Hey guys so this occurred last Thursday,I think i handled the situation really well although I'm honestly not too sure how things will end up next time. Basically she got too drunk, i helped and nadah. I'll go over the story now tho.
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So it is a Thursday night and I just ordered food from the place in the basement of my building. The food there is good and it is so easy for me to get to because I am a lazy bastard. I get back up to my suite and then I just fuck around on my laptop before going into the hall and talking to my suite mates and another girl. So it is two of my suite mates and one girl lets call her skinny. One of my suite mates is gay lets call him bear and so I know he is gonna wing for our other suite mate lets call him glasses, we are all bros like that. My roommate is going to be leaving soon to go hangout with a girl on the opposite end of campus (our school is huge). He ends up just asking me what i'm doing and i say "nothing" then he says we are gonna go hang out with these chicks. The girl he is going to see wants him to bring a friend so her friends don't feel awkward. I'm cool with it, I can handle two girls in convo so my boy can get his rocks off.
So I'm scrambling. I just ordered food and it's not gonna be done for a while. I make a pb&j and destroy that shit. I go downstairs to check on my food and it's not gonna be done for a while. I talk to the girl down there and tell her my friends gonna come pick it up then i ask her if that is cool. She says that it is then I head back up the elevator. (This girl is hot and I want her, but I can't be super me about it, ya know?) I get back up stairs and ask one of my other suite mates lets call him fish if he can grab the food for me, he agrees. I then begin to drink with my roommate. We are in the hallway and he jokes about whether or not I have chlamydia and whether or not it can be exchanged thru saliva. Bear is very knowledgeable about science and chimes in and skinny asks me if I have chlamydia. I say " I'm nasty but I'm not that nasty". She says "Good response". Me and my boy talk a bit because these girls have been waiting and then we decide to head on our journey.
On the way there me and my roommate talk and he mentions how skinny had a conversation with him a bout me. Apparently she had a feeling that I do well with girls, etc. I am not sweating it. Then we near the girls building and go inside. We enter the reception area and my roommate goes to take a piss while I wait. I end up talking to the girl at the desk, she had blue hair and i was curious about it. We end up making convo until my roomie comes back out. Me and my roomie talk for a bit more and then the girls come out.
MEETING THE GIRLS
His girl is fuckable, my girl is cute and fuckable. Thinking nothing of the situation I introduce myself to my girl lets call her italian and then i try to introduce myself to her friend that we will call mouth. Mouth is preoccupied with getting in so she ignored my gesture and i commented on it and so did italian as we entered into the elevators. And then this happens...
Mouth- Those two they are fucking around, they totally know each other!
Me- huh?
Roomie- What?
Mouth is like "Yea those two totally know each other, italian told me all about him! About how this guy came and talked to her and got her number"
I look at italian and it is still not clicking and then it clicks. I say "Oh, its you" as I poke her arm. (the likelihood that I knew her was incredibly fucking tiny because my school is fucking huuuuuge)
(I approached this girl like two weeks back while she was in line for a cafe outside my class. I had a good convo, got her number then texted her and she never responded. Then i forgot about her)
We continue making convo and then we get out of the elevator and mouth is going off about how italian is going to hate her for mentioning that. That she has a huge mouth, etc. I was wondering how the fuck she knew about me and knew it was me as soon as she met me...
We get to italians room; her room is like a z, one bed room in the front and another in the back, no doors in the room tho and we begin drinking and smoking (I don't smoke tho). We begin listening to music conversing. So Mouth ends up bringing up me approaching italian, at first it was a statement. "You went to go talk to this girl and got her number, your such a baller, so much confidence" Which is shrug off warmly, and then she daps me up, i reciprocate. Mouth begins talking up italian like "look at her she is so gorgeous, and pretty, etc." I say "Yea." Then mouth goes further and asks me for the story, I said "I saw a girl i wanted to talk to and went to go do it". Then mouth asks and she never responded to your text i mean how did that feel. I responded nonchalantly but not in a cold way, I did not want italian to think I thought nothing of her, even though I had completely forgotten her and did not care.
I control the convo and move things away from that and we are all just enjoying the music. I'm dancing and talking to italian and my roommate is on the bed with mouth and shes pretty open, I know he is going to fuck. I try to have italian sit on my lap but she doesn't so i chill a bit and she reengages me. (now the order of things may be messed up but I am trying) Italian goes to the bathroom and I am just chilling in a chair in the section with my roommate and mouth and then the two begin making out. I look in the other direction and ignore it, and then italian comes in the room a bit later. I had checked out her part of the room earlier and knew i could do something with it. So i walked over to her side of the room and told her "I bet that I could guess where you bought your things"
We begin to play the game for all about two minutes, the from the start she is pressing her body on me and I'm just letting the tension rise. I guess correctly because I knew i was right and then I just look at her and I grab her face and pull her into me and we begin making out. We do it for a bit before I pull back, leaving her wanting more. We go back to their side of the room and italians roommate comes in lets call her red. So my roommate and mouth are talking to italian and I'm talking to red. Red invites me to take a shot with her and we do and we continue talking. Then red tries to make out with me, which i gracefully dodge because I wanted italian. (Was that the right move?)
