Gents,
I have an easier time speaking to girls and getting their numbers now than I have ever been. Setting up dates is easy to do too. However, the campus is kinda small. I was wondering what the consequences of me going on dates with multiple women will be. Since I know that people will take notice of that eventually (sooner rather than later) and I also know that it will be harder to contain the fact as I date more and more women. Would this end up giving me the sleezy pickup artist reputation as a result of all of my one on one dates? And if it does...would it be a bad thing? I usually tell the girls I see that relationships aren't really my thing anyway. So would this reputation actually help me? Or would it murder my attainability?
I'm having low success rates with asking girls to come over to my place privately and it isn't exactly usable under circumstances where the girl only wants to (temporarily) be friends. Going out on actual dates with them in real life whether I buy stuff or don't (usually I don't as it's just as easy to set the theme of a "no buying" date instead of a "buy it all" date) seems like the best option but I'd like to know how this would affect my reputation so I can plan or brace for it.
I have an easier time speaking to girls and getting their numbers now than I have ever been. Setting up dates is easy to do too. However, the campus is kinda small. I was wondering what the consequences of me going on dates with multiple women will be. Since I know that people will take notice of that eventually (sooner rather than later) and I also know that it will be harder to contain the fact as I date more and more women. Would this end up giving me the sleezy pickup artist reputation as a result of all of my one on one dates? And if it does...would it be a bad thing? I usually tell the girls I see that relationships aren't really my thing anyway. So would this reputation actually help me? Or would it murder my attainability?
I'm having low success rates with asking girls to come over to my place privately and it isn't exactly usable under circumstances where the girl only wants to (temporarily) be friends. Going out on actual dates with them in real life whether I buy stuff or don't (usually I don't as it's just as easy to set the theme of a "no buying" date instead of a "buy it all" date) seems like the best option but I'd like to know how this would affect my reputation so I can plan or brace for it.