Shes told her boyfriend about future date and hes not happy

[14sherif]

Shes told her boyfriend about future date and hes not happy and therefore she cant come
Brothers.. this is a first for me.. whats a man to do..

I dont have time with this girl as ill be leaving thee country im at in a weeks time..
Im gonna look through Chases boyfriends articles again but im stumped..

I also remember her telling me she wasnt happy in her relationship.. could be he found a text or something and she has no choice. hmm

There is a problem, ive told my boyfriend about our meeting and he wasnt very happy about that. Therefore i have to excuse me and refuse this meeting

 

[Franky]

I am completely newbie here but i'd say stay away from this drama queen. Your opportunity cost is very high if you keep your mind to this chick instead of going out and meet more girls.

 

[spicynoodle]

I would next her as I can't see any possible benefits of this relationship outweighing the possible negatives; boyfriend retaliation, the girl feeling intensely guilty etc. It's too much hassle.

 

[Mr. oblivious]

Obviously you have not made your intentions clear to this girl cause if she is telling her boyfriend about a date she going to have with a guy she probably wants you for her friend zone.


Just move on was not going to work out anyways

 

[14sherif]

Al right some update

She calls me later on in the at 2am asking me to come over.. from that ill say i made my intentions clear
I ask if were going to be alone and she says shell make sure of it I say alright text me your address

I go prepping realize she hasnt sent me the address.. i call.. her boyfriend answers.. telling me about how theyre having problems in their relationship and so on.. i dont want to cause a deal so I tell him you do what you go to do good night.

Now she calls me this morning telling me how shes sorry and telling me how i should shout at her telling her what she did wrong im just like cool.. so how will you make it up to me?

I dont have internet connection at home btw so before she called me that night she actually sent me a message on fb confirming the date

and just to hit home the idea that i made my intentions clear to this girl: I chatted her up a month ago and she made it clear she had a boyfriend and didnt want anything to happen to which i just left her to it.. she came to ME a few days with a note with her name and no. on it with the boyfriend mere meters away..

Im leaving this country that im living in a weeks time so there are no consequences if i fuck this girl

 

[14sherif]

So heres what I need advice on:

When she called me this morning I gave a her a variation of the 'hard push' to get her to meet me - she says she needs to think about whats happening with her boyfriend and me and blah blah.. now i would say the ball is in her court.. i feel like its a delicate situation and i dont want to chase too much.. scaring her.. however is there anything I can do / say in the next 7 days before i leave to push her to come with me