of guys too... grabbed some hot pink lipstick off a group of girls, after this a typical interaction would start with an eye fuck, then they'd point out my lipstick and I'd pretend to blow them a kiss and they'd go "OMG your nails..." and then I'd just start hugging and kissing them and so on... anybody on this board who hasn't been to a dance party really should try it.
Friendly interactions
I also got approached on the second night by some girl who thought I looked like my brother and correctly guessed we must be related, she knows his ex etc... ended up spending 1-2 hours with her, going between different stages and doing missions to get alcohol and various things like that... it didn't feel sexual and I wasn't super attracted but it was awesome to have a good friend, since solo partying can get a bit soul sapping sometimes (I hadn't found AMOG buddy or my family's campsites at that stage)... similarly after main Monday stage (where the action with Abby took place) closed at 7pm, I was walking in the market after checking out other stages and finding no action, and heard some sick arse trance, there was a lone girl bopping to it and I joined her and ended up doing sick arse moves for a number of hours, met her (who runs the shop with her boyfriend selling clothes, it's an online business and I deep dived her about it later) and her friend, again I didn't feel a sexual vibe and I am developing a pretty strong radar for this (helps with skipping steps)... turns out they both had boyfriends, but anyway our little impromptu dance party swelled and shrank at various times throughout the evening, I think they were pretty interested in the fact that every time a hot passer by came along I ended up pulling her onto our little dance floor and getting a grind and usually a kiss on the lips from her... hehehe. Again, it's all about confidence and your vibe. I also met an interesting younger woman who I was gaming hard for a while (refuse to tell her where I'm from, etc), but she was upset about her boyfriend ignoring her for the whole party, she seemed kinda sad even though she had a lovely smile... I gave it my best shot (setting correct frames and so on) but eventually when I was grinding on someone else she just wandered off in a sad lonely way... I ran after her and got a kiss on the lips but decided to let her go. I could perhaps go to her icecream shop in the city and try to get her number later, although I probably won't. Anyway, I guess preselection isn't always the golden ticket, this one needed more attention I'd say. Oh well.
Wrap up
I'm getting a solid process down for dance party game. I don't tend to deep dive a lot because I don't want to bring them down to earth but I do basically what's recommended by PrettyDecent in maintaining the flow... ask them about their day and so on. I try to find out a bit about their normal life if it comes up in conversation but I don't try to steer it to that. I get physical fast and usually I do not try to move them, because in most cases we're both having a good time and I'm content to leave it at that (I don't really want to leave an environment where we're having fun). But if I feel a stronger than usual connection I'll first try to move them some metres and then if that's successful I'll go for the pull. My results are a shitload better than the last dance party I went to (in moving women and going further). I also have never actually had a makeout at a dance party before (could have done so last time but didn't was I was focused on the pull). So I feel fantastic. Peacocking is also totally fun and appears to yield magical results, I'm keen to try it in normal game as I suspect it will be just as effective.
Edit: While I was in the shower moving the mascara around and failing to get it off, I remembered another hilarious thing that happened on the Monday, I've approached a decently attractive woman in a blue top and blue skirt (who had eye fucked me) and complimented her on her coordinated outfit, danced with her for a bit when one of us pulled the other into a hug, I kissed her on the cheek and then I just held the eye contact and ramped up the sexual tension, I never actually went for her lips but she got it all right... thought about it for a long beat and said... "uhhh.... nope I'm here with my boyfriend"... she then broke the hug and turned to him and I could see a little touch etc... thought to myself "oh well that was fun"... so a minute later she's back! Grabs me into the hug exactly like before and says "it's okay I've got permission!"... hahahaha so I pash her for a while... then whispered into her ear "when you've got a hall pass... you'd better make the most of it!"... then started nibbling and ear fucking her, returned to the pash while noticing an eye fuck from some other jealous chick out the corner of my eye... let her go and a minute later exchanged a thumbs up with the bf... this was some funny shit. hahaha
Background
Skip ahead to the LR if the background doesn't interest. So I got to this party at 5am on Friday morning (did a little dinner party game beforehand that didn't go anywhere, had car packed to leave for the festival by Friday 2am)... my vibe/state built up over several days, I remember feeling some AA before it got light (lots of silly and cute girls in outlandish costumes going hard hard hard to get the week's energy out), made some friends etc but it was all pretty platonic, from the dawn onwards things got better and I did quite a few approaches on the dance floor and in market area but I remember feeling tired, and that my conversation was a bit boring and that I was still in my head a bit.
