I want to move to downtown, that's where I like to set up the date with girls on, there are more options of venues and activities. I'm currently living a little bit out of downtown in the suburbs. The apartment is acceptable so the rental and I've been living here for almost 5 years.
But the problem I've found is very hard to pull girls home from a date that takes place downtown(at least 30 minutes away by bus, by subway there is even a 10 min walk off the train, and neither is ideal I suppose). And my apartment is on the fifth floor in a building that doesn't have an elevator.
One girl at the end of date I could feel we both wanted to spend the rest of the night together, but too bad she had roommates so I suggested we should go to the hotel right beside where we stood. She didn' like the idea at all. She seemed to have suggested we should go over to my place, but it was an hour's ride away and I didn't feel like doing it. Gave it up after several attempts that failed.
Another girl I asked her over a new open cafe near my place, she agreed but doubled back because her taxi got hold up in the heavy traffic, we changed the venue to a cafe near her house and the date went well but it turned out she also had roommates. Bummer! Same story different day. Felt really frustrated.
Now I see why logistics is so important. So I decided to move downtown.
But things are more complicated than I thought, I've just looked over some apartments, they are a lot more expensive than I can afford with my salary. So I feel maybe I should change my job to make more money first, my contract with my company happens to be coming to an end, I don't want to renew it and so does the boss it appears. With this thinking going on in my head I can't get myself excited about making approaches or setting up dates.And then I feel this is lame cause I might meet girls that live alone, but I just can't work myself up to it while I'm juggling things. Now I don't know how to think about it. The more I think the more I need to handle.
I always find myself stuck in such a delicate situation where lots of elements get involved and tangled up like a knot. That's one of the reasons I don't usually share my problems with people cause I feel no one can help me. But I think I really need some advice.
But the problem I've found is very hard to pull girls home from a date that takes place downtown(at least 30 minutes away by bus, by subway there is even a 10 min walk off the train, and neither is ideal I suppose). And my apartment is on the fifth floor in a building that doesn't have an elevator.
One girl at the end of date I could feel we both wanted to spend the rest of the night together, but too bad she had roommates so I suggested we should go to the hotel right beside where we stood. She didn' like the idea at all. She seemed to have suggested we should go over to my place, but it was an hour's ride away and I didn't feel like doing it. Gave it up after several attempts that failed.
Another girl I asked her over a new open cafe near my place, she agreed but doubled back because her taxi got hold up in the heavy traffic, we changed the venue to a cafe near her house and the date went well but it turned out she also had roommates. Bummer! Same story different day. Felt really frustrated.
Now I see why logistics is so important. So I decided to move downtown.
But things are more complicated than I thought, I've just looked over some apartments, they are a lot more expensive than I can afford with my salary. So I feel maybe I should change my job to make more money first, my contract with my company happens to be coming to an end, I don't want to renew it and so does the boss it appears. With this thinking going on in my head I can't get myself excited about making approaches or setting up dates.And then I feel this is lame cause I might meet girls that live alone, but I just can't work myself up to it while I'm juggling things. Now I don't know how to think about it. The more I think the more I need to handle.
I always find myself stuck in such a delicate situation where lots of elements get involved and tangled up like a knot. That's one of the reasons I don't usually share my problems with people cause I feel no one can help me. But I think I really need some advice.