Eventually red leaves and i begin talking to italian then we begin dancing and then we begin making out again but this time in front of my roommate and mouth. They both exclaim "Ohhh" ( I later found out that they were both pushing italian to hook up with me, and italian said there was no way we were hooking up hahahaha)
We begin to move over to her section and then things get a little heavier, the touch begins to increase. I am on italians bed sitting on the side with my feet on the floor and italian is in front of me, getting very close to sitting on top of me. Red comes back in and sees the situation between all of us and then leaves. Italian says that she is going to the bathroom and she does but when she comes back i notice water on her lips. I jokingly ask "if she threw up", she said "no she didn't", and i mention "how i don't care and i don't judge its a natural bodily function". We begin making out again but i can tell shes too drunk. We begin making out on her bed and she begins to vomit again, she vomits into the trash but one time she doesn't make it and gets it onto my leg. It did not smell, just a little liquid. It did not bother me. I tell her I am going to take my pants off, she says its cool. I end up taking care of her throughout the night because i was legit worried this chick would die lol. She mentions how she "fucked up" I made the assumption that she wanted to fuck me but is too fucked up to do so.
So i end up sleeping in her bed but i go no further cause she was too far gone. In the morning when she is better I initiate the make out and we do make out but she was closed off to anything further. To try anymore than I had would be forcing it. Around eight am she mentions she has to kick me out so that she could get ready for class and i was cool with it. I got up got dressed and before leaving i just kissed her passionately and then began to leave and she said "see ya" and did the same. Her tone hinted at something but her body language was really closed off.
Learning from this, I think I moved things forward appropriately all though I should have aimed for sex right at the first make out. I made a mistake thinking I had more time. But she got too drunk, maybe she wanted me to make a move while she was intoxicated? Recently I had a similar situation with another girl that got too intoxicated, she wanted to fuck me in a field but she was too fucked up. Now whenever i see her shes pretty closed off to anything with me. Was it the same for this girl? I think something is still there, maybe she felt too nasty? Vomit doesn't even bother me. She said she was pretty embarrassed and that she usually doesn't get like that (Which i toootaly believe lol). Perhaps i should of just asked her if she wanted to fuck when we woke up, she just felt really closed off so i decided against it, maybe that was my mistake?
My roommate ended up fucking mouth in her room, while we were sleeping, although i wasn't sleeping italian was because red came back in the room and wanted them out of her bed. My roommate said he will try to hit up mouth sometime this week (this was last Thursday so a couple days from now) to arrange a hangout. Me and my roommate both agreed that I should not contact italian. What do you guys think?
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So it is a Thursday night and I just ordered food from the place in the basement of my building. The food there is good and it is so easy for me to get to because I am a lazy bastard. I get back up to my suite and then I just fuck around on my laptop before going into the hall and talking to my suite mates and another girl. So it is two of my suite mates and one girl lets call her skinny. One of my suite mates is gay lets call him bear and so I know he is gonna wing for our other suite mate lets call him glasses, we are all bros like that. My roommate is going to be leaving soon to go hangout with a girl on the opposite end of campus (our school is huge). He ends up just asking me what i'm doing and i say "nothing" then he says we are gonna go hang out with these chicks. The girl he is going to see wants him to bring a friend so her friends don't feel awkward. I'm cool with it, I can handle two girls in convo so my boy can get his rocks off.
So I'm scrambling. I just ordered food and it's not gonna be done for a while. I make a pb&j and destroy that shit. I go downstairs to check on my food and it's not gonna be done for a while. I talk to the girl down there and tell her my friends gonna come pick it up then i ask her if that is cool. She says that it is then I head back up the elevator. (This girl is hot and I want her, but I can't be super me about it, ya know?) I get back up stairs and ask one of my other suite mates lets call him fish if he can grab the food for me, he agrees. I then begin to drink with my roommate. We are in the hallway and he jokes about whether or not I have chlamydia and whether or not it can be exchanged thru saliva. Bear is very knowledgeable about science and chimes in and skinny asks me if I have chlamydia. I say " I'm nasty but I'm not that nasty". She says "Good response". Me and my boy talk a bit because these girls have been waiting and then we decide to head on our journey.
On the way there me and my roommate talk and he mentions how skinny had a conversation with him a bout me. Apparently she had a feeling that I do well with girls, etc. I am not sweating it. Then we near the girls building and go inside. We enter the reception area and my roommate goes to take a piss while I wait. I end up talking to the girl at the desk, she had blue hair and i was curious about it. We end up making convo until my roomie comes back out. Me and my roomie talk for a bit more and then the girls come out.
MEETING THE GIRLS
His girl is fuckable, my girl is cute and fuckable. Thinking nothing of the situation I introduce myself to my girl lets call her italian and then i try to introduce myself to her friend that we will call mouth. Mouth is preoccupied with getting in so she ignored my gesture and i commented on it and so did italian as we entered into the elevators. And then this happens...
Mouth- Those two they are fucking around, they totally know each other!
Me- huh?
Roomie- What?
