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Dudes a really need ya help with this!
A pulled a girl from ma martial arts class an found out she's a virgin which ruined ma seduction. A had bad logistics but that totally ruined me but a set up a date, got her number an continued to have a good night. She cancelled the date the next day. A think this is because she thinks it'll lead to sex so she's nervous?
I felt it was an objection not a rejection so a persisted yah? A thought it would show am confident, strong, that a was really interested an that am not easily put off. Dunno if a would have came across as chasing an not accepting a no? A was reading on persisting, addressing her objections an beating her resistance to get round this with ma replies yah?
A went an threw her objection back she said it would be a bad idea an she can't, a said a agree going out an having a good time would be dreadful yah? She replied saying she didn't say that she just said she can't. A got a response by putting words in her mouth so a still think she's interested yah?
With her being a virgin am thinking she wants reassurance an a bit of chasing so it feels romantic? Typically at this point a wouldn't persist with her games an jus go cold an non reactive to her. As she's a virgin a dunno if a need to continue being warm to build rapport? Should a just text normal to keep warm? Or just not respond an be cold?
A thought a could turn it around in person using sexual tension being warm an forcing her to make a decision but a dunno if being cold would be more effective? A really need help dudes am stuck in ma own head with this one!!
A pulled a girl from ma martial arts class an found out she's a virgin which ruined ma seduction. A had bad logistics but that totally ruined me but a set up a date, got her number an continued to have a good night. She cancelled the date the next day. A think this is because she thinks it'll lead to sex so she's nervous?
I felt it was an objection not a rejection so a persisted yah? A thought it would show am confident, strong, that a was really interested an that am not easily put off. Dunno if a would have came across as chasing an not accepting a no? A was reading on persisting, addressing her objections an beating her resistance to get round this with ma replies yah?
A went an threw her objection back she said it would be a bad idea an she can't, a said a agree going out an having a good time would be dreadful yah? She replied saying she didn't say that she just said she can't. A got a response by putting words in her mouth so a still think she's interested yah?
With her being a virgin am thinking she wants reassurance an a bit of chasing so it feels romantic? Typically at this point a wouldn't persist with her games an jus go cold an non reactive to her. As she's a virgin a dunno if a need to continue being warm to build rapport? Should a just text normal to keep warm? Or just not respond an be cold?
A thought a could turn it around in person using sexual tension being warm an forcing her to make a decision but a dunno if being cold would be more effective? A really need help dudes am stuck in ma own head with this one!!
