She wants to go out not next week but the following

[Prehistoric]

Met her on Tuesday (4 Nov), got her number, exchanged some texts between Friday and Saturday (7 and 8 Nov) in which I ask her about going out to which she answers: "Sounds good! I am rather busy next week, but we can go for drinks on the following one. Buenas tardes "

Good points
- I am beginner in "the game", so getting a date is a success anyway, especially with a girl prettier than average like this.
- I have an entire week to read articles and stuff

Doubts:
- This one week interval doesn't smell right somehow :/
- Is she putting me in the "potential long-term boyfriend " category meaning she'll hold sex back?

I'd like to hear the opinion of some more experienced guy.

 

[Eternity]

She sounds legitimately busy. If she was no way interested in you she wouldn't have suggested another time for a date. Girls who don't care won't answer back or just say they're busy and leave it be. Of course for your other doubts, there's no way to know since not much info is given to us by you about your interaction with this girl. It could be, but you will have to wait for the meetup to gauge her levels of interest and decide if this is the case. I suggest reading up my "Tips & Tricks " thread. Lots of links to useful info about txting and other question you might have about women. Read up the articles by Chase also and decide what's the best fit for you, in terms of seduction style. BTW, she sounds like a kind girl, that Buenas Tardes and are rare to get in a txt, especially with bitchy american girls.

 

[Prehistoric]

Of course for your other doubts, there's no way to know since not much info is given to us by you about your interaction with this girl.

I met her at a food tasting event, with other 10 people. She was sitting in front of me and close to me there were also two other pretty girls. I had just read the articles "Making girls laugh means nothing" and "The art of deep dive" so I tried to be less funny (which was my usual innate style) making only a couple of jokes here and there and mostly directed at the whole group and tried to focus the conversation on her, her life, her passions, her trips. She actually told me quite a lot about herself. Then I grabbed her number. The two pretty girls sitting around me also joined the conversations and one of them (beautiful but typical bitch) seemed eager for attention because she wasn't getting any from me (I despise snobby contemptuous bitches)

she sounds like a kind girl, that Buenas Tardes and are rare to get in a txt, especially with bitchy american girls.

Yeah, also by European standards I find she was particularly kind. Bitchiness is to be found a lot here too, especially in England, France and Italy. Spanish girls can be quite aggressive too. This girl I am talking about is Scandinavian though.

Thanks for the tips, I'll make sure I read your thread.

 

[Eternity]

K. Set up a meet next week 4 drinks 2 days before she agreed 2 meet with u. More importantly, be gaming other women and put her in the backburner, as if she had rejected you and you moved on quick. This is how you develop adbundance mentality and avoid the pitfalls of oneitis.

Something like, " Hey, you up 4 that drink fri at xxx"
Don't overdo it. Less is more.

Then if she agrees and has decided to meet u. Arrive 10 mins later to show noneediness. Txt her 2 hrs before the meet, "gonna b 5 mins late, errands..." If she's a flaker she will show her colors then and there and you can next her and move on. If she says ok proceed with the 10mins. No response- don't show up. If she actually missed ur txt she will txt you and then you have hand and decide whether to meet her or set up something later.

 

[Prehistoric]

K. Set up a meet next week 4 drinks 2 days before she agreed 2 meet with u. More importantly, be gaming other women and put her in the backburner, as if she had rejected you and you moved on quick. This is how you develop adbundance mentality and avoid the pitfalls of oneitis.

Abundance mentality is one of the greatest concept ever. Two weeks ago I tried to kiss another girl who rejected me (I actually posted that as it was my first big attempt since I have started working on this whole game perspective seriously) and instead of getting stuck like my old miserable self I soldiered on and met this other scandinavian girl. But you’re definitely right, it’s more effective to do that even before she actually rejects you. I am going to 3 social meetings next week and partying with buddies on the WE.

While we’re at it, at a foreign language practice evening I am going to, there is a hot argentinian girl who has a boyfriend. Last time before going away and say bye to the group I said “well, I am going for some pizza nearby now”. I went out of the bar, this girl came out 5 seconds after me and told me “So now you’re…?”

Quite dumbly, I answered “Yes, I am going for Pizza, do you know where street X is exactly” and she gave me the directions.

I was incredibly dumb actually - my "mating reflexes" are still kinda slow.

Now, how would u’ve interpreted that “So now you’re..?”. Interest signal? Should I have answered “Yes, I am going for Pizza, come with me” or something like that?

And what about the boyfriend thing?

I am probably seeing her again tomorrow.

 

[Eternity]

Indicator of interest (IOI).

Her- "So now you're..."

You- "Going to get pizza with you? Yeah. Lets go"

Look at her over the shoulder not face to face when you do this. If she refuses just smirk, shake you head, and keep on walking without turning back, like a man indifferent to her charms. For the b.f, ignore and game her like usual. If she brings it up repeatedly, dump her cuz she's just a fucking tease that won't spread anytime soon. If once or not at all, green light to seduce. It's her choice to cheat or not, you're just throwing out bait.