Went to sleep until the afternoon, got up and started killing it, I probably did at least 100 approaches each on Saturday and the Sunday, following my normal rave process of a tailored compliment and an introduction by name, but with plenty of variation, some of the approaches were just simple eye fucks followed by hugs and kisses and lots of non verbal... I was wearing a tailored suit in an aqua colour with huge flares... the pants were a bit tight as I hadn't worn them in 10yrs or so, I had to do them up around my stomach a bit and felt majorly self conscious, but with the jacket it was all good, for a sexual touch I was wearing no shirt underneath, just a neck chain... chucked on some purple nail polish (fingers and toes... hardcore outdoor doofers tend to go barefoot although it's not mandatory)... and a little wax in my hair... immediately started to collect eye fucks and compliments, went back to the car to get a beer (though I do not really drink I can have one occasionally) and caught sight of myself in the car window, realized with my haircut and the suit I looked exactly like Daniel Craig as James Bond... this was some awesome shit, I was pretty happy, didn't feel self conscious anymore.
Collected an eye fuck from a cute arse little young chick by the side of the main stage, she was looking a little tired so I suggested we go for a coffee and she was down, grabbed a little compliance by having her fish the money out of my suit pocket and order for us etc, but I could feel it going a little stale while we waited for the coffee, she started talking to some other people, I did get things back in control, but may have failed an unintentional shit test (cos of her misunderstanding something) and also she was freezing, so I decided against my plan of walking her to a hammock area and sitting on one and starting to escalate there, so I just walked her back to the main stage and treated it as a friendly interaction. I was kinda kicking myself afterwards but at least my process for moving girls is/was coming along in leaps and bounds.
My state was definitely improving, later on I changed back to casual and kept approaching, bumped into AMOG buddy and another friend who is even worse (kept grabbing my nipples and shit), AMOG buddy was doing this butthurt act cos I hadn't contacted him, I explained I have been moving house and that I've been hanging out with uni buddies a fair bit (I'd like to have been more dominant and not responded to his frame), eventually laughed it off and told him to give it a rest, anyway AMOG buddy's girlfriend is a sweet compliant half-Thai Australian woman with whom I get on well (she was getting about in some sick arse body paint instead of a shirt, she was sexy as) and I opened up to her a bit more... they also had another woman with them who is French and with whom I have a complicated background, I wasn't attracted initially until I picked them up from Burlesque class once and realized she's hot as fuck, got blown out by her later on but today she was adding touch and saying stuff like it's really great to be hanging out with me again, I was suspicious that she expected me to fall at her feet at the slightest attention, so I just glanced at her and responded "yeah you too" in a bored tone.
So I ditched those guys eventually and got some good main-stage action in, like as one example I went to say hi to a couple I know and introduced myself to some of their friends who were hot, so I was just getting a little physical, some cheek kisses and lingering eye contact and "getting to know you" grinds where I basically stand beside them and pull their hip in to mine for a bit while the music is going hard and see what their rhythm is like... when I noticed that there was another friend of theirs who was looking a bit left out, so I immediately did a proper approach by name and handshake and her body language said "take me now" (this scenario was to repeat itself later and is basically the power of preselection in action) so I immediately started sexually dancing with her, the other hot woman who I'd been with previously looks over and says "well, heeelllooooo!" so I gave her a wink and then moved my girl about 3 metres, things then went great, so I suggested we go for a walk to get a drink... but she declined saying she did not want to lose her friends (she had been glancing over at them a bit anxiously after I moved her, I hate when they do this), this was understandable but I moved on.
Etc, etc... On the Sunday I went to see AMOG buddy's campsite and had AMOG buddy's girlfriend put my mascara and eyeliner on... we went down to the Sunday stage after that, with me joking around that I was gonna test out the lady killing power of the eyeliner, and I tell you, this shit works, all of the peacocking I did had a brilliant effect and just made my job so much easier. As an example AMOG buddy decided to move us all to the back part of the stage because he thought it was too tired, so we thread our way through in single file with AMOG buddy, French chick, AMOG buddy #2, AMOG buddy's buddy and myself and AMOG buddy's girlfriend behind me, she was watching in kinda amazement as I stopped here and there to grab grinds off random girls who loved the eyeliner, eventually I lost them completely because of my slow progress due to the eyeliner, hahaha.
