FR She's not coming is she?

[Orgasmatron]

Good evening gentlemen,

Your thoughts if you will. And please bear in mind I'm very new to this, and I'm very sensitive.

This was in fact my first success of sorts from my new hobby of talking to girls I don't know in public places.

So, I hope you are sitting comfortably, then I will begin.

Last Thursday I was in the park, being a cool dude, and I happened upon a very attractive young lady that I took a liking to. She was sitting on a park bench, smoking a cigarette, listening to her earphones, wearing an ensemble of black leather jacket, black jeans, red sneakers. "ohhh" I though "you look very cool".

So I sat on bench beside hers, lit up a cigarette of my own. "See young lady, I'm cool too". I checked her out a few times, y'know to make sure she wasn't a dude or anything. So, she seemed to have all the right bits in the right places.

So (still smoking) I went over, gestured for her to take out her earphones. She obliged. I said "hi..." (it's my go-to opener) "you look very cool". She smiled and said "thank you". I introduced myself and asked her name. That went as expected. "I really like the all black outfit" I said. Again,"thank you", more smiles. "so, are you a rock chick?" I asked. "I like rock music". I thought "well then... this is the girl for me" so I sat down and proceeded to chat her up.


So, anyway, we had a very nice converstaion, 10 minutes, maybe more, she sparked up another cigarette early on, because she is cool, which I took as an indication that she was happy to sit with me for a while. I told her she was very pretty at various stages, more of the aforementioned smiles ensued. I was obviously into her, she was obviously into me - I know, I know, but you can tell by the way someone looks at you if they have 'that look' in their eyes.

Anyway, the close...

After a while, she hinted that she needed to go somewhere, so I said "well, I need to go now too, but I think you are really nice. Would you like to out for a drink sometime?" She said she would, more smiles, and we exchange numbers. So I get her number, I actually get one of the digits wrong, she corrects my mistake (important? maybe? maybe not? maybe I just read too much into things when I want something to go my way, I could go on). I text her, a hi it's me message with my name, she gets it, I see this, she saves my number on her phone under my name.

Then I ask when she is free, she's working the next few days but is free next Tuesday to Friday. I'm off work next Thursday and Friday so I suggest Wednesday night, she agrees, and I say I'll text her on Wednesday about where to meet.


So far so, so good.

So, the halfway point between when we meet and when I plan on presenting her with my meat is Sunday. So I'd better text her, let her know I've not forgotten about her. She'll naturally assume that she is just one of many and I'll have been swimming in poontang all weekend. So I want to reassure her that she is the girl for me,

So Sunday morning, 10:45 am I text her "Hi, I hope you are having a nice morning and you have a good day."

and the reply...


silence

But it's only 10:46am so, she'll probably take a while to respond. She's pretty cool, so she'll be playing it cool.

So, time moves on (you're telling me I can hear you say) and as I'm sure you've guessed there was no reply.

So, when I text her to meet at the park where we met (our special place) at 7pm on Wednesday, I'm just going to be there on my own for half an hour aren't I? I'll have a walk about, see a few other girls... maybe that's her... no... is that her? .... ohh, no that's definitely not her, oooft.
Eventually, after 30, maybe 45 minutes. I'll realize she isn't coming so I'll go home, wank off to some schoolgirl pov, and cry myself to sleep.

That's what's going to happen isn't it? she's not coming is she?

So did I fuck it up or whnat? Just pretty confused about no response. The interaction was all pretty good, she was engaged in the conversation, telling me lots about herself, where she is from, sharing her opinions (I know, women eh?) her hopes and dreams, proper conversation stuff. Asks a bit about me. Enjoying the attention, as girls do. I'm telling her she's really pretty and stuff like that. Seem to go pretty well to me. So as far as interactions with women go, for me, that's the best one yet, and I've been married. (boom boom)

I don't think it could have gone much better but I'm pretty sure no reply to say "thanks, hope you have a nice day too" equals no sex for me on Wednesday.

Thoughts?

 

[PalmaSailor]

Basically you gave her unearned compliments early on which is a display of lower value, and so she went cold. It’s a big subject and the fastest way for you to get your head round it is to go read Mystery Method.

Girls will only bang men they perceive as higher value than they are. So that’s how you have to be.

She was just being polite.

 

[Orgasmatron]

Basically you gave her unearned compliments early on which is a display of lower value, and so she went cold. It’s a big subject and the fastest way for you to get your head round it is to go read Mystery Method.

