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I arrange a date at a nice bar in the late evening with this cute student i met at a very chilled flat party a week ago.
I meet her and we greet with a kiss on the cheek. We walk in and we head to the bar. There was a moment of uncertainty when we walked in about seats first of drinks. I see a two free seats in the corner and with that sorted I lead to the bar.
We get two beers. During the wait for the drinks she kisses me on the cheek. Not too sure if that was an attempted kiss on the lips or whatever but from that moment I made a mental note that she was very into me.
We get our drinks and we sit down. And we start with conversation. The conversation isn’t dull nor dead however there is definitely room for improvement as with flirting and relating. So we talk about family, interests, hobbies and films etc. That is good. During all of this my body language is not bad. Sexy eyes and smile and attainability is being focused. When she says something interesting I look at her more. When things get boring I lean back a little.
So we continue to talk and I use touch a little on her arm and etc. Now conversation continues and so does sexual tension. She looks at my lips and I look at hers a little. Then there is a little lull in the conversation and I then go for the kiss. We then take a break and keep things calm. I don't want to escalate in the middle of the bar. So we continue to talk and drink and she gets the next round.
We continue this cycle and as time goes I decide it’s time to go home for a “movie.” So I invite her over. She agrees. Logistically i set this date up very well as it was a five minute walk to home. We head home and we sit down for the film. I leave my room to get some water and to let her get comfortable in my room. I get the film and we sit. We sit apart for a little bit until I pull her close to me. She happily comes and cuddles up to me. We talk about the film a little and I let it play for a while. We kiss a little intermittently during the film. Keeping things at a chill pace. No need to rush. Some time in the film I start making out heavily with her. I come on top of her and now we both go at it. I kiss her and she moans in pleasure and I pull her hair and play rough.
As I begin to touch her more womanly areas she tells me we can’t because she is on her period. Now I agreed to that and did not escalate further. I don't feel that I botched the escalation but feel free to tell me otherwise. Now whether this is LMR or what i don't know but since i've never been a situation where a girl says that so i don't now whether if i should frame the period sex as something dirty and continue. Again advice on that would be great. We continue to just relax together, chilling talking and kissing
escalate one more time and manage to take her top and bra off and then take another little break. She lie on top of me very happy and smiley with bedroom eyes .
I put the film back on and we watch that. During the film we make out again escalating to a certain point and then back to chilling with the film. We mix in a little pillow talk but i want to make it clear that i didn't try to remove her panties because I felt that had i tried to take it that step further and sex didn't happen then she may have rationalized that sex didn't happen because it wasn't meant to be. After the film she decides that she’s got to go. I let her after trying to get her to stay but she does say again that she doesn't want to ruin my sheets (again period, what do i say to that haha). Maybe I could have out framed her. Your opinion could be good here. I could have used a yes ladder to get her to stay the night and leave in the morning.
We agree to meet again a few days from now. My plan is dinner at hers (she offered to cook for me).
Now please do tell me what you think
I meet her and we greet with a kiss on the cheek. We walk in and we head to the bar. There was a moment of uncertainty when we walked in about seats first of drinks. I see a two free seats in the corner and with that sorted I lead to the bar.
We get two beers. During the wait for the drinks she kisses me on the cheek. Not too sure if that was an attempted kiss on the lips or whatever but from that moment I made a mental note that she was very into me.
We get our drinks and we sit down. And we start with conversation. The conversation isn’t dull nor dead however there is definitely room for improvement as with flirting and relating. So we talk about family, interests, hobbies and films etc. That is good. During all of this my body language is not bad. Sexy eyes and smile and attainability is being focused. When she says something interesting I look at her more. When things get boring I lean back a little.
So we continue to talk and I use touch a little on her arm and etc. Now conversation continues and so does sexual tension. She looks at my lips and I look at hers a little. Then there is a little lull in the conversation and I then go for the kiss. We then take a break and keep things calm. I don't want to escalate in the middle of the bar. So we continue to talk and drink and she gets the next round.
We continue this cycle and as time goes I decide it’s time to go home for a “movie.” So I invite her over. She agrees. Logistically i set this date up very well as it was a five minute walk to home. We head home and we sit down for the film. I leave my room to get some water and to let her get comfortable in my room. I get the film and we sit. We sit apart for a little bit until I pull her close to me. She happily comes and cuddles up to me. We talk about the film a little and I let it play for a while. We kiss a little intermittently during the film. Keeping things at a chill pace. No need to rush. Some time in the film I start making out heavily with her. I come on top of her and now we both go at it. I kiss her and she moans in pleasure and I pull her hair and play rough.
As I begin to touch her more womanly areas she tells me we can’t because she is on her period. Now I agreed to that and did not escalate further. I don't feel that I botched the escalation but feel free to tell me otherwise. Now whether this is LMR or what i don't know but since i've never been a situation where a girl says that so i don't now whether if i should frame the period sex as something dirty and continue. Again advice on that would be great. We continue to just relax together, chilling talking and kissing
escalate one more time and manage to take her top and bra off and then take another little break. She lie on top of me very happy and smiley with bedroom eyes .
I put the film back on and we watch that. During the film we make out again escalating to a certain point and then back to chilling with the film. We mix in a little pillow talk but i want to make it clear that i didn't try to remove her panties because I felt that had i tried to take it that step further and sex didn't happen then she may have rationalized that sex didn't happen because it wasn't meant to be. After the film she decides that she’s got to go. I let her after trying to get her to stay but she does say again that she doesn't want to ruin my sheets (again period, what do i say to that haha). Maybe I could have out framed her. Your opinion could be good here. I could have used a yes ladder to get her to stay the night and leave in the morning.
We agree to meet again a few days from now. My plan is dinner at hers (she offered to cook for me).
Now please do tell me what you think
