You can just straight up ask, it's usually no problem.
Some girls are shy about it though... or want to focus on what you want as opposed to making it about them.
A lot of women wish men were a lot better at leading in the bedroom.
Some are concerned about themselves a lot, especially if they can only get off in a certain way or only get turned on enough to have sex if certain things happen... I usually don't date girls like that long though.
"I can only get turned on enough for sex if you lick my pussy for 10 minutes while giving me a foot massage and then... wait, where are you going?"
Just start by asking her what her favorite position is and then just get into the conversation from there. That's what I usually do, anyway.
Some girls can be really hesitant about opening up about it and I'll push them a bit but they usually ultimately don't really care as long as you're getting off and dominating them while you're doing it.
Some girls need vibrators in order to get them off while having sex... kind of like a guy with porn, they've been doing it for so long they can't do it without it.
Some girls prefer anal... some girls have some shit that they're into that they won't tell you about because they're scared that you'll think less of them because of it.
I had a girl in college who liked to get peed on. I didn't particularly care for it so I didn't really do it but she was into that.
I had this girl in Seattle once who loved blood and wanted a master/slave dynamic and fantasized about getting raped by a guy in a nazi officer uniform.
I dated a girl for years who preferred anal to regular sex... I preferred regular sex but I liked it when she had a butt plug in because it would make her super tight.
I've dated girls who liked being slapped in the face... I've dated girls who like to dominate but that doesn't usually last because two doms don't make a right, ha!
Yeah, just ask her. Ask her about her favorite sex positions... any fantasies she might have... anything she wishes you would do to her.
Tell her it's a no judgement zone and that if she has anything she likes, to tell you. And it would be good for you to share your fantasies and preferences as well, preferably before she does so that she's more open to sharing.
