hey friends,
i just read colts recent article, " the 7 qualities girls look for in men", and in the section where he stated that women dont like men who have no friends. under that point he went into saying that as a girl begins to date you she becomes increasingly interested to know about your social status. and if she realizes that you have no friends, then her alarm bells are raised to wonder if something is wrong with you!
for me, making friends was always a struggle and if i had a few friends, if any thing bad should happen between me and a friend, then id be the first to get kicked out of my group of friends. im always the 1 in the group who might get kicked out and most of my friends were never really close to me and would tease me in front of girls. the problem is that girls dont want guys who dont have friends/ people who treat them bad that are kind of friends. other than that, you have to start somewhere i know everyone might say spend time with people who WANT you around but this isnt easy for me. most people already have friends and im tired of trying to talk to people first but they still treat me off and give friendly talk then turn back to their friends. any friends on here got any advice as to what i should focus on first?
i am a 17 year old high schooler, good looks and fashion, weak connections with people, always talking to people before they talk to me, but i still have a lot of girls that stare at me (maybe even like me, but as soon as i start talking to them, they lose interest because i cant hold a good conversation and my vibe is off. any suggestions please! should i focus on just making friends in general first or getting girls?
thanks
i just read colts recent article, " the 7 qualities girls look for in men", and in the section where he stated that women dont like men who have no friends. under that point he went into saying that as a girl begins to date you she becomes increasingly interested to know about your social status. and if she realizes that you have no friends, then her alarm bells are raised to wonder if something is wrong with you!
for me, making friends was always a struggle and if i had a few friends, if any thing bad should happen between me and a friend, then id be the first to get kicked out of my group of friends. im always the 1 in the group who might get kicked out and most of my friends were never really close to me and would tease me in front of girls. the problem is that girls dont want guys who dont have friends/ people who treat them bad that are kind of friends. other than that, you have to start somewhere i know everyone might say spend time with people who WANT you around but this isnt easy for me. most people already have friends and im tired of trying to talk to people first but they still treat me off and give friendly talk then turn back to their friends. any friends on here got any advice as to what i should focus on first?
i am a 17 year old high schooler, good looks and fashion, weak connections with people, always talking to people before they talk to me, but i still have a lot of girls that stare at me (maybe even like me, but as soon as i start talking to them, they lose interest because i cant hold a good conversation and my vibe is off. any suggestions please! should i focus on just making friends in general first or getting girls?
thanks