Girls will only bang men they perceive as higher value than they are. So that’s how you have to be.

She was just being polite.

I just thought she looked nice, so I told her.

How would she earn a compliment then?

 

[PalmaSailor]

I just thought she looked nice, so I told her.

How would she earn a compliment then?

No you didn’t.

You thought “wow I’d like to bang her perhaps if I’m nice to her I can get in her pants”

And she knew it.

As I said it’s a big subject and the place to start is reading Mystery Method.

Good luck!

 

[Orgasmatron]

I did think she looked nice. Nice enough to bang!

She seemed to quite enjoy the whole compliment thing

I think it's good that she knows I want in her pants, so she won't be surprised when I whip out my wang.

Anyway, we are going out on Friday and then we're gonna bang!

 

[Orgasmatron]

I'm still confused about the 'unearned compliment' thing.

How does she earn a compliment?

I thought she'd already done that by looking like a sexy bitch.

Please explain.

 

[Will_V]

I'm still confused about the 'unearned compliment' thing.

How does she earn a compliment?

I thought she'd already done that by looking like a sexy bitch.

Please explain.

Every sexy bitch knows shes a sexy bitch and every random guy is keen to tell her that.

You make yourself different by qualifying her. Making her prove something to you. It makes you the leader, gives you the frame, and makes her have to jump through your hoop.

Subconsciously, she has watched herself prove something to you, so she is invested and now does not want to fail.

I saw a very knowledgeable dating guru once say that the main reason girls don't respond to texts or flake on a date is because of lack of qualifying. I knew intuitively it was true, and I tried to stamp it into my brain but it's something I often forget to do, or don't do enough of. It feels risky, but it really does work.

 

[Orgasmatron]

thanks for the reply, but what am I meant to do?

say "hi, please qualify yourself to me, I'm getting my frame on"

or

"hi, you look pretty hot, wanna chat?"

How am I meant to start talking to her and let her know that I'm talking to her cuz I'm into her without offering a compliment first to get the ball rolling?

I suspect I'm making myself pretty different by going over to her whilst she's sitting in the park listening to music, asking her to take off her headphones and chatting her up. I doubt that's a normal wee half hour chillout the park after work for her.

Even if she does know she's super sexy, I doubt many guys are telling her that.
Most guys are scared to talk to girls anyway so they're not gonna do it are they?

 

[Will_V]

thanks for the reply, but what am I meant to do?

say "hi, please qualify yourself to me, I'm getting my frame on"

or

"hi, you look pretty hot, wanna chat?"

How am I meant to start talking to her and let her know that I'm talking to her cuz I'm into her without offering a compliment first to get the ball rolling?

I suspect I'm making myself pretty different by going over to her whilst she's sitting in the park listening to music, asking her to take off her headphones and chatting her up. I doubt that's a normal wee half hour chillout the park after work for her.

Even if she does know she's super sexy, I doubt many guys are telling her that.
Most guys are scared to talk to girls anyway so they're not gonna do it are they?

A compliment at the start is fine. I wouldn't give more than one.

Qualifying means asking her questions that get to who she really is, that cut through her 'persona' the image she presents to the world. And not accepting every answer enthusiastically. Basically the idea is "prove you're not just cute, but also a fun person".

For example something I learned to do is when a woman tells me her job, I ask "is that fun?" in a bit of a flippant way. And if she says yes, I ask "really, what do you like about it?". Sometimes she'll say "yeah it's pretty boring" and we'll both laugh.

I also ask what she likes to do when shes not working, if she's adventurous, if she's creative etc. She has to feel a little bit of pressure to say something you will like. And if she says something about netflix or sitting around at home, I smile and say something like "yeah everyone likes that, what do you do when you're feeling adventurous?" or something like that.

And when she says something you like, don't just go "that's cool!" but try to find something to say about it that shows you really understand why she likes it, something that paces her reality. Like if she says she likes hiking, you say "yeah it's a lot of fun just to get lost in the woods, surrounded by the trees with the sunlight filtering through, breathing in the smell of nature blah blah"

A lot of it, in my opinion, is about not 'accepting the first answer'. The 'first answer' that she gave you, even before you approached, is that she's cute - but that's never enough.

 

[Orgasmatron]

A compliment at the start is fine. I wouldn't give more than one.

