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I looked on GC about boyfriend couldnt find anything in the search bar. There is this girl i enjoy talking to we are connecting, i see her everyday, we both work in healthcare, i understand i shouldnt shit where i eat, facial expressions are great with body language, i make her laugh, other times im serious, she has a boyfriend.. i dont know how long she has been dating him, why wouldnt she bring it up to me? Should i ask her? should i ask if she wants to get a cup of coffee on the weekend, or am i jumping the gun to fast. We have known each other for 2 weeks... she has stated in a couple of conversations that she has a boyfriend but not directly to me, We were in convo with coworkers she brought it up.. she is a couple years older then me, she is making the push to talk to me, saying hello blank, throughout my day, perhaps im overthinking.. which i shouldnt do, she is just a Girl. Here is another story diffrent girl, flash forward its almost time to clockout somedays i get extreamly agitated, irrectable, as a man, i just need time alone, there is this obnoxious coworker of mine, she is crazy she always has to talk to me, she always says, ___ how is your day going, she is always giving me praise i accept it like a nice guy, but.. even if i try to spin it back on her she will argue with me, say why im valuable to the company.. its soo annoying she wonders why i dont talk to her as when i use to, should i ignore her to a extent or talk to her when i want to.. or tell her how i feel, my other coworkers see it going on.. it gets awkward quick we all get in a elevator, also when someone puts the attention on me how do i avert the attention, how would a calm, collective, GC winner do this 
i thought law of least effort, Constructive Criticism is Welcome
Also at work i act feminine with the ladies, i brought it out once i read chases book, other articals, its working amazingly!! I dont know if thats a word. I complement them on there blush, i ask if they are wearing eye shadow regardless i say you look great girl! With a high pitch tone in my voice. (Thats if i feel the vibe) if not i tend to back off, dip off into other conversations. I got a managers number she is interested in me.. we are going out, next weekend! omgg i would of never imagined, i say im getting there. Thanks for reading,
i thought law of least effort, Constructive Criticism is WelcomeAlso at work i act feminine with the ladies, i brought it out once i read chases book, other articals, its working amazingly!! I dont know if thats a word. I complement them on there blush, i ask if they are wearing eye shadow regardless i say you look great girl! With a high pitch tone in my voice. (Thats if i feel the vibe) if not i tend to back off, dip off into other conversations. I got a managers number she is interested in me.. we are going out, next weekend! omgg i would of never imagined, i say im getting there. Thanks for reading,