Slept from about 4am to 9am the Sunday night/Monday morning, the eyeliner survived the night pretty well and this time I went for a green suit, similar shit to before, got down to the stage about 9.30am or 10ish having given myself a thorough wash and re-applied my cologne and so forth, was feeling pretty chirpy. There were not huge numbers of people there so I basically introduced myself to everyone in the front part of the stage and got out some sick arse dance moves, I was in fine state. One guy who I've made friends with gave me a terrific compliment along the lines "I always see you and you are always smiling, your vibe is totally infectious and I feel it and everyone feels it, you really help to lift my mood and it's so important", I was pretty bowled over and told him so. Anyway so this is where we come to the LR.
The meeting
So this woman whom I'll call Abby was in a group of 3 and they'd pretty much seen my antics and I would've collected a little preselection as a result, when one of them (who was hot... late 20s was wearing a floppy hat and sunglasses and looking pretty feminine) comes over to me and starts getting physical, feeling me up and then asking me if I have any ecstasy... it was pretty well done, no doubt any guy who actually had some ecstasy would melt, but I called her out on it...
So I turned my attention to her little friend who was golden, she immediately started hugging me and holding eye contact and complimenting me on stuff, she also noticed I was deaf and got out a little sign language so I jokingly signed back "let's get married" which became a running joke... it was pretty hot so I undressed her by a few layers and she was even cuter when she got down to her bikini top... I hung out with this woman quite a lot off-and-on for the rest of the party and she was saying things like "it is so great that we met you so we could hang out" and things like that... we were getting physical but I did not feel it in a very sexual way, and I treated it more as a kind of "friends with grinds" situation.
The 3rd girl in this group was Abby and she seemed a little aloof at first, hiding behind her sunglasses and not making eye contact or responding to my eye fucks, I tried some gentle touch and it wasn't all that promising, I went to introduce myself by name and I think she turned away at the critical moment, or possibly I said my name and got a bored look and turning away, I cannot remember... but after a while I just thought fuck it, and grabbed her hand and started to dance with her and she woke up a bit then. So pulled her in for a grind and I was applying my process which is a kind of non verbal push/pull, I'll dance with her for a bit with strong eye contact and sexual moves and then back off a bit and see what happens, wash, rinse, repeat... pretty soon she was hot for it and started escalating on me, kissing me with tongue (I pulled away and she soon went for it again more determinedly, we bumped teeth that time haha).
There wasn't much conversation, at one point she told me she was pretty fucked up so I gathered in the intervening half hour to an hour they'd scored some ecstasy and taken it, for those who don't know, the rush kicks in after about 20 minutes to half an hour and lasts a similar amount of time or a bit longer, in that time you're quite disoriented and I think this was her situation, you tend to grab onto friends as an anchor and be fairly compliant to their suggestions, as you feel quite dazed, and this was consistent with her behaviour. She was still responding fine and everything, and grinding on me and escalating, so I didn't take it she was too fucked up to hit on of course. At one stage I was massaging her back and neck (this is something I am good at) and she was saying how awesome it felt, I responded by mentioning how muscular she is, her whole body was hard as fuck although not in a gym-toned, defined way... she then explained that she is/was a swimmer and this was perfectly consistent. She was tallish, almost my height, and extremely solidly built, I did not detect any fat on her however. I really dug this chick. I started making love to her ear and other such moves, as well as tongue kissing her for longer periods (this was still on the dance floor and hence in full view of everyone, but she seemed totally down as she was initiating it, so I didn't think there was too much risk involved in doing this).
The pull mk.1
Then I went for the pull and suggested we go sit down for a bit (I was just gonna escalate by the side of the dance floor and see what happened), made it most of the way to the edge of the stage pushing her along in front of me, but we first encountered her friends who asked where we were going... I told little chick "we're just gonna go sit down for a sec" and this was okay with her, so we continued, but I think Abby got cold feet and found a distraction which turned out to be a hoop... I waited a bit and then tried to steer her along again and got resistance so I decided instead of rewarding the resistance I'd just leave her alone for a bit, which turned out to be about 1.5hrs as I went and got changed, had something to eat, did some other approaching and dancing and so on... then, wash rinse repeat...
