She never masturbates, never had an orgasm?

[SaltyT]

Lol, it sounds very uncommon, well at least for me.. I know most of the people masturbates or actually have done it at least once in their life but...

My girlfriend is a sweet girl, but i make her naughty side come to surface.. She have had sex before but only with 2 guys, she told me at the beggining of the relationship she didn't like sex because she can't orgasm and she doesn't finds it attractive, well i told her "you gotta test me then, those guys are such a piece of..." hahaha Well she did now she's addicted and always wants more and more

I was at her home last night, we went to a dark room (she lives in a students house) and started rubbing, and she bj me, i didn't had a condom (i know i suck ... ) but damn i was too damn horny so i started masturbating her, the right way, she told me "you gotta teach me because i can't do that"

I'M SOOOOO AFRAID OF SEXUAL AWAKENING HER, i really like this girl, she fulfills my standard and even more, but i really want to make her archive that goal, Pure and tasty climax....but what if she like it a lot more? what if she wants more? SHOULD I TEACH HER HOW TO MASTURBATE?

Damn, head is killing me

Cheers

 

[Chase]

Salty-

In case you haven't seen it, the orgasm on training women up to orgasm properly is here:

3 Steps to Help Her to Orgasm from Sex

I also addressed the question of whether to worry about sexual awakening or not there - if you want to go right to it, Ctrl+F and type "Should You Be Worried About an Awakening?"

She sounds young, and chances are, if she doesn't learn to orgasm with you, she will with one of her boyfriends after you, so you might as well be the one who helps her get there - it's a nice thing for you to do, and she'll always remember you as the one who opened up her sexuality for her.

Alternately, as you're in Nicaragua, I'm not certain how conservative the culture is there, but if people typically marry young and have fewer sex partners, she may not get too crazy even with a proper sexual awakening, since (if it is a more reserved culture there) there will be social sanctions against this and she can reasonably expect that most men aren't terribly good in bed. How her past partners performed will also influence how an awakening goes with her - if she's had two lovers already and both were mediocre in bed, there's a very good chance she'll be a lot less incentivized to seek out other men if she realizes you are a rare find and most men will be like those first two lovers of hers and not like you.

(When she remarks on how disappointing her previous lovers were, you can just make offhand comments like, "No need to insult them... MOST guys are terrible at sex!" and quote some statistics if you want - the average length of sexual intercourse in the USA, for instance, is only 2 to 7 minutes, for instance, depending on what state you're measuring in. Then tell her yeah, SOME guys are good, but only the guys who care enough about making sure a woman orgasms to study it, and smart enough to figure out how to pull it off. Most guys are either just ignorant, or only care about their orgasm and not the woman's, but I guess that's life)

Chase

 

[SaltyT]

Salty-

In case you haven't seen it, the orgasm on training women up to orgasm properly is here:

3 Steps to Help Her to Orgasm from Sex

I also addressed the question of whether to worry about sexual awakening or not there - if you want to go right to it, Ctrl+F and type "Should You Be Worried About an Awakening?"

She sounds young, and chances are, if she doesn't learn to orgasm with you, she will with one of her boyfriends after you, so you might as well be the one who helps her get there - it's a nice thing for you to do, and she'll always remember you as the one who opened up her sexuality for her.

Alternately, as you're in Nicaragua, I'm not certain how conservative the culture is there, but if people typically marry young and have fewer sex partners, she may not get too crazy even with a proper sexual awakening, since (if it is a more reserved culture there) there will be social sanctions against this and she can reasonably expect that most men aren't terribly good in bed. How her past partners performed will also influence how an awakening goes with her - if she's had two lovers already and both were mediocre in bed, there's a very good chance she'll be a lot less incentivized to seek out other men if she realizes you are a rare find and most men will be like those first two lovers of hers and not like you.

(When she remarks on how disappointing her previous lovers were, you can just make offhand comments like, "No need to insult them... MOST guys are terrible at sex!" and quote some statistics if you want - the average length of sexual intercourse in the USA, for instance, is only 2 to 7 minutes, for instance, depending on what state you're measuring in. Then tell her yeah, SOME guys are good, but only the guys who care enough about making sure a woman orgasms to study it, and smart enough to figure out how to pull it off. Most guys are either just ignorant, or only care about their orgasm and not the woman's, but I guess that's life)

Chase

Guess what? She almost came, what I did was using other positions just to warm us both at the beginning, then I used the adapted missionary for about 30 mins (yeah, at this point I haven't had cum for more than a year with vaginal sex) but she has problems with her bladder, she was in pain, when she was coming I adjusted my position and damn it didn't happened

I told her to tell me next time she's having it, so I can make a variation to make her have the best orgasm ever

The happy side of the story is that I broke that 1 year without an vaginal orgasm row, I feel really good about it, I'm evolving as a sexual being..

Thanks again sensei, I bet the next time we will be able to have the climax she always wanted, keep it going..!!

 

[SaltyT]

By the way, Nicaragua is not that of a primitive XX Century culture, here people is like the same in the US without the skywalkers and the lost of culture, you should come, we have beautiful beaches and if you like peace and quite like I do consider visiting here

cheers, Sal

 

[SaltyT]

Salty-

In case you haven't seen it, the orgasm on training women up to orgasm properly is here:

3 Steps to Help Her to Orgasm from Sex

I also addressed the question of whether to worry about sexual awakening or not there - if you want to go right to it, Ctrl+F and type "Should You Be Worried About an Awakening?"

She sounds young, and chances are, if she doesn't learn to orgasm with you, she will with one of her boyfriends after you, so you might as well be the one who helps her get there - it's a nice thing for you to do, and she'll always remember you as the one who opened up her sexuality for her.

Alternately, as you're in Nicaragua, I'm not certain how conservative the culture is there, but if people typically marry young and have fewer sex partners, she may not get too crazy even with a proper sexual awakening, since (if it is a more reserved culture there) there will be social sanctions against this and she can reasonably expect that most men aren't terribly good in bed. How her past partners performed will also influence how an awakening goes with her - if she's had two lovers already and both were mediocre in bed, there's a very good chance she'll be a lot less incentivized to seek out other men if she realizes you are a rare find and most men will be like those first two lovers of hers and not like you.

(When she remarks on how disappointing her previous lovers were, you can just make offhand comments like, "No need to insult them... MOST guys are terrible at sex!" and quote some statistics if you want - the average length of sexual intercourse in the USA, for instance, is only 2 to 7 minutes, for instance, depending on what state you're measuring in. Then tell her yeah, SOME guys are good, but only the guys who care enough about making sure a woman orgasms to study it, and smart enough to figure out how to pull it off. Most guys are either just ignorant, or only care about their orgasm and not the woman's, but I guess that's life)

Chase

She came and cried for it... yes she cried of happiness, she thought she would never have it, i made her sooooo happy, it took a month to make it happen..

And she keeps reminding me how good lover i am, thanks to you sensei