Hmm well the philosophy taught on this site is how to get girls generally, not how to get a particular girl. Because being good with women requires you to unlearn neediness and to train yourself that there are a million hot fucking girls out there and some of them will sleep with u if u play your cards right
Having said that, I am qualified to comment on your situation since my second girlfriend ever started off with the same situation and it led to a 3yr LTR... basically I can't take the credit for this (if indeed credit is due), she knew I was into her from my behaviour and body language, she didn't act on it for some time, one night (when I happened to be doing a bit of carpentry as I recall) she suddenly became super flirtatious and I fucked her the same night. It's a good thing the bookshelf didn't fall on our heads and kill us in the act, however
So yeah I'd say this is the path you are on (based on your description), if you already kissed she knows you're DTF and is hesitating... from the description of the hot and cold behaviour (exactly like my GF) it sounds like she is gonna wear the pants in this relationship, and you gotta ask yourself man, is it worth it?? I have no real regrets personally since my GF was cute and interesting and I was in a position of scarcity (I still love her a bit though she is married to someone else and has kids)... but if I'd had the wonderful resource that is GC, and the get-up-and-go to nail down my fundamentals and practice skills I could have done so much better.
Summary, it's bloody hard to game someone who lives with you, and most of your relationship management skills are down the toilet, but if u like her, be cool and bide your time.
cheers, Ray
PS You will likely end up in an LTR with this woman and that's also not what is taught on this site. You should rather be aiming for a circle of FWB relationships one of which you can upgrade to LTR as and when she shows herself worthy.