Qualifying means asking her questions that get to who she really is, that cut through her 'persona' the image she presents to the world. And not accepting every answer enthusiastically. Basically the idea is "prove you're not just cute, but also a fun person".

For example something I learned to do is when a woman tells me her job, I ask "is that fun?" in a bit of a flippant way. And if she says yes, I ask "really, what do you like about it?". Sometimes she'll say "yeah it's pretty boring" and we'll both laugh.

I also ask what she likes to do when shes not working, if she's adventurous, if she's creative etc. She has to feel a little bit of pressure to say something you will like. And if she says something about netflix or sitting around at home, I smile and say something like "yeah everyone likes that, what do you do when you're feeling adventurous?" or something like that.

And when she says something you like, don't just go "that's cool!" but try to find something to say about it that shows you really understand why she likes it, something that paces her reality. Like if she says she likes hiking, you say "yeah it's a lot of fun just to get lost in the woods, surrounded by the trees with the sunlight filtering through, breathing in the smell of nature blah blah"

A lot of it, in my opinion, is about not 'accepting the first answer'. The 'first answer' that she gave you, even before you approached, is that she's cute - but that's never enough.

I dunno. I don't think I'm gonna be stingy with the compliments, they seem to go down quite well.

I see, give her a test. There you go love, B-, could do better if you applied yourself more.

All seems very adversarial to me. Think I'll just stick to keeping it fun.

Thanks!

 

[Orgasmatron]

No you didn’t.

You thought “wow I’d like to bang her perhaps if I’m nice to her I can get in her pants”

And she knew it.

As I said it’s a big subject and the place to start is reading Mystery Method.

Good luck!

I don't know about the Mystery Method man.

I can't see me going round being a jerk to chicks. negging them, doing magic tricks, and wearing a stupid hat.

Not my style.

 

[PalmaSailor]

I don't know about the Mystery Method man.

I can't see me going round being a jerk to chicks. negging them, doing magic tricks, and wearing a stupid hat.

Not my style.

You’ve just taken a binary extreme of what I’ve said and made a lot of assumptions.

Mystery did a load of work on understanding attraction and it’s all laid out in the book.

It’s up to you anyway.

 

[Will_V]

I dunno. I don't think I'm gonna be stingy with the compliments, they seem to go down quite well.

I see, give her a test. There you go love, B-, could do better if you applied yourself more.

All seems very adversarial to me. Think I'll just stick to keeping it fun.

Thanks!

Something I've found very useful to understand game and how it works from a woman's perspective is to put it in the context of a guy who comes up to invite me to a party.

For the sake of the argument, let's say I was quite suggestible (as most women are).
..

No qualification

Let's say a dude walks up, gives some kind of compliment about my walk/style/whatever, asks me how my day's going, what I'm doing, so on.

At this point, he's a complete stranger, and I don't really know what he wants, who he is, etc. But he's kind of cool, easygoing, and enthusiastic, so we have some kind of conversation. He keeps complimenting me on various things, and while it feels good to get compliments, I start to wonder why I'm getting them.

Then he says "hey man I love talking to you, and you have such a cool style! How about you come to a party I'm having?"

At this point, my first thought is "jeez this guy is really keen on me, really wants to have me around. Does he always go up to random people and ask them to join his party? Doesn't he know people already if he's cool? If he's so keen on me, some random stranger, is this some kind of bum party where I'm going to be the only cool person there?"

But he's friendly and seems like a nice guy, so I say "could be!". We exchange contact details and he walks off.

Two hours later, I've forgotten about it. I'm not sold whatsoever, and I have a lingering feeling that the party might be disappointing.

Qualification

The dude walks up, gives some kind of compliment about my walk/style/whatever, asks me how my day's going, what I'm doing, so on.

At this point, he's a complete stranger, and I don't really know what he wants, who he is, etc. But he's kind of cool, easygoing, so we have some kind of conversation.

Besides the first compliment, he doesn't compliment me at all, but seems to be curious about me in some way, asking me questions about myself that really make me think about the answers. I realize most people don't ask these kind of questions, they are not superficial ones but dig down into what kind of person I really am. I sense that he is some kind of social authority, that I am being evaluated in some way, and feel a bit of pressure to give good answers. I'm suddenly interested to know who he is.

Then he says "hey man it's been great talking, I gotta run. You know, I'm having a party this weekend, and I'd like to invite you, but I've got a question."

