I dont know if I can call this a lay-rapport, since I did not get my penis inside her. But I had a lot of fun with her performing oral sex on me as I was kissing and finger-banging her. I tried to progress it to an actual intercourse several times, each time she was stopping me saying "this is not right, we should stop" I knew she did not mean a lot of it of course, cos why would she continue sucking me off?
I was very close to putting my dick inside her, but she panicked a bit and I do not want rape accusations, at least not when she was basically cheating on her boyfriend. So I stopped after about half an hour of heavy physical contact. We put our clothes on and took a walk before I kissed her goodnight.
But I was ecstatic. Not because she cheated with me, but because I realized that a woman having a bf doesn't mean a thing when she is attracted to you and the relationship is failing. At the same time this was an eyeopener because I have first hand experience of how easy it is for both genders to cheat on their spouses, boyfriend or girlfriend given the right circumstances. You see; before I embarked on this journey almost a year ago I thought that having a girlfriend meant that "she was mine" or "taken and off the market". I have read a lot about this phenomena on this and other websites - but it is something else when you actually experience it.
Now to the actual report:
Like two of my three daygame sexual encounters, I met this girl long before I actually took her on a date. She was sitting with her twin sister at a cafeteria here in Oslo more than a year ago. Me and my training pal (lets call him Terje) was talking about cold approach and how cool it was to just talk to someone you where attracted to. We were very warmed up after training outdoors (calisthenics) and talking to other athletes at our local park. The twins were, in our eyes very cute, and out of nowhere (unusual for us though) we started a conversation about the most obvious thing; they being twins.
Met her again after a year
We instinctively knew what to do, and isolated each girl, talking to them for about 30 minutes before exchanging FB (we did not know how to proceed back in the days) before walking away. My girl, Audur (Icelandic twins), looks very nordic, with wide hips, blue eyes, blonde curly hair and a sweet voice.
She was wearing her work-clothes (since she was practicing to become a veterinarian) and I could not take my eyes of her (my friend Terje felt the same way about her sister) but since both of them were taken, we thought we did not stand a chance. So we graciously said goodbye, and were happy for actually doing the whole day-game approach. This was before I stumbled upon this site so I did not know anything about day-game and how to proceed. I forgot about that girl, embarked on this journey, and checked on her every now and then. Every time I asked to hang out, she declined, but we still kept in touch until I suddently met her on the street and started talking to her. A couple of weeks later she agreed to go out for a cup of coffee.
My first experience with date compression
But I forgot her totally (we agreed to meet two weeks before it happened). Out of nowhere I got a message, "I am still waiting". I immediately realized that I was 40 minutes too late and she was a little pissed when I actually met her (after insisting her to wait cos I was on my way). I had some cool interactions that day, and was very warmed up, so I used a lot of humor, I deep dived and touched her occasionally. Since I forgot our date and was taken by surprise I wasnt dressed as I am used to dress in these occasions. But I managed to make her laugh about it and after a walk after our coffe she sent me a message saying she was glad we met. I could also see that she was ready for some more physical escalation, but did not do anything. Instead, we agreed to arrange a new date, this time at nighttime at a local bar.
One little thing; as we where talking, she out of nowhere started talking about her bf. A voice inside me kept telling that this was her way of inviting me to escalate as she was saying that "he doesnt know that I am meeting you" and that "their relationship was failing", I did not take any sides of course. I listened a bit to what she was saying, acted a little bored before changing the conversation.
At the bar I could see that she was open to my advances. I knew I was close to kissing her, but did not know if I should do it then and there or risk missing the escalation window by waiting till we got to my place. I went for the first option, kissing her a bit before acting like nothing and just resuming the conversation (my favorite move btw, girls always seem a little shocked by it, but also glad that I just act as "this is normal". This put them at ease in a way). I told her to go with me to my place to "see my cat" (my roommate has one, and ugly one too). She agreed (but before doing this I was leading the interaction all the way, making her comply gradually before going for the kill
) We went directly to my room and started escalating from there.
She knew what was going to happen all the way
And she told me that meeting me was not the smartest thing to do because she is very attracted to me. I acted like nothing and she started talking about her bf. That he has a violent history, and that it wont be pretty if he finds out. Out of nowhere he started calling her, I turned off the music, and she said to him that she was hanging out with a girlfriend, before kissing him goodbye and saying she loved him. She went strait for my cock after that, like nothing happened. But when I tried to fuck her, she started saying that she was "a bad person".
I told her that I supported her no matter what and that I hope they could figure out things. I also said that my door will always be open if she want to meet again. The same night she sent me a message telling me she missed my hands and my voice. She also said she did not want her boyfriend to smell my cologne, haha. A fun adventure all the way. But also not something I want to do often, because I dont want any trouble with womens boyfriends. Its not cool to be that guy.
