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Hey guys, finally up with a lay report after a HUGE dry spell! 
So as the title says, this lay was pretty easy. I've learned some social circle stuff that allows me to come into a new circle and pick out ones I want.
If you're the "new guy" to a social circle, chances are girls in that circle are gonna' be interested, especially if you have your fundamentals even halfway handled. It's that foreign exchange student kind of attraction. I also like it because I don't have to get too deep into the "drama" of a social circle to be able to do this. Key to making this work however is making a really good first impression, not pissing anyone off that might be opposed to a new male in the circle, and screening for attraction. Anyways onto this report.
Met this girl in the back of a coffee shop where people hang out. It's a pretty cool place, I've been plenty of times before but never engaged the back group. I had one of my good friends with me, and combined with have some good synergy when it comes to social situations. He's pretty "alpha" - I guess you'd call it - so he usually takes point and I add on and throw in some good social game here and there. I have a chill personality, I'm ambiverted so I can be quiet and loud, depending on the situation, but I tend to be quiter in new places, just saying things that I know will click here and there.
The girl in question I notice is staring at me. I realized my peripheral vision has gone up quite a bit, and now there's a feeling I can't really describe over text, but it's kind of like spidey sense when I can tell a girl is looking in my direction, even if I'm not aware of them. I can tell she's interested, and I basically keep doing what I'm doing. Another girl arrives and I game her pretty hard. Grab her number but nothing came of it. Eventually my friend and I leave, but I keep note of the girl staring at me in the back of my head.
Come back another day, the girl is there. another key to this is logistics. I'm in the right place at the right time when most of this goes down. I talk to her a bit, being slightly flirty but mostly just using eye contact and a few words to communicate with her, not going over the top with anything I'm doing. She says she's hungry and I say I am too, and we go and grab food.
We get food, and after we finish we're sitting in her car for quite a while, just sharing stories and videos of high school. She stares at me and looks at my lips, but I didn't want to make a move that day because 1) my mom was home, 2) I didn't know who was at her house 3) I didn't have condoms. What I did want to do was delay until my mom went out of town, which was in a couple weeks. She takes me home and I say goodnight for now.
I see her again at the same place. Just some interesting things I noted: we went to get food and started talking about how some of the guys in the group are sexist, saying they threw pens down her shirt and she bitched them out. Later that day I think I wanted to test something out, so she made a joke at me and I threw a pencil at her tits. She just laughed at it. Earlier in the group we were talking about dating dynamics, texting and stuff (I love talking about this stuff - naturally - and I like to hear guy opinions and the bullshit that comes out of girls' mouths when this stuff comes out). She of course talks about ideal dates, but surprises me when she said she doesn't really expect a guy to pay sometimes. This showed me how much you should know when and when not to pay attention to what a girl is saying.
A few weeks later, I end up seeing her again. We hung out all that day, went to a festival in the city and went to get food later that night. The plan was to hang out with her another friend and I. I tell her to park at a park until we can get ahold of him. Here's when I make out with her. We're kissing for a bit, then my friend calls. We head over to his house, and chill, watch some netflix all three of us and smoke a bit. His parent are also out of town. He calls over his girlfriend and we chill for a bit, then he and his girl head to his room, leaving us alone in the living room. We get some blankets and start fooling around. She's on her period, which wouldn't have been an issue, but I didn't want to make a mess on his floor or anything. We sleep over and then leave in the morning.
I try and avoid her for a bit because it's starting to seem too boyfriendy for my tastes. I avoid texting her or anything. She eventually texts me Thursday asking if I want to hang out. I know this is the chance because my mom is out of town. I agree, and we hang at a park for a bit. I've been wanting to fuck outside for a while so I try there, she says,"not at the park", so I take her back home to "see my dog". Probably didn't need any excuse at this point, but just to be sure haha.
We head to mine and see my dog, I show her some of my photography. We start making out and clothes come off no LMR. Put a condom on and of course I can't get it up when I try to go in. Eventually do by switching a few positions, and fuck her for a bit. Made her come a few times, which I'm proud of as this is my third lay haha. I have to get up super early, at 6:00 and it's 2:30 at this point. She stays over and offers to wake me up, which I appreciate because I sleep dead. She then drives me to work, which was awesome, and I proceed to have a horrible day at work haha.
Overall it was a fun time, and it's good to know my social intuition is getting better after almost a whole 2016 with no good experience! Sorry about the messiness of this report, was more of a brain dump and analysis for myself honestly. Let me know if you guys got anything out of it or if you've gone through anything similar!