At this point I think "what kind of question will this be? Is this some kind of exclusive party with a specific set of requirements for attendees?"

He says "You have a great style, but I'd like to know, are you a cool guy?"

Maybe that's a bit of an awkward question, but if he's generally smooth, it's a question you'd take somewhat seriously. And after all, he seems like some kind of authority on it, having these parties where you have to be cool to get in!

Immediately I'm thinking: am I cool? What kind of 'cool' does he mean? I start trying to think of ways to prove that I'm cool, and I feel the pressure to qualify myself (regardless of whether I plan to go to the party or not).

Suddenly, he's a social authority of 'cool', I'm trying to prove that I'm cool too, and, subtly, the party becomes a symbol of the test of whether I'm really cool or not - making it far less likely I'm not going to go.

After I say whatever I say, he qualifies me by saying "yeah you know, I think you are cool, you've got some real style and an impressive walk, and I've enjoyed our conversation. I think you'd really fit in at my party. Want to come?"

Hell yeah!

...

<A few days later>

No qualification

So I wasn't sold on the party idea, the guy seemed desperate, but he was an ok guy. If it happened once though, it'll probably happen again with someone I'm more interested in hanging with. After all, I'm cool AF! I've already been told a million times.

If he texts me something with a whiff of neediness though, I'm not even going to bother to answer. You're not really cool until you start ignoring people, right?

And if I go, it's just going to be if I have nothing else to do, I'm not going to put much effort into my style, and if it's the slightest bit boring, I'm going to bounce.

If I go, I'm not really invested, after all I'm the one this guy really was desperate to get to the party. He has to prove why I should go or stay there for more than five minutes.

Qualification

I always wondered if I was cool, now is my chance to prove it! Someone gave me an opportunity given to but few, I had to prove that I was even worth inviting, and now I have to make it count.

I get my style on like never before. If the guy texts me anything, I think carefully before responding so I don't burst the bubble and say something a cool guy would never say.

When I go, I'm ready to prove that I'm cool, that I can kick it around with the coolest of the cool. And when I'm there, this social authority figure has merely to hint at what is the cool thing to do, and I'm on it. He has the frame, and I am always proving myself.
...

The question is, out of these two scenarios, which one is the one where I'm more likely to do something the guy wants, something that requires a lot of investment?

And you better believe that a woman giving her pussy requires a lot of investment.

That's not to say no qualification would never work, if you somehow happened to vibe really well. But for every time no qualification worked, qualification would work ten times.

That's the way I see things.

 

[Orgasmatron]

You’ve just taken a binary extreme of what I’ve said and made a lot of assumptions.

Mystery did a load of work on understanding attraction and it’s all laid out in the book.

It’s up to you anyway.

I'm sure he's a great guy.

But have you seen him? He looks like an idiot.

I can't take him seriously. It's probably the hat.

 

[Orgasmatron]

Something I've found very useful to understand game and how it works from a woman's perspective is to put it in the context of a guy who comes up to invite me to a party.

For the sake of the argument, let's say I was quite suggestible (as most women are).
..

No qualification

Let's say a dude walks up, gives some kind of compliment about my walk/style/whatever, asks me how my day's going, what I'm doing, so on.

At this point, he's a complete stranger, and I don't really know what he wants, who he is, etc. But he's kind of cool, easygoing, and enthusiastic, so we have some kind of conversation. He keeps complimenting me on various things, and while it feels good to get compliments, I start to wonder why I'm getting them.

Then he says "hey man I love talking to you, and you have such a cool style! How about you come to a party I'm having?"

At this point, my first thought is "jeez this guy is really keen on me, really wants to have me around. Does he always go up to random people and ask them to join his party? Doesn't he know people already if he's cool? If he's so keen on me, some random stranger, is this some kind of bum party where I'm going to be the only cool person there?"

But he's friendly and seems like a nice guy, so I say "could be!". We exchange contact details and he walks off.

Two hours later, I've forgotten about it. I'm not sold whatsoever, and I have a lingering feeling that the party might be disappointing.

Qualification

The dude walks up, gives some kind of compliment about my walk/style/whatever, asks me how my day's going, what I'm doing, so on.

At this point, he's a complete stranger, and I don't really know what he wants, who he is, etc. But he's kind of cool, easygoing, so we have some kind of conversation.

