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She blocked me but still wants to see me

Proga

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I met a girl at a singles event and we're going to another singles event together. Today she confirmed by text that she'll be going there with me AND she blocked me on Facebook.
I won't play this game so I lost interest in her, but I will still see her at the event.
Any advice on how to deal with this confusing situation?
 
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trashKENNUT

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Proga,

Just smile and wave Hi if you see her. Then go about your business.

Zac
 

Proga

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I did just that Zac ;)
I just said hi to her, and had a great time with my friends. At the end of the evening she walked up to me. We talked for five minutes. Then she left the place, alone. Later that night she sent me a couple of texts.
She deserves credit for making an effort to talk to me. But she hasn't unblocked me on Facebook. That's weird. I'm not sure how to proceed.
 

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Proga,

Proga said:
But she hasn't unblocked me on Facebook. That's weird. I'm not sure how to proceed.

Don't proceed. She's not worth it but if it is worth to explore, then proceed. Just shoot whatever it takes to get her. but manage your risk. I can only remind you about the drawbacks.

Zac
 

Proga

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Okay, Proga messed it up.
I did not proceed but fortunately she did.
First off, I have to qualify the statement that she blocked me.
I had sent her a friend request on FB. She denied it and blocked me from sending another friend request.
Today she contacted me again. She explained why she had blocked me: She has bad experiences with adding people she barely knows as Facebook friends. Just that.
Now I feel bad about ignoring her at the event. The good news is that we cleared this up and we will meet again soon.
 

trashKENNUT

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Proga,

Proga said:
Now I feel bad about ignoring her at the event. The good news is that we cleared this up and we will meet again soon.

Err you didn't actually ignored at the event. You just go about your business.

She has you on a leash. I won't go and say a lot more since most guys won't listen anyway. I am just telling you to manage your risk. She might be a great girl but the likelihood of she being the dominant in the relationship is also there, plus other things.

Manage your risk. When we like women, we are in momentum and being stopped in momentum sucks, like right now.

Zac
 
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