Should I seduce girls with boyfriends?

[kristian]

Ive been on this journey for more than half a year now. Seeing steady improvements. A couple of daygame lays lately and easier dates.

But statistically, a lot of the girls have boyfriends. I believe about 40 percent of women I am talking to legitimately are in a ltr. When they say this, I back off, even when I am seeing that they are interested. I dont know why, but a voice inside is saying "I dont have the skill yet", and that I should try to sleep with single girls.

Im I missing a lot of opportunities by not moving forward with these girls? I am more about getting reference points, but dont know If you need more advanced skills to pull this off. (I am starting to become intermediate now).

What are your experiences with girls in relationships? Are they as easy as single women? And of not, what kind of challenges do I need to be ready for?

I am mostly looking for short lived flings and ONS. Nothing serious.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Answer your own question.

Would you seduce a girl with a boyfriend?

 

[Rusty]

I don't believe in karma.

But I believe that if you do bad things, that the natural consequences of your actions will catch up to you eventually. Especially if you continue on a pattern of behavior that involves high risk and negative consequences, you're just asking for it.

I will not tell you whether you should or should not. This isn't a forum for preaching morals or values. You have to decide that for yourself. What I will tell you is that if you're okay with getting your hands messy and possibly getting boyfriends angry at you and coming after you, then by all means, go ahead.

Some women are good at hiding affairs. They cheat on their men and their men have no clue what's going on. Others aren't so good at secrecy.

I honestly don't like getting involved with women in relationships; it just invites so much drama and unnecessary trouble.

I will say this. Even when beautiful women are single, they are never alone. Many beautiful women are never alone, but they are often lonely...

 

[Virgin101]

Ive been on this journey for more than half a year now. Seeing steady improvements. A couple of daygame lays lately and easier dates.

But statistically, a lot of the girls have boyfriends. I believe about 40 percent of women I am talking to legitimately are in a ltr. When they say this, I back off, even when I am seeing that they are interested. I dont know why, but a voice inside is saying "I dont have the skill yet", and that I should try to sleep with single girls.

Im I missing a lot of opportunities by not moving forward with these girls? I am more about getting reference points, but dont know If you need more advanced skills to pull this off. (I am starting to become intermediate now).

What are your experiences with girls in relationships? Are they as easy as single women? And of not, what kind of challenges do I need to be ready for?

I am mostly looking for short lived flings and ONS. Nothing serious.

Realistically, I think it's safe to say, that to seduce a girl in a relationship would depend on her being somewhat weak minded and easily manipulated (how else would you have any leverage?!)... as well as a certain amount of skill on your part. Although I've bedded a few girls, I've never had a girl in a relationship. At this stage, it just seems like something that happens in movies. However, I see the lads on here talk about it like it's relatively easy

 

[kristian]

Thank you for amazing replies.

I was thinking about this a lot since yesterday, and I came to the conclusion that I will try to "run my game" on a girl with boyfriend. I am very curious about the following notion: Could I seduce a girl in a ltr applying the same "game"? I can just plow through, see what happens and let it just be a ONS.

I am open for your thoughts on this.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Could I seduce a girl in a ltr applying the same "game"? I can just plow through, see what happens and let it just be a ONS.

Yeah sure man do whatever YOU want to do. You don't need our permission.

There are plenty of women out there that are only in a relationship because they don't have better options on the table. If you desire to be that better option then do that.

Survival of the fittest in my opinion man.

A good mentor of mine says that if he's in a relationship with a girl he will give her the full option to walk away if/when she finds a more valuable option (although they never do with him).

Hope that helps.

 

[JimmyB]

If a girl is really into you but has a boyfriend that she's not really into she probably WON'T BRING IT UP. I've found out after the fact that many girls I've slept with were "someone's girl" whatever that means. I have no idea and frankly don't care. I don't ask the girl and she in no way indicates she has a boyfriend. He gets pissed off and she apologizes and they make up and go back to "being boyfriend and girlfriend". This has happened multiple times - I think more often than most people realize a girl they hook up with actually has some form of a boyfriend.

I have witnessed a lot of girls that are just in a relationship because it's better than being single for them and not because she's super into the guy. If the right guy came along and swept her off her feet, she'd drop her current boyfriend without a second thought and give him the typical "I can't do this right now" speech and move on to her new man. If you're that guy who swoops in, well I say good for you.

For the most part, a girl that is in a relationship with a guy who she's really into will not put herself in a position for you to pick her up. She will prevent it from happening.
Most girls are not really into their boyfriend, frankly because so many guys are saps. If there's a girl who has a boyfriend but seems really interested in you it's probably because she is and it's on you to exceed her expectations. If she's convinced you are better, she will upgrade. Girls are always trying to do this.
Forget rules or whatever you would consider this (morals?), it's a competition and it's up to her to pick the best mate. If a girl chooses you over some guy, you're a fool to let that slip away - because it quickly will.