Besides the first compliment, he doesn't compliment me at all, but seems to be curious about me in some way, asking me questions about myself that really make me think about the answers. I realize most people don't ask these kind of questions, they are not superficial ones but dig down into what kind of person I really am. I sense that he is some kind of social authority, that I am being evaluated in some way, and feel a bit of pressure to give good answers. I'm suddenly interested to know who he is.

Then he says "hey man it's been great talking, I gotta run. You know, I'm having a party this weekend, and I'd like to invite you, but I've got a question."

At this point I think "what kind of question will this be? Is this some kind of exclusive party with a specific set of requirements for attendees?"

He says "You have a great style, but I'd like to know, are you a cool guy?"

Maybe that's a bit of an awkward question, but if he's generally smooth, it's a question you'd take somewhat seriously. And after all, he seems like some kind of authority on it, having these parties where you have to be cool to get in!

Immediately I'm thinking: am I cool? What kind of 'cool' does he mean? I start trying to think of ways to prove that I'm cool, and I feel the pressure to qualify myself (regardless of whether I plan to go to the party or not).

Suddenly, he's a social authority of 'cool', I'm trying to prove that I'm cool too, and, subtly, the party becomes a symbol of the test of whether I'm really cool or not - making it far less likely I'm not going to go.

After I say whatever I say, he qualifies me by saying "yeah you know, I think you are cool, you've got some real style and an impressive walk, and I've enjoyed our conversation. I think you'd really fit in at my party. Want to come?"

Hell yeah!

...

<A few days later>

No qualification

So I wasn't sold on the party idea, the guy seemed desperate, but he was an ok guy. If it happened once though, it'll probably happen again with someone I'm more interested in hanging with. After all, I'm cool AF! I've already been told a million times.

If he texts me something with a whiff of neediness though, I'm not even going to bother to answer. You're not really cool until you start ignoring people, right?

And if I go, it's just going to be if I have nothing else to do, I'm not going to put much effort into my style, and if it's the slightest bit boring, I'm going to bounce.

If I go, I'm not really invested, after all I'm the one this guy really was desperate to get to the party. He has to prove why I should go or stay there for more than five minutes.

Qualification

I always wondered if I was cool, now is my chance to prove it! Someone gave me an opportunity given to but few, I had to prove that I was even worth inviting, and now I have to make it count.

I get my style on like never before. If the guy texts me anything, I think carefully before responding so I don't burst the bubble and say something a cool guy would never say.

When I go, I'm ready to prove that I'm cool, that I can kick it around with the coolest of the cool. And when I'm there, this social authority figure has merely to hint at what is the cool thing to do, and I'm on it. He has the frame, and I am always proving myself.
...

The question is, out of these two scenarios, which one is the one where I'm more likely to do something the guy wants, something that requires a lot of investment?

And you better believe that a woman giving her pussy requires a lot of investment.

That's not to say no qualification would never work, if you somehow happened to vibe really well. But for every time no qualification worked, qualification would work ten times.

That's the way I see things.

I'm not going to throw a party. I've not got the room. And there's all the tidying up to do afterwards.

What's a compliment you give her on her walk?

"you look steady on your feet!"

Maybe. Could try that, see how it goes.

I could throw a party. Invite her along. Tell her they'll be a clown there. At least that's not a lie.

This chick in your example's overthinking it a bit though.

I reckon she'd just think "well, he seems alright. I'll give him a go, nothing to lose. Might meet someone at this party"

Anyway, thanks!

 

[PalmaSailor]

I'm sure he's a great guy.

But have you seen him? He looks like an idiot.

I can't take him seriously. It's probably the hat.

If you don’t want to take him seriously then don’t.

But when you flunk it time after time because you haven’t done the work and you’re making obvious mistakes that anyone with the slightest knowledge of game wouldn’t make, I’m not going to bother responding.

 

[Fuck This]

Sometimes when you meet women you need to prove you are a fun date right off the bat to get them to go out with you again.
The Instadate accomplishes that and in the best case scenario can lead to a carnal event.

A lot of times that's what happens when you meet someone at a bar or a party. You create the rapport and attraction that makes them want to see you again. If you are indirect approaching out in public, you can always say "I was about to grab lunch/a coffee/ a drink. You should join me."

If she hooks, then on to the next step, or have a time constraint and set up a date for later the same week.

Don't worry, I've been stood up before. I saw a cute retail counter girl in college and invited her to be my date for a fraternity function. She accepted and we exchanged numbers. She called me a day later and cancelled...Oh well. got another date in about 45 minutes. It ended up being my future wife/future exwife's best friend from high school...

