Hi,
Quick question: so there's this girl I met 4 months ago while I was in Europe. We spent four wonderful weeks together, which included a lot of lovemaking, visiting great places, and so on. We really had a great connection. Then came the time for me to leave but since she had plans to come to the US for work, we decided to enter a long distance relationship in the meantime. After my return, she kept texting me every day or so and we would talk on the phone a few times a week. And then, about a month ago, she suddenly stopped doing all that, out of the blue. I asked her if anything was wrong and it took several messages before she finally said she had a lot of work and under a lot of stress, all of which I believe. However I consider it a half assed excuse when someone has their phone with them all the time and can't make the time to type a few lines. So far it's been three weeks since we've had a meaningful conversation. I've texted her 2 or 3 times, asking how her day was going, which went unanswered. I figured it could be two things: either she's testing me (she WAS investing more in the relationship than me up to that point) or she's lost interest, which would be a bit surprising given the really strong connection we had. Anyway I'm not putting up with it much longer, so apart from the obvious (meet new girls), what advice can you give me? How would you handle the situation and, if it's the only solution, how would you end the relationship?
Quick question: so there's this girl I met 4 months ago while I was in Europe. We spent four wonderful weeks together, which included a lot of lovemaking, visiting great places, and so on. We really had a great connection. Then came the time for me to leave but since she had plans to come to the US for work, we decided to enter a long distance relationship in the meantime. After my return, she kept texting me every day or so and we would talk on the phone a few times a week. And then, about a month ago, she suddenly stopped doing all that, out of the blue. I asked her if anything was wrong and it took several messages before she finally said she had a lot of work and under a lot of stress, all of which I believe. However I consider it a half assed excuse when someone has their phone with them all the time and can't make the time to type a few lines. So far it's been three weeks since we've had a meaningful conversation. I've texted her 2 or 3 times, asking how her day was going, which went unanswered. I figured it could be two things: either she's testing me (she WAS investing more in the relationship than me up to that point) or she's lost interest, which would be a bit surprising given the really strong connection we had. Anyway I'm not putting up with it much longer, so apart from the obvious (meet new girls), what advice can you give me? How would you handle the situation and, if it's the only solution, how would you end the relationship?
