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Okay so starting out again is a pain but making huge fuck-ups like this is just plain embarrassing. Enjoy ripping me on this one guys haha.
So i'm going out tonight with a few friends. We have a casual pres (drinking at my mates flat before we go out). It's me, three other guy friends. A girl who also lives there is drinking a little with us and smoking a joint but not going out. I have another girl whose a friend coming over after her shift. The focus of the night is the girl whose going to be coming a little while later and shall be called Hazel.
So I'm making some conversation with everyone and chilling. I'm wearing a white V-neck, a grey waistcoat over that, unbuttoned and black slim fit jeans with red converses. Casual but a little smart cause of the waistcoat. We're drinking and having a good time. My conversation is pretty bad, no where near as good as it used to be.
Then Hazel arrives and we start chatting a little. I've worked on my fundamentals before and had them pretty down tight but recently after the break from going out as much, they're all over the place, some things are good, other okay and some have just gone to shit. Anyway after some drinking and chatting we all decide to go out. The three guys head to one club and me and Hazel prefer to head to another.
It's a 15 minute walk there and Hazel has recently broken up with her boyfriend. Now Hazel is a tall girl with bleach blonde hair and is 24, she recently has gotten a small time modeling contract and we've been chatting and meeting each other more recently. But anyway we talk a little about the ex and the future and stuff. she tell's some personal details and I do a good job relating but i wasn't fully listening. We joke around on the way there but once we arrive the tickets are out! How fucking annoying. Anyway we take a cab back to the other club. There we get a drink and meet up with the guy friends. We chat and drink and dance a little but Hazel has had enough of the club and we decide to get food and go home.
Hazel and I end up in my flat with some food. It's pretty late and i'm tired so we decide to sleep. Here's when things get interesting. Now due to the fact that i've had a huge break from seduction assuming attraction seems much harder than it used to be. And since i've met this girl a few times before and had some drinks with her before, i never really tried anything with her since I assumed she thought of me only as a friend.
So when she suggests going to bed i assume she wants to go alone back to hers; until ask me where my room is! I think okay, no problem we'll just sleep on opposite sides. We get to my room and she gives me some shit for some books i'm reading and the state of my room. I laugh it off. I get comfy in bed wearing some shorts and a shirt (what I normally sleep in, should have i just worn my boxers instead?) and so does she but then she cuddles up right to me. "okay..." i think, now in my mind i'm thinking this is a pretty clear sign. But it can't be this easy or she can't be into me, doesn't she see me as a friend, i haven't really gamed her or anything.
Then after a few minutes she reaches for my hand and holds it with fingers interlocking. I can't believe i'm saying this but i'm still not 100%. But i take the risk and turn her around and now i'm spooning her. And she's pressing her ass virtually on my crotch. I'm really STILL not sure. (can you believe that) but i see how far i can push the boundaries and see how she responds to my touch (something i haven't done at all the whole night before the bed). I start with her belly, then her hips, then slowly to her leg and then back around. Then i start enjoying myself and go closer to the inner thigh, the ass and to finish it off i place my hand under her shirt and start fooling around with her nipples.
She doesn't protest once. She doesn't move like she's uncomfortable or anything. But she doesn't seem to get into it either. I go a little longer but i'm getting this feeling in the back of my mind that she might be going along with it for some other reason than she wants sex. Either way i slowly stop and go to sleep.
next morning she stays till around 10:30 and then decided to leave, i tell her bye and she walks off not looking annoyed nor frustrated. She texts me later thanking me for last night and saying she had a lot of fun hanging out with me.
Now am i biggest idiot ever or what? If she isn't protesting should i have continued and turned her to face me. How could i have gotten her more involved?
And can it be that easy, i really believed she had no sexual interest in me whats so ever but i doubt she let's her friends slip their hands under her bra?? Should just keep going because i'm clearly not reading attraction signs right.
Honestly the biggest fuck-up i've ever done haha.
-Rookie
So i'm going out tonight with a few friends. We have a casual pres (drinking at my mates flat before we go out). It's me, three other guy friends. A girl who also lives there is drinking a little with us and smoking a joint but not going out. I have another girl whose a friend coming over after her shift. The focus of the night is the girl whose going to be coming a little while later and shall be called Hazel.
So I'm making some conversation with everyone and chilling. I'm wearing a white V-neck, a grey waistcoat over that, unbuttoned and black slim fit jeans with red converses. Casual but a little smart cause of the waistcoat. We're drinking and having a good time. My conversation is pretty bad, no where near as good as it used to be.
Then Hazel arrives and we start chatting a little. I've worked on my fundamentals before and had them pretty down tight but recently after the break from going out as much, they're all over the place, some things are good, other okay and some have just gone to shit. Anyway after some drinking and chatting we all decide to go out. The three guys head to one club and me and Hazel prefer to head to another.
It's a 15 minute walk there and Hazel has recently broken up with her boyfriend. Now Hazel is a tall girl with bleach blonde hair and is 24, she recently has gotten a small time modeling contract and we've been chatting and meeting each other more recently. But anyway we talk a little about the ex and the future and stuff. she tell's some personal details and I do a good job relating but i wasn't fully listening. We joke around on the way there but once we arrive the tickets are out! How fucking annoying. Anyway we take a cab back to the other club. There we get a drink and meet up with the guy friends. We chat and drink and dance a little but Hazel has had enough of the club and we decide to get food and go home.
Hazel and I end up in my flat with some food. It's pretty late and i'm tired so we decide to sleep. Here's when things get interesting. Now due to the fact that i've had a huge break from seduction assuming attraction seems much harder than it used to be. And since i've met this girl a few times before and had some drinks with her before, i never really tried anything with her since I assumed she thought of me only as a friend.
So when she suggests going to bed i assume she wants to go alone back to hers; until ask me where my room is! I think okay, no problem we'll just sleep on opposite sides. We get to my room and she gives me some shit for some books i'm reading and the state of my room. I laugh it off. I get comfy in bed wearing some shorts and a shirt (what I normally sleep in, should have i just worn my boxers instead?) and so does she but then she cuddles up right to me. "okay..." i think, now in my mind i'm thinking this is a pretty clear sign. But it can't be this easy or she can't be into me, doesn't she see me as a friend, i haven't really gamed her or anything.
Then after a few minutes she reaches for my hand and holds it with fingers interlocking. I can't believe i'm saying this but i'm still not 100%. But i take the risk and turn her around and now i'm spooning her. And she's pressing her ass virtually on my crotch. I'm really STILL not sure. (can you believe that) but i see how far i can push the boundaries and see how she responds to my touch (something i haven't done at all the whole night before the bed). I start with her belly, then her hips, then slowly to her leg and then back around. Then i start enjoying myself and go closer to the inner thigh, the ass and to finish it off i place my hand under her shirt and start fooling around with her nipples.
She doesn't protest once. She doesn't move like she's uncomfortable or anything. But she doesn't seem to get into it either. I go a little longer but i'm getting this feeling in the back of my mind that she might be going along with it for some other reason than she wants sex. Either way i slowly stop and go to sleep.
next morning she stays till around 10:30 and then decided to leave, i tell her bye and she walks off not looking annoyed nor frustrated. She texts me later thanking me for last night and saying she had a lot of fun hanging out with me.
Now am i biggest idiot ever or what? If she isn't protesting should i have continued and turned her to face me. How could i have gotten her more involved?
And can it be that easy, i really believed she had no sexual interest in me whats so ever but i doubt she let's her friends slip their hands under her bra?? Should just keep going because i'm clearly not reading attraction signs right.
Honestly the biggest fuck-up i've ever done haha.
-Rookie