 

[Orgasmatron]

If you don’t want to take him seriously then don’t.

But when you flunk it time after time because you haven’t done the work and you’re making obvious mistakes that anyone with the slightest knowledge of game wouldn’t make, I’m not going to bother responding.

Maybe you're right.

I'll go and buy a hat.

Cheers

Sometimes when you meet women you need to prove you are a fun date right off the bat to get them to go out with you again.
The Instadate accomplishes that and in the best case scenario can lead to a carnal event.

A lot of times that's what happens when you meet someone at a bar or a party. You create the rapport and attraction that makes them want to see you again. If you are indirect approaching out in public, you can always say "I was about to grab lunch/a coffee/ a drink. You should join me."

If she hooks, then on to the next step, or have a time constraint and set up a date for later the same week.

Don't worry, I've been stood up before. I saw a cute retail counter girl in college and invited her to be my date for a fraternity function. She accepted and we exchanged numbers. She called me a day later and cancelled...Oh well. got another date in about 45 minutes. It ended up being my future wife/future exwife's best friend from high school...

Well, that scuppers my 'be boring' tactic then, doesn't it?

I'm all about carnal events so I'll try to be fun.

I'm glad there's a process I can follow and some rules to adhere to. I'll bring a notebook and tick them off as they happen.

I'm not surprised to be honest. There you go, That's the spirit. Plenty more fish in the sea.

 

[PalmaSailor]

You came In here with a problem which is you couldn’t get it together with this girl.

People are stepping in to try to help and you’re being facetious.

@Fuck This is trying to help and so was I.

For the gallery I’ll explain the hat. The hat is peacocking, is serves a purpose, it’s done for a reason. You don’t need to do a hat, it could be something else like red shoe laces. The purpose is to give a woman’s subconscious something to comment. It allows her to make an approach if she likes you but can’t think of what to say. It’s subconscious for her but she’ll laugh at the hat, or say “nice hat” etc. It also separates you from chumps with no imagination.

You can be as sarcastic and snotty as you want but it won’t get you laid. Meanwhile others in here have been getting laid more or less on demand for decades.

 

[Orgasmatron]

You came In here with a problem which is you couldn’t get it together with this girl.

People are stepping in to try to help and you’re being facetious.

@Fuck This is trying to help and so was I.

For the gallery I’ll explain the hat. The hat is peacocking, is serves a purpose, it’s done for a reason. You don’t need to do a hat, it could be something else like red shoe laces. The purpose is to give a woman’s subconscious something to comment. It allows her to make an approach if she likes you but can’t think of what to say. It’s subconscious for her but she’ll laugh at the hat, or say “nice hat” etc. It also separates you from chumps with no imagination.

You can be as sarcastic and snotty as you want but it won’t get you laid. Meanwhile others in here have been getting laid more or less on demand for decades.

Well, looks like we are getting it together. Just had to reschedule. And then reschedule again (Busy work schedule, demanding job. I know. I'm a chump. It'll be something else next week)

I know, I'm just bored and very frustrated. I do appreciate people taking the time to answer and help me out.

I just don't know who any of you guys are, and people on the internet generally give useless advice, and have no idea what they are talking about.

I know what the hat's all about.

He does look like an idiot though. You gotta admit that.

There's lot of rules aren't there. It's all very technical.

I disagree with this whole 'only one compliment thing'. I don't think that's how conversations work with people. You look nice, that's a nice dress, your hair looks good. What's wrong with that?

Oh, he's given me 3 compliments, he must like me, well that's it I'm off, I'm not going to sleep with some guy that likes me.

I thought it was just going up and talking to girls, say hello. get to know them a bit, make em laugh, give em a smile, give em a cheeky grin. Bit of eye contact, suggestive flirting. Then back to mine so they can be mildly disappointed. Just talking to people isn't it?

I've got to do a phd in psychology now and have a checklist. (and stupid hat, lol)

I don't have an issue with talking to people and holding a conversation. I'm not some kid in high school who's scared of his own shadow. I was out talking to people last night. I think I was better at it than a lot of of them were. It was fine.

Guys on here. Are they really getting laid as often as they claim?
Most guys just talk a bit game, don't they?

If I was getting any I wouldn't be on here writing doling out advice. I'd be too busy banging broads to bother.

Anyway, good luck to you all