she doesnt give her cell # but ask for yours?

[nitroyouth]

Well, there was this girl eyeballing kind of hard at a pub. After like 30 minutes or more I had the balls to approach. This is my first cold approach in a long time after reading a lot of the articles here. I gave her a compliment and then sat down because she was with a friend at a table. I asked if she was single and she showed me her engagement ring. So I asked if he was here and she told me he was out the country. I kept talking , trying to deep dive, even though the loud music was very interrupting. She was by my side and touched my shoulders almost every time to talk to me and I kind of did the same. Teased her about her broken jeans and that kind of stuff. She asked me questions I took as investment from her part. I noticed her best friend was happy that I was talking to her (or that was my impression). I asked for her number in the middle of the conversation, she hesitated looking upward. She asked for mine and so i gave it to her. The interaction ended almost at the closing of the pub. I bid her farewell and I reminded her about a possible date next weekend. She told she would call looking me very serious. I said "alright I believe you, good bye"

I am sure I did a couple of things wrong. But I was happy I at least approached. The loud music and her being with a friend made me a little bit stiff but I am kind of hoping that she just likes me a lot to make that call. She is married so thats why I think she didnt gave me her phone number, but I dont know. What do you guys make of it?

 

[ocantu1987]

Yeah, that is an old trick women use when they ask for your number instead, this usually means she is not interested. You should insist on getting "her" number.
Her:Give me your number
You:Oh come on, thats old. Don't worry I will only call you ten times a day

 

[nitroyouth]

Well, I think next time I will just leave the table without saying anything. The reason I stayed was because we reciprocated glances many times. Maybe much later I will do what you say but right now I need a little ego boost. I dont want to give free emotional validations like that without making them pay a bit for it. Thanks for the reply.

 

[nitroyouth]

I am not gonna edit my last response. It came out like a sore loser which I dont want to be. Since I am starting out, is good to take some kind of beating , build up your emotional inmunities and try again. Thanks