Mouth is like "Yea those two totally know each other, italian told me all about him! About how this guy came and talked to her and got her number"
I look at italian and it is still not clicking and then it clicks. I say "Oh, its you" as I poke her arm. (the likelihood that I knew her was incredibly fucking tiny because my school is fucking huuuuuge)
(I approached this girl like two weeks back while she was in line for a cafe outside my class. I had a good convo, got her number then texted her and she never responded. Then i forgot about her)
We continue making convo and then we get out of the elevator and mouth is going off about how italian is going to hate her for mentioning that. That she has a huge mouth, etc. I was wondering how the fuck she knew about me and knew it was me as soon as she met me...
We get to italians room; her room is like a z, one bed room in the front and another in the back, no doors in the room tho and we begin drinking and smoking (I don't smoke tho). We begin listening to music conversing. So Mouth ends up bringing up me approaching italian, at first it was a statement. "You went to go talk to this girl and got her number, your such a baller, so much confidence" Which is shrug off warmly, and then she daps me up, i reciprocate. Mouth begins talking up italian like "look at her she is so gorgeous, and pretty, etc." I say "Yea." Then mouth goes further and asks me for the story, I said "I saw a girl i wanted to talk to and went to go do it". Then mouth asks and she never responded to your text i mean how did that feel. I responded nonchalantly but not in a cold way, I did not want italian to think I thought nothing of her, even though I had completely forgotten her and did not care.
I control the convo and move things away from that and we are all just enjoying the music. I'm dancing and talking to italian and my roommate is on the bed with mouth and shes pretty open, I know he is going to fuck. I try to have italian sit on my lap but she doesn't so i chill a bit and she reengages me. (now the order of things may be messed up but I am trying) Italian goes to the bathroom and I am just chilling in a chair in the section with my roommate and mouth and then the two begin making out. I look in the other direction and ignore it, and then italian comes in the room a bit later. I had checked out her part of the room earlier and knew i could do something with it. So i walked over to her side of the room and told her "I bet that I could guess where you bought your things"
We begin to play the game for all about two minutes, the from the start she is pressing her body on me and I'm just letting the tension rise. I guess correctly because I knew i was right and then I just look at her and I grab her face and pull her into me and we begin making out. We do it for a bit before I pull back, leaving her wanting more. We go back to their side of the room and italians roommate comes in lets call her red. So my roommate and mouth are talking to italian and I'm talking to red. Red invites me to take a shot with her and we do and we continue talking. Then red tries to make out with me, which i gracefully dodge because I wanted italian. (Was that the right move?)
Eventually red leaves and i begin talking to italian then we begin dancing and then we begin making out again but this time in front of my roommate and mouth. They both exclaim "Ohhh" ( I later found out that they were both pushing italian to hook up with me, and italian said there was no way we were hooking up hahahaha)
We begin to move over to her section and then things get a little heavier, the touch begins to increase. I am on italians bed sitting on the side with my feet on the floor and italian is in front of me, getting very close to sitting on top of me. Red comes back in and sees the situation between all of us and then leaves. Italian says that she is going to the bathroom and she does but when she comes back i notice water on her lips. I jokingly ask "if she threw up", she said "no she didn't", and i mention "how i don't care and i don't judge its a natural bodily function". We begin making out again but i can tell shes too drunk. We begin making out on her bed and she begins to vomit again, she vomits into the trash but one time she doesn't make it and gets it onto my leg. It did not smell, just a little liquid. It did not bother me. I tell her I am going to take my pants off, she says its cool. I end up taking care of her throughout the night because i was legit worried this chick would die lol. She mentions how she "fucked up" I made the assumption that she wanted to fuck me but is too fucked up to do so.
So i end up sleeping in her bed but i go no further cause she was too far gone. In the morning when she is better I initiate the make out and we do make out but she was closed off to anything further. To try anymore than I had would be forcing it. Around eight am she mentions she has to kick me out so that she could get ready for class and i was cool with it. I got up got dressed and before leaving i just kissed her passionately and then began to leave and she said "see ya" and did the same. Her tone hinted at something but her body language was really closed off.
Learning from this, I think I moved things forward appropriately all though I should have aimed for sex right at the first make out. I made a mistake thinking I had more time. But she got too drunk, maybe she wanted me to make a move while she was intoxicated? Recently I had a similar situation with another girl that got too intoxicated, she wanted to fuck me in a field but she was too fucked up. Now whenever i see her shes pretty closed off to anything with me. Was it the same for this girl? I think something is still there, maybe she felt too nasty? Vomit doesn't even bother me. She said she was pretty embarrassed and that she usually doesn't get like that (Which i toootaly believe lol). Perhaps i should of just asked her if she wanted to fuck when we woke up, she just felt really closed off so i decided against it, maybe that was my mistake?
My roommate ended up fucking mouth in her room, while we were sleeping, although i wasn't sleeping italian was because red came back in the room and wanted them out of her bed. My roommate said he will try to hit up mouth sometime this week (this was last Thursday so a couple days from now) to arrange a hangout. Me and my roommate both agreed that I should not contact italian. What do you guys think?
