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adi13

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Hi,
This is my first field report here and I taught I'll right it because it feels good to talk with guys that understand seduction, or are eager to learn it. Plus you can see the actual interaction with the girls.

I approached this girl in a supermarket last week and the conversation went OK. When I tried to get her number she told me she has a boyfriend but it's kinda not going so well with him. Eventually I got her number and the next day I texted her for a date. She replied that she can't this week but let's meet up the next one. Her telling me let's meet another day, I knew it was a go-go.
So on Monday (this Monday) I texted her again to set up a date. So the next day we went out. We met and went to a bar but unfortunately no tables available. I kept my calm and said:

Let's go on the other street, there are a lot of bars there.

We found a bar and got a table. In the first few minutes I started kino. I touched her hand and she was OK with it. I kinda got in this habit now and touch every person, and it comes natural to me.
We stayed there for about two hours, not because I wanted a long conversation, but because "we" were having a great time. Talked about trips, food, a little bit of work and during all this time I never stoped kino escalation (hold her hand, touching her forearm etc). I also tried kissing her several times, but it was a no-no.
After two hours we got up and left; walking home. During all the way home I held her by her neck/shoulder and she never said to take my hand off. Tried to kiss her again a few times, but I was rejected. Not a big deal, I wasn't not even a little affected by this (been there, done that).
Before splitting up I tried to kiss her again, but got rejected, and we had a little discussion:

Me: I think now it's my moment to leave
Her: Why don't you go in the supermarket and pick up girls ?
Me: I could, but the supermarket is closed, plus I want to live this moment right now with you.

She giggled, then I kissed her on her cheeks, trying for lips but again, no. Said good night and left home.

This morning I sent her a message. I usually do this the next day with girls just so I know she is still into me, or that everything went great last night.

Me: I hope you scheduled me at that nail salon! I find girls that have nice nails very attractive and she had those, and I complimented her about this went we were out and told her I want those too (kidding off course). Maybe it's a little gay, but besides their hair and ass, women's nails are very important to me.
Her: Tomorrow at 7:30. It will make them pink with some drawings on them, off course. Have you ever taught about me last night while eating your french fries?
Me: I wanted to eat you, but to be honest I would have starved to death because I will not have known from where to start eating you. This morning I had thoughts about you, and I have to confess, they were not about french fries :).
Her: :)) I don't even want to imagine what kind of thoughts you had.
Me: Are those kind of thoughts that make you have butterfly's in your stomach, make you get worm until you can't hold it anymore, then you just let go.
Her: I guess it was better for me to not know so many details :)
Me: I'm the kind of man who want to express himself. I thought you already notice this! I'm going to lunch now, I'm starving.
By now I kinda wanted to end the conversation that's why I put the eating phrase.
Her: I notice that...but I didn't knew you like expressing yourself so much. Enjoy your meal!

And this was it until now. I was planning to invite her at my place on Friday but unfortunately I will leave town that day. On Thursday I think is too early because usually I leave at least two day between when we meat and invite her at my place. I know I have to move fast but I kinda fell is too early.
I will update this once I have fresh info. Any advice and feedback will be much appreciated.
 

Fuck This

Cro-Magnon Man
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Well she knows you are interested....Might have overplayed your hand. Not going to be any going back to "being mysterious". She now thinks you are madly in love with her and she has the power.

Me: I wanted to eat you, but to be honest I would have starved to death because I will not have known from where to start eating you. This morning I had thoughts about you, and I have to confess, they were not about french fries :).
Her: :)) I don't even want to imagine what kind of thoughts you had.
Me: Are those kind of thoughts that make you have butterfly's in your stomach, make you get worm until you can't hold it anymore, then you just let go.
Her: I guess it was better for me to not know so many details :)


The last line tells me you over shared.

I'd play it cool and let her contact you next. She wasn't warm to your physical advances, and supposedly has a boyfriend. Not much investment on her part.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

adi13

Space Monkey
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If she contacts me, should invite her at my place? I don't think she will agree.
 

adi13

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He, she just texted me. I'll come back with the results.
 

adi13

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So we went out and meet at each other homes and cook meals and everything for the last few weeks, and last night we had our sixth date at her place but no sex. I never go that much with a girl, if I don't have sex with her on the second or maybe third date, I stop contacting her. I did this just to see what happens, just to convince myself of a few things. You know...you keep reading the GC blog but you have to feel it on your skin sometimes, plus right now I'm in a place at seduction where I kinda "lost the power".
She told me she is not ready yet, even tough she's 26. Off course when I heard this I knew she was either not comfortable with me or she is not ready with me. The thing is, I want to go ahead with her just to see where it will end or what will happen, but my attraction for her started to go down. One other thing I noticed is that I kinda have the feeling that I'm loosing my time.
Opinions?
 

Bboy100

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Does she still have the BF? If so, that might be what's going on. Despite the bad relationship, she might be unwilling to cheat on him. So basically, she might be trying to "make up her mind" about whether or not to leave him.
 

adi13

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I never asked her, never taught I have to. I doubt she still has the boyfriend since she invited me at her place and her brother was there. I don't think a girls with invite a lover at her place while a family member is there and she is still in a relationship, plus she is a little bit shy and social conditioned.
 

Bboy100

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6 dates, and she's inviting you over when other people are around? Sounds not only disrespectful, but also like a waste of your time. I would cut her off.
 

adi13

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Yep, I taught that too right from the second date. Thanks for the advice, much appreciated.
 
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