The pull mk.2
Saw her again towards the front of the stage, and got back into the dancing together and making-out pattern... this time when I suggested we go for a walk to get a coconut she was down. Fuck yeah. Told her friends we were doing that and then I led her into the market by the hand while making light conversation (pull talk)... she took a beer as a traveller and we bought the coconut (encountered my cousin on the way there who is also a PUA in training, after we greeted each other I gave an imperceptible shake of the head and he got it and fucked off).
I then sat her down on a log in market area and went for a hardcore makeout, tried for the pussy nogo, tried for the tits nogo, went back to drinking the beer and cocount while she struck up a conversation with another couple sitting on the same log... I maintained a fairly bored vibe although I introduced myself and followed the conversation to some extent... she mentioned some plants on her balcony so I took the opportunity to check her logistics, she lives in an inner city apartment near me. Eventually they left (bless them) and so I told her to help me finish the coconut and we'll keep going... she then said "let's just walk around a bit" ... I took this as an escalation window, translation "take me back to your campsite and fuck me", so I said "let's go" and grabbed her hand and we went. I of course steered her towards the exit from the market. When we were nearly there she said something like "so we'll head back to where we were before?" and I replied "yeah I just have to change my pants first, these are a bit tight and I want to put on something more casual"... righto she said, and came back to the campsite without any dramas, chucked her in my tent (which is actually a beach shelter so one side opens completely and you can just sit in it comfortably, immediately started to escalate... she knew the score all along of course.
The lay, if I can call it that
So the makeout went great initially, went for the pussy straightaway, got her tights and top off to discover she was wearing a bikini underneath (I still have the tights actually), like I said she's pretty solid, but fat girls don't wear bikinis, she had a great body, big tits, big arse, and I dug her... she also had a completely waxed pussy and I later discovered it tasted fucking great, slightly fermented due to festival, just like my previous gf when she got off the plane from Japan... very tasty. Anyway her vibe was totally languid, she played with my cock a bit and I had her suck on my nipple but basically she was just lying there enjoying her drug-fucked state, going for deep tongue kisses and sucking up the attention as I explored her body... I got decently hard but lost it when I put the condom on (despite the fact I'd already ripped the packet open and got it out while she wasn't looking), I still entered her but it popped out when I tried any humping, oh well wash rinse repeat... still enjoying the makeout a lot, but it got a ltitle frustrating when I didn't get hard again... by this stage she would have realized there was a problem but took it in great humour, she was incredibly patient and didn't complain except to ask what I'd taken, I just laughed and said I didn't want to think about that right now (I hadn't taken anything but I wanted her to think my soft cock was due to drugs)...
So I gave it up and decided to eat her, figuring I'd just show her a good time and not worry too much about the lay, I committed to the clit and ate her for a good long time with a finger inside her doing "come here", but didn't get a lot of feedback, I think she enjoyed it as she at various times arched her back and started grinding on me somewhat, but I wasn't able to get her to come so eventually gave up and went to fingering her clit instead... ended up humping her for some time with my soft cock against her pussy and amazingly I got hard again (I was thinking about tying her up and giving her the orgasm torture), she had told me she was on the pill so I just went in raw but of course, immediately popped out and got fucked over again... damn so frustrating... we kept this up for a while with some deep tongue kisses and she was still very patient and happy of the attention but eventually she said in a fairly languid way "let's get dressed, this is gonna take ages" and we made out for another 10min or so (I was laughing and saying "you don't really wanna go, do you?" and eventually headed back, I also said something like "I still had a sweet makeout with you" (this was the only direct reference I ever made to not having been hard, as I think it's important not to fall apart no matter how stressed you feel) and later on I said "lets just exchange numbers and see what happens later on" which we did. So I'll text her shortly.