At least I got the chance to experience this and learned a lot from it.
I forgot about
I was very close to putting my dick inside her, but she panicked a bit and I do not want rape accusations, at least not when she was basically cheating on her boyfriend. So I stopped after about half an hour of heavy physical contact. We put our clothes on and took a walk before I kissed her goodnight.
But I was ecstatic. Not because she cheated with me, but because I realized that a woman having a bf doesn't mean a thing when she is attracted to you and the relationship is failing. At the same time this was an eyeopener because I have first hand experience of how easy it is for both genders to cheat on their spouses, boyfriend or girlfriend given the right circumstances. You see; before I embarked on this journey almost a year ago I thought that having a girlfriend meant that "she was mine" or "taken and off the market". I have read a lot about this phenomena on this and other websites - but it is something else when you actually experience it.
Now to the actual report:
Like two of my three daygame sexual encounters, I met this girl long before I actually took her on a date. She was sitting with her twin sister at a cafeteria here in Oslo more than a year ago. Me and my training pal (lets call him Terje) was talking about cold approach and how cool it was to just talk to someone you where attracted to. We were very warmed up after training outdoors (calisthenics) and talking to other athletes at our local park. The twins were, in our eyes very cute, and out of nowhere (unusual for us though) we started a conversation about the most obvious thing; they being twins.
Met her again after a year
We instinctively knew what to do, and isolated each girl, talking to them for about 30 minutes before exchanging FB (we did not know how to proceed back in the days) before walking away. My girl, Audur (Icelandic twins), looks very nordic, with wide hips, blue eyes, blonde curly hair and a sweet voice.
She was wearing her work-clothes (since she was practicing to become a veterinarian) and I could not take my eyes of her (my friend Terje felt the same way about her sister) but since both of them were taken, we thought we did not stand a chance. So we graciously said goodbye, and were happy for actually doing the whole day-game approach. This was before I stumbled upon this site so I did not know anything about day-game and how to proceed. I forgot about that girl, embarked on this journey, and checked on her every now and then. Every time I asked to hang out, she declined, but we still kept in touch until I suddently met her on the street and started talking to her. A couple of weeks later she agreed to go out for a cup of coffee.
My first experience with date compression
But I forgot her totally (we agreed to meet two weeks before it happened). Out of nowhere I got a message, "I am still waiting". I immediately realized that I was 40 minutes too late and she was a little pissed when I actually met her (after insisting her to wait cos I was on my way). I had some cool interactions that day, and was very warmed up, so I used a lot of humor, I deep dived and touched her occasionally. Since I forgot our date and was taken by surprise I wasnt dressed as I am used to dress in these occasions. But I managed to make her laugh about it and after a walk after our coffe she sent me a message saying she was glad we met. I could also see that she was ready for some more physical escalation, but did not do anything. Instead, we agreed to arrange a new date, this time at nighttime at a local bar.
One little thing; as we where talking, she out of nowhere started talking about her bf. A voice inside me kept telling that this was her way of inviting me to escalate as she was saying that "he doesnt know that I am meeting you" and that "their relationship was failing", I did not take any sides of course. I listened a bit to what she was saying, acted a little bored before changing the conversation.
At the bar I could see that she was open to my advances. I knew I was close to kissing her, but did not know if I should do it then and there or risk missing the escalation window by waiting till we got to my place. I went for the first option, kissing her a bit before acting like nothing and just resuming the conversation (my favorite move btw, girls always seem a little shocked by it, but also glad that I just act as "this is normal". This put them at ease in a way). I told her to go with me to my place to "see my cat" (my roommate has one, and ugly one too). She agreed (but before doing this I was leading the interaction all the way, making her comply gradually before going for the kill
) We went directly to my room and started escalating from there. She knew what was going to happen all the way
And she told me that meeting me was not the smartest thing to do because she is very attracted to me. I acted like nothing and she started talking about her bf. That he has a violent history, and that it wont be pretty if he finds out. Out of nowhere he started calling her, I turned off the music, and she said to him that she was hanging out with a girlfriend, before kissing him goodbye and saying she loved him. She went strait for my cock after that, like nothing happened. But when I tried to fuck her, she started saying that she was "a bad person".
I told her that I supported her no matter what and that I hope they could figure out things. I also said that my door will always be open if she want to meet again. The same night she sent me a message telling me she missed my hands and my voice. She also said she did not want her boyfriend to smell my cologne, haha. A fun adventure all the way. But also not something I want to do often, because I dont want any trouble with womens boyfriends. Its not cool to be that guy.
At least I got the chance to experience this and learned a lot from it.
I forgot about
