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I was having this thought reading Chase's latest article on how girls think, and especially the pull section. It describes at some point, how if you don't get a girl's hints and lead her to intimacy she will generally assume you are not interested and write you off. I have read about this before, also in other articles like: If you don't sleep with a girl, someone else will, and I do understand it, especially when it comes to first time sex.
My question is though if it would ever be favourable to basically tease and deny a girl altogether. My idea is that you are sexual, there is clearly tension between you two, she is giving you signs that she wants it, but you don't move towards sex. But at the same time it is clear that you could, you don't look lost or confused. I was thinking if there is a way to project this feeling of total control, that you could have her now but decide not to, in a way that keeps you attainable and makes her even more crazy for you.
I'm sure that when you just meet a girl in nightime and pull her home this would be fairly stupid, also if you are on a date and you go to have sex for the first time. I mean in these situations she knows that you want sex, and if you don't go for it, she will just be confused and you will be missing your chance for no reason. Similarly if you've known each other through social circle for a while, and you just decide to not go for sex the one time you finally get alone together.
What I was thinking is how maybe it could work, if you have already slept with a girl, and that the more regular she is in your sex life the more impact it could have. Meaning that you just meet, have fun, tease her, but leave her with blue ovaries, because you remembered you have some job to do, somewhere to attend etc. And you only do it once in a while, sometimes maybe if she has been bitchier to you than you would like. I guess it would be some light form of orgasm denial games you can have in BDSM scenarios.
And when it comes to women you have not slept with yet, I was thinking of an application of this being the situation where you are making her horny somewhere in public. Not with heavy making out or any overt moves. You just raise the sexual tension so much, that you know she craves it, but you decide to leave her like that for now with the plausible deniability of being somewhere that you cannot escalate. Maybe you are both in the middle of a conference you are attending for example, so you remain attainable because she feels you just cannot make a move there.
My idea is that she should be fairly sexually committed to you to be affected by something like this, or if not, be in a position that she does not realise you are teasing her like that deliberately to make her horny and keep her unsatisfied wanting more.
My question is though if it would ever be favourable to basically tease and deny a girl altogether. My idea is that you are sexual, there is clearly tension between you two, she is giving you signs that she wants it, but you don't move towards sex. But at the same time it is clear that you could, you don't look lost or confused. I was thinking if there is a way to project this feeling of total control, that you could have her now but decide not to, in a way that keeps you attainable and makes her even more crazy for you.
I'm sure that when you just meet a girl in nightime and pull her home this would be fairly stupid, also if you are on a date and you go to have sex for the first time. I mean in these situations she knows that you want sex, and if you don't go for it, she will just be confused and you will be missing your chance for no reason. Similarly if you've known each other through social circle for a while, and you just decide to not go for sex the one time you finally get alone together.
What I was thinking is how maybe it could work, if you have already slept with a girl, and that the more regular she is in your sex life the more impact it could have. Meaning that you just meet, have fun, tease her, but leave her with blue ovaries, because you remembered you have some job to do, somewhere to attend etc. And you only do it once in a while, sometimes maybe if she has been bitchier to you than you would like. I guess it would be some light form of orgasm denial games you can have in BDSM scenarios.
And when it comes to women you have not slept with yet, I was thinking of an application of this being the situation where you are making her horny somewhere in public. Not with heavy making out or any overt moves. You just raise the sexual tension so much, that you know she craves it, but you decide to leave her like that for now with the plausible deniability of being somewhere that you cannot escalate. Maybe you are both in the middle of a conference you are attending for example, so you remain attainable because she feels you just cannot make a move there.
My idea is that she should be fairly sexually committed to you to be affected by something like this, or if not, be in a position that she does not realise you are teasing her like that deliberately to make her horny and keep her unsatisfied wanting more.
