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Hi Guys,
I was noting a comment by Chase that he try to avoid women who are married. He then noted that article which i highly recommend if you want to keep your "sane". "Sane" here means doing what is not acceptable but do not dive into the very terrible. Haha!
I was abit angry at the response because i was like "Hey Chase, common you not that saint". It is not so much to ruin his parade. And i email about this recently on young men vs married men. Then it struck me that i hate people who are moral crusaders, those nice guys. I found myself in this similar position. I hated who i was And i was like omg, i tried to push it under the rug but i force the feeling of embarassment on me.
I learn that I have become that. I hated who i was, which was that nice guy who claims he won't do this and that.. but this is more complex because i don't hate who i was totally but rather i want people to be free as well and growing up, i felt suppressed.
The thing is, i am in a better position. and most people do not. Can say another reason why i don't totally dismiss the 'being indian post'. I try to keep an open mind.
Zac
I was noting a comment by Chase that he try to avoid women who are married. He then noted that article which i highly recommend if you want to keep your "sane". "Sane" here means doing what is not acceptable but do not dive into the very terrible. Haha!
I was abit angry at the response because i was like "Hey Chase, common you not that saint". It is not so much to ruin his parade. And i email about this recently on young men vs married men. Then it struck me that i hate people who are moral crusaders, those nice guys. I found myself in this similar position. I hated who i was And i was like omg, i tried to push it under the rug but i force the feeling of embarassment on me.
I learn that I have become that. I hated who i was, which was that nice guy who claims he won't do this and that.. but this is more complex because i don't hate who i was totally but rather i want people to be free as well and growing up, i felt suppressed.
The thing is, i am in a better position. and most people do not. Can say another reason why i don't totally dismiss the 'being indian post'. I try to keep an open mind.
Zac
