Should I keep in contact with girl or not?

[killerman]

So I met this really hot girl yesterday through cold approach. Had a good conversation. Sexual interest was there. I said she's gorgeous, she said I'm gorgeous. Thing is she travels a lot and is from another country so I'm not sure when she'll be back in the country again. Should I tell her to let me know when she'll be back in my country and then stop messaging her until she lets me know when she's back or should I keep in touch, keep messaging? If I should keep messaging, how often? Once every month? Once every 6 months? Should I only message when I'm doing something cool like "hey just at the aeroport on my way to X country, would be cool to meet up if you're around", or "hey, going on tour with my band across europe for 2 months, would be cool if you could come to one of our gigs', or "hey, I've just released my new album, would be cool if you could listen to it, tell me what you think". What's the best strategy for this?

 

[orkie123]

One of my friends is (IMO) really good at this:

-Quality over quantity. Only text when there is something that genuinely reminded you of her - inside jokes, visiting her fav restaurant, seeing a road name with her name in it, visiting her country etc. If that happens once a week or once a year, that's how often you text

- Leave her wanting more. Whenever you have a good probe, spike up the temperature quickly and then go aloof. I.e. once you start a new texting thread, match her reply rate, but then when at a peak ( especially if nothing "high quality" left to say), you stop replying.

- Lead her to mention meeting up herself. E.g. instead of saying "I'm going to your country, wanna meet up" say "Hey, I'm coming to X country in July, what are the must things to do?" gauge her response and comment on the most exciting thing that you could do together. See if she makes any direct/indirect invitation to meet up. If not, you can force a soft close but it's always easier if she suggests catching up/doing something together.