I have run into an awkward situation a few times. I get a girl to basically start talking to me, whether it's via text or facebook chat or whatever. From there, she ends up asking me out. "Hey, we should get together and grab a drink and go dancing sometime". I keep the conversation going a bit and then try to set up logistics and then the girl goes cold. I am confused because she asked me out...
For instance, one girl hit me up out of the blue. I had gotten her number months before after a yoga class and we had issues setting up plans. This time around, she hit me up out of nowhere. "Hey. Hope you have been well. Sorry I have been MIA. We should grab a coffee or a drink sometime. Besos!".. So, I responded with something warm "Afrah, hey :0)... nice to hear from you. Yes, all is well with me. Have been really busy, though. How were your holidays?". She didn't respond for a couple of days. So, I re-engaged her, and she seems to be chatting but it's just bizarre. Not sure if it will lead to anything. Meanwhile, I feel like it should be a guarantee, because she reached out first to ask me out. What am I doing wrong?
Another time not too long ago, this girl who was in my salsa classes stopped taking class. She then friended me on facebook. So, I sent her something neutral. Like- "hey, thanks for friending me, hope you've been well". Same thing! She ends talking to me and then saying "we should go dancing or grab a drink sometime". But when I try to set up logistics, she flakes!. I had tried to reach out to her one or two more times, and she'd always respond with something warm. But, when we got to making plans, she'd ignore me. What the hell?! HELP!
For instance, one girl hit me up out of the blue. I had gotten her number months before after a yoga class and we had issues setting up plans. This time around, she hit me up out of nowhere. "Hey. Hope you have been well. Sorry I have been MIA. We should grab a coffee or a drink sometime. Besos!".. So, I responded with something warm "Afrah, hey :0)... nice to hear from you. Yes, all is well with me. Have been really busy, though. How were your holidays?". She didn't respond for a couple of days. So, I re-engaged her, and she seems to be chatting but it's just bizarre. Not sure if it will lead to anything. Meanwhile, I feel like it should be a guarantee, because she reached out first to ask me out. What am I doing wrong?
Another time not too long ago, this girl who was in my salsa classes stopped taking class. She then friended me on facebook. So, I sent her something neutral. Like- "hey, thanks for friending me, hope you've been well". Same thing! She ends talking to me and then saying "we should go dancing or grab a drink sometime". But when I try to set up logistics, she flakes!. I had tried to reach out to her one or two more times, and she'd always respond with something warm. But, when we got to making plans, she'd ignore me. What the hell?! HELP!
