Should you talk to unattractive women?

[ocantu1987]

I recently started college taking a math class at night, I scope out the place and I can’t find a girl I am attracted to not even in my class, there are a bunch of unattractive women everywhere and I am feeling disappointed. Should I just talk to unattractive girls to get my social skills up?

 

[Ross]

Extremely physically attractive women typically don't go to late night math classes .

I say don't write off all the girls in that class off just yet. Attraction moves way past a simple glance and evaluation around the room.

Therefore, I present a simple task which will help you. Approach every single girl in your class after class, each class. Doesn't matter if you don't find them attractive, or do find them attractive. Just do it, with the idea of improving on a weak area in mind. Bad at creating an emotional connection? Read up an article about emotional connections and how to create them, then practice with every single person that you meet until you can make an emotional connection within mere minutes of talking to someone. Weak at opening? Same thing.

You may find yourself having an affinity for a girl or two, even if you didn't find them attractive from the outset.

 

[ocantu1987]

Thanks man! I will try what you said

 

[mkivtt]

Hmm they can't all be terrible? Surely some of them are a 6 or 7. Talk with them to improve your game... who knows, maybe one or two of them are quite interesting and have an acceptable body too

 

[Dylweed]

There's a lot of unattractive girls where i work, also attractive ones too, but i still talk to the unattractive ones too. I don't go chasing after them but i'll say hi and start a conversation. Eventually they'll start chasing after my attention and it's really easy and fun to talk to them.

 

[Estate]

IMO, if this is to become a new lifestyle for you then yes, absolutely talk to men and women in all shapes and sizes.

If you want to be that guy who appears to be hitting on every attractive woman yet ignores the guys and any girl below an "8"... it's very obvious to those around you. And it's not a good look.
You don't have a date or sleep with women you're not attracted to but if you want to build an overall better lifestyle you should befriend everyone and anyone who is a positive influence to have in your life.

Really high quality people, especially guys usually have a lot of female friends and they aren't all attractive but they make these women feel good and in turn get introduced to more women in their social circles.
The same goes for befriending men. When I see a guy hitting on al the women in our group yet actively ignoring the guys... I just don't like the guy. It's very hard for me to get past.

I wrote a long post about it recently in social circle. Same applies here.