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Should I allow my promiscuity to be seen?

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Gents,

I have an easier time speaking to girls and getting their numbers now than I have ever been. Setting up dates is easy to do too. However, the campus is kinda small. I was wondering what the consequences of me going on dates with multiple women will be. Since​ I know that people will take notice of that eventually (sooner rather than later) and I also know that it will be harder to contain the fact as I date more and more women. Would this end up giving me the sleezy pickup artist reputation as a result of all of my one on one dates? And if it does...would it be a bad thing? I usually tell the girls I see that relationships aren't really my thing anyway. So would this reputation actually help me? Or would it murder my attainability?

I'm having low success rates with asking girls to come over to my place privately and it isn't exactly usable under circumstances where the girl only wants to (temporarily) be friends. Going out on actual dates with them in real life whether I buy stuff or don't (usually I don't as it's just as easy to set the theme of a "no buying" date instead of a "buy it all" date) seems like the best option but I'd like to know how this would affect my reputation so I can plan or brace for it.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

Hue

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
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Sep 21, 2016
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Ash,

Dates at your house is the best method for high date count low reputation effect, but no matter how discreet you are a small school can eventually fuck you over with that. My buddy fucked like 4 chicks at his 2500 person school, then brought his girlfriend to visit, and now he's seen as a sleazeball with the girls in the greek life there (but this all intensifies since it's a microcosm within a microcosm).

If you're going to be courting girls out, don't take them to the same places. I made this mistake by taking like 7 chicks to my workplace and losing some respect among my bosses. There's also a coffee shop that throws these knowing eyes at me everytime I bring a new girl there, I think I've brought like 12~ over there.

People in restaurant / bars / social establishments get pretty good with faces, so tread carefully my man.

Edit: That said, there's also the chance it helps you with preselection, so long as you're getting it in. Girls will wonder why you're so damn convincing.
Hector also has a SoundCloud interview on social circle college game, which is effectively the topic of discussion since reputation demands some kind of social bubble. Check that out.

Hueman
 
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