Jake.
So as the title says, this lay was pretty easy. I've learned some social circle stuff that allows me to come into a new circle and pick out ones I want.
If you're the "new guy" to a social circle, chances are girls in that circle are gonna' be interested, especially if you have your fundamentals even halfway handled. It's that foreign exchange student kind of attraction. I also like it because I don't have to get too deep into the "drama" of a social circle to be able to do this. Key to making this work however is making a really good first impression, not pissing anyone off that might be opposed to a new male in the circle, and screening for attraction. Anyways onto this report.
Met this girl in the back of a coffee shop where people hang out. It's a pretty cool place, I've been plenty of times before but never engaged the back group. I had one of my good friends with me, and combined with have some good synergy when it comes to social situations. He's pretty "alpha" - I guess you'd call it - so he usually takes point and I add on and throw in some good social game here and there. I have a chill personality, I'm ambiverted so I can be quiet and loud, depending on the situation, but I tend to be quiter in new places, just saying things that I know will click here and there.
The girl in question I notice is staring at me. I realized my peripheral vision has gone up quite a bit, and now there's a feeling I can't really describe over text, but it's kind of like spidey sense when I can tell a girl is looking in my direction, even if I'm not aware of them. I can tell she's interested, and I basically keep doing what I'm doing. Another girl arrives and I game her pretty hard. Grab her number but nothing came of it. Eventually my friend and I leave, but I keep note of the girl staring at me in the back of my head.
Come back another day, the girl is there. another key to this is logistics. I'm in the right place at the right time when most of this goes down. I talk to her a bit, being slightly flirty but mostly just using eye contact and a few words to communicate with her, not going over the top with anything I'm doing. She says she's hungry and I say I am too, and we go and grab food.
We get food, and after we finish we're sitting in her car for quite a while, just sharing stories and videos of high school. She stares at me and looks at my lips, but I didn't want to make a move that day because 1) my mom was home, 2) I didn't know who was at her house 3) I didn't have condoms. What I did want to do was delay until my mom went out of town, which was in a couple weeks. She takes me home and I say goodnight for now.
I see her again at the same place. Just some interesting things I noted: we went to get food and started talking about how some of the guys in the group are sexist, saying they threw pens down her shirt and she bitched them out. Later that day I think I wanted to test something out, so she made a joke at me and I threw a pencil at her tits. She just laughed at it. Earlier in the group we were talking about dating dynamics, texting and stuff (I love talking about this stuff - naturally - and I like to hear guy opinions and the bullshit that comes out of girls' mouths when this stuff comes out). She of course talks about ideal dates, but surprises me when she said she doesn't really expect a guy to pay sometimes. This showed me how much you should know when and when not to pay attention to what a girl is saying.
A few weeks later, I end up seeing her again. We hung out all that day, went to a festival in the city and went to get food later that night. The plan was to hang out with her another friend and I. I tell her to park at a park until we can get ahold of him. Here's when I make out with her. We're kissing for a bit, then my friend calls. We head over to his house, and chill, watch some netflix all three of us and smoke a bit. His parent are also out of town. He calls over his girlfriend and we chill for a bit, then he and his girl head to his room, leaving us alone in the living room. We get some blankets and start fooling around. She's on her period, which wouldn't have been an issue, but I didn't want to make a mess on his floor or anything. We sleep over and then leave in the morning.
I try and avoid her for a bit because it's starting to seem too boyfriendy for my tastes. I avoid texting her or anything. She eventually texts me Thursday asking if I want to hang out. I know this is the chance because my mom is out of town. I agree, and we hang at a park for a bit. I've been wanting to fuck outside for a while so I try there, she says,"not at the park", so I take her back home to "see my dog". Probably didn't need any excuse at this point, but just to be sure haha.
We head to mine and see my dog, I show her some of my photography. We start making out and clothes come off no LMR. Put a condom on and of course I can't get it up when I try to go in. Eventually do by switching a few positions, and fuck her for a bit. Made her come a few times, which I'm proud of as this is my third lay haha. I have to get up super early, at 6:00 and it's 2:30 at this point. She stays over and offers to wake me up, which I appreciate because I sleep dead. She then drives me to work, which was awesome, and I proceed to have a horrible day at work haha.
Overall it was a fun time, and it's good to know my social intuition is getting better after almost a whole 2016 with no good experience! Sorry about the messiness of this report, was more of a brain dump and analysis for myself honestly. Let me know if you guys got anything out of it or if you've gone through anything similar!
Jake.