The after
So I led her back to the stage but she didn't follow me all the way to the centre of the crowd so I just left her to it, later on I checked on her "hey darling how are you feeling now?" (meaning how is the ecstasy going) and grabbed another grind which was fun, I decided to cut things short though and not be needy so I said "I have to do a quick mission so I'll check on you later" and kissed her and left, anyway I had no real need of her after that because the Monday vibe was fucking sensational, there's something that happens when a lot of people get fucked up together and then come down and nurse their drug hangovers and lack of sleep and then just power on through, nobody gives a fuck anymore... totally open body language everywhere, friendly but tired smiles, eye fucks everywhere, no actual need of introducing yourself by name (usually) as everyone's just chilled with your presence, it doesn't fucking matter who you are... so I did a shit ton more approaches of course, although you couldn't really call it approaching in such an environment, I think "being" would be a better description... eye fucked and danced with lots of hot women... (no idea how I'd been going to dance parties for 20 years without doing this, especially on the last day, I guess it's just about confidence?)... and a lot of guys too... grabbed some hot pink lipstick off a group of girls, after this a typical interaction would start with an eye fuck, then they'd point out my lipstick and I'd pretend to blow them a kiss and they'd go "OMG your nails..." and then I'd just start hugging and kissing them and so on... anybody on this board who hasn't been to a dance party really should try it.
Friendly interactions
I also got approached on the second night by some girl who thought I looked like my brother and correctly guessed we must be related, she knows his ex etc... ended up spending 1-2 hours with her, going between different stages and doing missions to get alcohol and various things like that... it didn't feel sexual and I wasn't super attracted but it was awesome to have a good friend, since solo partying can get a bit soul sapping sometimes (I hadn't found AMOG buddy or my family's campsites at that stage)... similarly after main Monday stage (where the action with Abby took place) closed at 7pm, I was walking in the market after checking out other stages and finding no action, and heard some sick arse trance, there was a lone girl bopping to it and I joined her and ended up doing sick arse moves for a number of hours, met her (who runs the shop with her boyfriend selling clothes, it's an online business and I deep dived her about it later) and her friend, again I didn't feel a sexual vibe and I am developing a pretty strong radar for this (helps with skipping steps)... turns out they both had boyfriends, but anyway our little impromptu dance party swelled and shrank at various times throughout the evening, I think they were pretty interested in the fact that every time a hot passer by came along I ended up pulling her onto our little dance floor and getting a grind and usually a kiss on the lips from her... hehehe. Again, it's all about confidence and your vibe. I also met an interesting younger woman who I was gaming hard for a while (refuse to tell her where I'm from, etc), but she was upset about her boyfriend ignoring her for the whole party, she seemed kinda sad even though she had a lovely smile... I gave it my best shot (setting correct frames and so on) but eventually when I was grinding on someone else she just wandered off in a sad lonely way... I ran after her and got a kiss on the lips but decided to let her go. I could perhaps go to her icecream shop in the city and try to get her number later, although I probably won't. Anyway, I guess preselection isn't always the golden ticket, this one needed more attention I'd say. Oh well.
Wrap up
I'm getting a solid process down for dance party game. I don't tend to deep dive a lot because I don't want to bring them down to earth but I do basically what's recommended by PrettyDecent in maintaining the flow... ask them about their day and so on. I try to find out a bit about their normal life if it comes up in conversation but I don't try to steer it to that. I get physical fast and usually I do not try to move them, because in most cases we're both having a good time and I'm content to leave it at that (I don't really want to leave an environment where we're having fun). But if I feel a stronger than usual connection I'll first try to move them some metres and then if that's successful I'll go for the pull. My results are a shitload better than the last dance party I went to (in moving women and going further). I also have never actually had a makeout at a dance party before (could have done so last time but didn't was I was focused on the pull). So I feel fantastic. Peacocking is also totally fun and appears to yield magical results, I'm keen to try it in normal game as I suspect it will be just as effective.
Edit: While I was in the shower moving the mascara around and failing to get it off, I remembered another hilarious thing that happened on the Monday, I've approached a decently attractive woman in a blue top and blue skirt (who had eye fucked me) and complimented her on her coordinated outfit, danced with her for a bit when one of us pulled the other into a hug, I kissed her on the cheek and then I just held the eye contact and ramped up the sexual tension, I never actually went for her lips but she got it all right... thought about it for a long beat and said... "uhhh.... nope I'm here with my boyfriend"... she then broke the hug and turned to him and I could see a little touch etc... thought to myself "oh well that was fun"... so a minute later she's back! Grabs me into the hug exactly like before and says "it's okay I've got permission!"... hahahaha so I pash her for a while... then whispered into her ear "when you've got a hall pass... you'd better make the most of it!"... then started nibbling and ear fucking her, returned to the pash while noticing an eye fuck from some other jealous chick out the corner of my eye... let her go and a minute later exchanged a thumbs up with the bf... this was some funny shit. hahaha
